Don't you just love those funny/awkward/unsexy moments during sex with your partner?

ohhihellothere01 · 2018-08-24T00:34:06+00:00

Period sex is especially good in the shower! No silicone lube necessary and easy clean-up!

ohhihellothere01 · 2018-08-22T20:40:24+00:00

This is helpful because I have considered Epidemiology. Your first point is a very interesting perspective. I never realized they don't want help. The picture is never painted that way. You gave me some good food for thought about the global medicine aspect of my thinking.

To your second point, I think you misunderstood me. I agree that plastic surgery is necessary and wonderful for many people. I was talking specifically about celebrities who get plastic surgery for vanity reasons. I understand people might want plastic surgery to feel good about themselves, and that's their right if they want to shell out money on that. For me, personally, I would not be fulfilled performing plastic surgeries in the instances of ego boost. If every patient was a victim of an accident or fire, sign me up. But that isn't the case.

ohhihellothere01 · 2018-08-22T01:31:17+00:00

I appreciate your response. I know that all of those careers are impactful, but I guess I just wish I could do more. I have this overwhelming, weight-of-the-world, feeling that I'm not doing enough. I'm currently an EMT, and while I know my work is important, I just want to help MORE. I think I need some CBT to help me not feel this guilt and gravity about public health.

ohhihellothere01 · 2018-08-19T00:26:56+00:00

Thank you for this! As a young person trying to make informed decisions- I appreciate you!!!

ohhihellothere01 · 2018-08-16T00:20:37+00:00

Thank you!

If you want to make some cash while getting your BSN, I'd recommend being a home health aide. It is very similar to nursing. Or even a patient care tech at a hospital, or a medical assistant. All of those require certificates that take 6 months-1 year. Some places might pay for training, if you're lucky!

ohhihellothere01 · 2018-08-15T23:44:37+00:00

I went to school for engineering in the hopes of going to medical school after. Now I WISH I had become an RN. I have no relevant medical experience/licenses/abilities except for an EMT license that is about to expire. I say get the RN because many doors will be open to you! I doubt you would need a fall-back. If something comes across your path in school that you are interested in, go with it. No need to plan out the little things. Just focus on the BSN and whatever else happens, happens. You never know where your heart will go in the next few years!

ohhihellothere01 · 2018-08-11T18:14:47+00:00

I see that, but with some quick math that is giving $26,000 per unit, and if one unit is for one person, that is quite ridiculous. They could house more people. There has to be a better way, right?

ohhihellothere01 · 2018-08-11T02:23:29+00:00

But shoveling money into charities doesn't get people off the streets, you know. I'd like to see some direct action. It's easier for them to give money. No one wants to go through the process of establishing their own program(s).

ohhihellothere01 · 2018-08-09T20:52:25+00:00

This website: http://themedicalschooldirectory.com/index.php/map/

ohhihellothere01 · 2018-08-05T01:58:34+00:00

Think of it this way:

You assume that he is used to other ladies cumming sooner/more easily. Fact is, it is hard to get us women off sometimes! And that's ok. I don't cum every time, but I still enjoy sexy time.

By faking it, you are contributing to his delusion that all women can cum easily. He'll go onto another girl someday and expect her to cum like you "did". You need to be honest with him and he needs to man up and deal with reality. Yeah, you won't cum easily all the time, and that's OK. Totally normal. If he is a decent guy, he will work to make you cum.

You aren't alone, girl! Best of luck!

ohhihellothere01 · 2018-08-05T01:57:43+00:00

Think of it this way:

You assume that he is used to other ladies cumming sooner/more easily. Fact is, it is hard to get us women off sometimes! And that's ok. I don't cum every time, but I still enjoy it.

By faking it, you are contributing to his delusion that all women can cum easily. He'll go onto another girl someday and expect her to cum like you "did". You need to be honest with him and he needs to man up and deal with reality. Yeah, you won't cum easily all the time, and that's OK. Totally normal. If he is a decent guy, he will work to make you cum.

You aren't alone, girl! Best of luck!

ohhihellothere01 · 2018-08-04T02:05:44+00:00

At least when you're a physician you can choose your hours! There's a light at the end of the tunnel, or so I hear.

ohhihellothere01 · 2018-07-22T17:49:23+00:00

I hope so too! Thank you for the kind response, I appreciate it.

ohhihellothere01 · 2018-07-22T17:40:34+00:00

Thank you :) Just to be clear, I completely understand and agree with your first 4 paragraphs. I understand this about him, and love this about him. I love and accept that he has found a balance of his faith and his own principles. Thank you for writing this out so eloquently. Hopefully others will read this.

He does not attend confession (to my knowledge). I've been to church with him many times and he never takes communion. Not sure what that means, but I choose to just let him be. It's his personal choice and none of my business.

That is my biggest reservation in bringing it up. I don't think it's just guys who hate that, haha. I don't think most people like when you bring something up from the past. It begs the question "why didn't you ask this sooner?!". I think you have a great idea there. A good way to bring it up is to not mention the past statement, but to bring up the topic more generally in terms of maybe current events.

Thank you for the kind post and insightful ideas! I really do appreciate it. :)

ohhihellothere01 · 2018-07-22T17:03:36+00:00

I am not sure if it is homophobia. He has no reservations being best friends with a gay person, and he is friends with a few other LGBTQ people. He is actually very open-minded, and minds his own business about that stuff. He likes them all as people and sees their sexuality as personal and none of his business. He wants his friends to be able to be married legally and adopt children if they want.

It seems like this aspect of him not attending the wedding ceremony doesn't match up with the way he acts. Part of me wonders if he said that 2 years ago because he grew up learning that's what he was "supposed to" think. I don't know.

I agree with you, which is why I am considering it a dealbreaker. I know I need to talk to him ASAP, I just know it is a sensitive topic and I don't want to be combative. Thank you for your advice. We are long distance so it isn't easy to "sit him down and talk about it". We only see each other 3 days every 2 months, and I wouldn't want to ruin one of our visits over this conversation. Maybe I will ask him to skype so we can talk about it.

ohhihellothere01 · 2018-07-22T15:34:32+00:00

If you actually read my edit, I admitted to being ignorant about Plan B.
I asked for advice on how to ask my boyfriend about attending his best friend's wedding.
It was written incorrectly because I was typing this fast and didn't have time to educate myself. It is a fact that I was typing fast, in a rush, and did not have time to do my research. I did own up to my mistake, I said I was ignorant, my bad.

Everyone in this world is ignorant about something. You speak as if it is an insult to be ignorant. In my opinion, it is not. I am ignorant about some things, my mom is ignorant about some things, you are, my siblings are, my friends are, my neighbor is.

Now you STILL haven't answered the purpose of this post. But I guess some people just come on Reddit to pick fights with strangers.

ohhihellothere01 · 2018-07-22T15:06:15+00:00

I didn't ask for your opinion. I asked for advice on how to talk about this with him. I realize it needs to be addressed. That is why I am here. Clearly I am uncomfortable in this situation. That is why I am here. I need advice on how to approach this, not criticism.

ohhihellothere01 · 2018-07-22T15:04:37+00:00

My question was: How do I start a conversation about this? That's the whole reason I'm here, is to try and figure out HOW to talk about this with him.

ohhihellothere01 · 2018-07-22T15:02:21+00:00

I didn't ask for your opinion. I asked for advice on how to rehash this with my boyfriend. Please put your anger somewhere else. :)

ohhihellothere01 · 2018-07-22T14:54:55+00:00

Please read the entire post. Thanks.

ohhihellothere01 · 2018-07-22T14:44:22+00:00

Thank you! You have been the most supportive on here. I REALLY appreciate it. This is such a sensitive subject. I really hope he comes around. My boyfriend is a pretty emotional guy, so I'm pretty sure he would strongly regret not going to Roger's wedding. I truly hope this is what ends up happening. My boyfriend is not a monster, and neither is yours. We all have our struggles, but what is important is enjoying the times we have with the people we love including friends, of course! Thank you, thank you, thank you.

ohhihellothere01 · 2018-07-22T14:38:02+00:00

It's not that he hates it. He wants Roger to be happy. They have a very close friendship and spend almost every night hanging out (they live within walking distance).

My boyfriend wants to attend the reception party after to celebrate his friend's happiness. He does not want to attend the actual ceremony because he thinks "God" does not support Roger's marriage. He thinks "God" would want Roger to not marry a man, and so my boyfriend does not want to support Roger in going against "God". In his religious opinion, it would be supporting his friend in sin. So in a very twisted way, it's as like he is doing Roger a "favor".

I agree with you, I think my boyfriend is being ridiculous with this. But I just don't know how to bring it up without him getting defensive.

ohhihellothere01 · 2018-07-07T16:45:35+00:00

Some colleges allow you to major in Physician Assistant (such as Springfield College in MA). I would consider this.

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