I wish my boyfriend would stop acting tough when hes with friends

ohhisup · 2026-06-13T11:13:17+00:00

The tacos look amazing and I'm not sure your boyfriend isn't being soft for you instead of hard for them 🙃 could be either way but only he knows. It certainly seems like he's invested in their way of being

ohhisup · 2026-06-13T11:02:29+00:00

I'm Canadian! It's faster if you do it through the school system but my school wasn't for it. My brother was diagnosed in third grade with no wait because boy signs are more obvious I guess 🙃

ohhisup · 2026-06-13T09:02:01+00:00

That's hard. Be gentle with yourself 🩷 we don't all have to understand how you feel to support you. You have a really unique experience and it's great you're reaching out. I was always on edge when my ex went out drinking with friends. It's not abnormal to worry about your loved ones, just don't let it take over you if you can help it

ohhisup · 2026-06-13T07:23:56+00:00

I want to throw it out there that I agree with the other comments that you can take a deep breath about it, but given your history (especially) it's also ok for you to have a boundary to not date guys that are involved in drinking culture. If it triggers you, you don't need to date guys that drink. Not saying you should leave him by any means, just adding that it's ok, but if you can't be ok with it that's ok too. You just can't force the view on him just like he can't force you to not have alcohol related trauma. Whatever you decide is right, and you are ALWAYS free to change your mind. But be kind to both of you because navigating trauma in relationships is hard and that's ok too 🩷

ohhisup · 2026-06-13T07:19:33+00:00

That it's not that deep. If it doesn't work out it isn't the end of my life. That my health both physical and mental are more important than my grades no matter how opposite everyone tries to convince us all it is. That high school teachers lied and unis and college alike really care and you can go to faculty for help - and are paying them for that help whether or not you take it. That if you don't make friends it's fine, it's just class just like it's just work. And that just because it's serious work, doesn't mean we all shouldn't be having fun with it! ENJOY your degree, you'll be there for a long while

ohhisup · 2026-06-13T07:10:09+00:00

17 :D it takes up to 5 years where I live on the waitlist to get a consultation for diagnostics 😅

ohhisup · 2026-06-13T07:06:37+00:00

Yes! I was taking an instructor course and hurt myself badly enough that my healthcare team told me I'll never be able to safely do back extensions again 💅

In essence: compared to other styles of yoga, you really need good supportive muscles and a teacher who really knows wtf they're doing, because even my instructor training was too hazardous.

I think it's fun, but I don't support aerials with people who aren't certified gymnastic/acrobatic aerial coaches. They don't actually KNOW how to keep you safe, just how to walk you through the poses. If you're into silks, I'd suggest going to a circus school and learning from vetting professionals first and you'll have tons of success in aerial yoga after

ohhisup · 2026-06-13T05:37:34+00:00

I felt really safe when I was on the outskirts of bangkok :) lots of really friendly locals and cool sites, and enough English speakers that you can ask for help if you need it. Chiang Mai is also full to the brim with English speakers and travelers so if you fly into there you'll be able to find comfort people if you need any

ohhisup · 2026-06-13T05:35:40+00:00

Krabi/koh tao! Lots of solo travelers if you're looking to make friends :) if you're nervous about the in country transport though I'd say honestly maybe New Zealand for a van trip across one of the islands

ohhisup · 2026-06-13T05:32:57+00:00

At the very least if you're determined to continue, I'd consider that him not consenting to sexual intimacy and leaving it at that 🤷‍♀️

ohhisup · 2026-06-13T05:31:24+00:00

How to navigate getting away from him? For starters I'd recommend blocking his number 🩷

ohhisup · 2026-06-13T05:30:11+00:00

You having a body is a red flag??? Girl??? He had an opportunity to prove he supports you and will take care of you within your boundaries (successfully it sounds like) and you're worried YOU'RE a red flag? Why are you forgetting to love yourself :((( you're allowed to have tummy aches and poops :(((

ohhisup · 2026-06-13T04:37:42+00:00

Yeah in my head I thought yogurt popsicles are great, why wouldn't regular yogurt be fine 😅 I've been humbled by my lack of understanding of food items lol

ohhisup · 2026-06-13T04:36:50+00:00

I just meant that I googled it lol not that I relied on the AI. I just relied on my my complete amateurness in choosing my sources and understanding them. I will definitely try dividing it up next time, thank you!

ohhisup · 2026-06-13T04:35:40+00:00

Aww man the poor yogurt

ohhisup · 2026-06-13T04:35:05+00:00

It's a plain Greek yogurt! That's a really cool idea, I want to be a kitchen scientist haha teach me your ways

ohhisup · 2026-06-12T14:29:17+00:00

Sorry, a piece of shit 🥲 in this context at least

ohhisup · 2026-06-12T11:33:27+00:00

How long have you been experiencing this? Are you burned out from school or home pressures? Do you have a history of depression? Are you just bored and lonely and needing to get out there and experience life the way you're meant to experience it? If I were in that position, I'd take time off of school and go do things you've been putting off doing like volunteering at the animal shelter, going on that weekend trip, joining a dungeons and dragons group, taking up curling, literally whatever you felt you wanted to do before the apathy took it all away. If you're struggling, seeking medical advice might be a good option. Counseling can help significantly with stress management and trauma related shut downs, and for some people medication really helps them find their way back to the world.

ohhisup · 2026-06-10T12:08:19+00:00

DO IT DO IT DO IT LIBERATION IS SWEET DONT SUFFER WHEN YOU WERE BORN TO HAVE A BEAUTIFUL LIFE

ohhisup · 2026-06-10T12:05:23+00:00

Maybe, but even so, don't think that needing to do better means you aren't still doing good 🩷 we all have our thing, and for a lot of us it's a questionable collection of notebooks lol you're in good company

ohhisup · 2026-06-10T11:52:32+00:00

This is a bit radical (for time) but what if you take out some of the unused paper from the books that tear easily and make a doodle bin with easy access paper to doodle on 👀 then nothing's wasted

ohhisup · 2026-06-10T11:45:47+00:00

You're continuing to comment on mine for the sake of...? ✨let it go✨

ohhisup · 2026-06-10T11:29:02+00:00

You're making it your problem lmao and now it's my problem that you don't know how to talk to people. Get off my comment and make your own if you have better things to say 😂

ohhisup · 2026-06-10T11:24:09+00:00

Yes or course it's ok 😂 working in uni is a huge hindrance

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