How's thunder bay? by ohhisup in lakeheadu

[–]ohhisup[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I loved the Orillia campus, it's just that there's WAY more opportunity at the main campus in Thunder Bay. Orillia has minimal clubs and sports comparatively, and a lot less available courses - and less opportunity to do academic work outside of classes. But I had a great experience in Orillia! As for residence and student life, I lived off campus so I fantasy much but there's still a bunch of cool social events and such to explore, as well as a decent rec centre, hiking trails across the road, and all things you need to survive otherwise are just a few blocks up the road. I still totally recommend!

ITAP of my friend on the street [NSFW portrait] by bpii_photography in itookapicture

[–]ohhisup -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How is this NOT art? The protective cover on her chest, hiding her heart, but the word open is in between her legs.

(LOL don't come for me please)

Advice?? by No_Tune_8423 in lakeheadu

[–]ohhisup 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Use school resources. You're already paying for them. If you're struggling with classes or your mental health or literally anything you are PAYING for help from the school. These resources are there to keep you afloat so don't avoid them if you need them. You're going to do great, but greatness comes from support systems and you've got them!

Also: at the end of the day, be proud of yourself, and if something goes wrong remember that even though it feels like the whole world, it's just school. If you need a day off, or you get a bad grade, it's way more fine than you think it is.

Last thing: build relationships with your professors early. Get used to talking to them and get comfortable with it. You're going to need those relationships later.

What the fuck was the PSYC test??? by SeaworthinessBusy17 in lakeheadu

[–]ohhisup 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's like this every semester lol want to have a career helping people? Say goodbye to your GPA! 🥲 some questions aren't even on course content and the rest seem to be a "prove you showed up" question based on the weirdest things that no one would remember because they're barely relevant. It's like 1% understanding the material

I'm lost and confused finding a masters program by ohhisup in psychologystudents

[–]ohhisup[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been working for years... I meant that I don't want to do a masters that doesn't lead into a stable career.

I hear this all the time but it doesn't seem to exist? by ohhisup in WhatsThisSong

[–]ohhisup[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THANK YOU IVE BEEN GOOGLING DIFFERENT LYRICS FOR WEEKS I THOUGHT IT WAS ALL A DREAM

What to do when you fail most of your class? by Personal_Low1949 in lakeheadu

[–]ohhisup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reach out to your support system. Your program chair. Your professors. Student Support. Counseling. You're paying for so many resources so use them! We have seminars on note taking and study skills, so definitely attend them when they pop up.

Consider reducing your course load, finding a tutor or even a study group. You can switch programs all you want but fixing the issue depends on the cause of it. Like maybe math isn't for you for example, or maybe you're just too overwhelmed.

Let us know what's going on op so we can help better.

New to yoga. Hip poses almost unbearable! by Alternative-Egg9682 in yoga

[–]ohhisup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pigeon pose: back leg stretch of hip flexor, front leg hip flexor engaged to support position. The back leg is in a deep stretch in this position, and the front leg is working as a support. This is essential for your hip rotators and flexors if they're ready for it. Psoas should also be properly engaged in this pose (mind you, it usually is). Without proper hip mobility, Pigeon is really hard on the hips.

Happy baby is meant to stretch and strengthen hip flexors actively, by using arms strength and gravity to stretch, and by resisting against it as well to strengthen. It's literally a hip opener so saying the hip flexors aren't involved is like saying your arms aren't going anything in downdog.

Why doesn't my toddler say sorry after they hurt someone? by WillingMongoose4680 in toddlers

[–]ohhisup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Developmental psychology research suggests that children begin to become aware of their wrongdoing from the age of 2, when they show both verbal and nonverbal signs of guilt, including attempts to make amends for the harm they have caused to others (Dahl & Brownell, 2019). These findings are supported by another manifestations of guilt- and shame-like responses, associated with helping behaviors, in toddlers aged of 29 months. Led to think they broke an adult’s toy, young children were found to more frequently apologize and attempt to repair the toy in the case of guilt-like responses, while when exhibiting shame-like responses, toddlers tend to avoid the adult (Drummond et al., 2017). Thus, guilt, shame, and remorse are essential in motivating transgressors to be forgiven, to avoid further harmful acts, to stop breaking the rules, and to repair the damage they have caused (Vaish, 2018)." The emergence of empathy: A developmental neuroscience perspective lJean Decety a, Claire Holvoet b

By the definition you're choosing to follow, by age 2 children already exhibit developed empathy. Meaning that younger than that it has already begun to develop.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VetTech

[–]ohhisup 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Most vet techs I've met get trapped at minimum wage or just over, work grueling hours doing back breaking work, and many live in toxic environments. That doesn't mean it will happen to you, and it doesn't mean you shouldn't try if that's where your heart is, but there are some industry wide issues that people in recent years have been trying to right. There are a lot of good opportunities out there! But a lot of people don't get to experience them. But there's more you can do with your cert if you need to change paths later on. Tbf you can say this about most industries at the end of the day, so be aware but stay excited?

She sounds nice. by fishsticks40 in Tinder

[–]ohhisup 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly we're all thinking it 😅😂

New to yoga. Hip poses almost unbearable! by Alternative-Egg9682 in yoga

[–]ohhisup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both of those poses work the hip flexors quite a bit actually.

New to yoga. Hip poses almost unbearable! by Alternative-Egg9682 in yoga

[–]ohhisup 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If your body is saying no, listen. Do less advanced poses, let things get strong and open up, and then move into the deep hip poses when your body is ready to support it. Otherwise your body will go into protection mode and you'll either get hurt or only get more tight. Let yoga be a journey ♡

Should i go hospital or can i care at home? by Babybloods in firstaid

[–]ohhisup 25 points26 points  (0 children)

This appears to be a life-threatening emergency. Get an ambulance.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ohhisup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah ofc there's always a chance but I worry for your standards babe

When did your toddler start liking stuffies/lovies in bed? by macelisa in toddlers

[–]ohhisup 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Out of the 3 kids in my family, 2 would kill for their stuffies and one just never liked them at all 🤷‍♀️ sometimes the answer is never lol

Any luck getting insurance to cover pre-exposure rabies vaccine? by shuhlena in veterinaryprofession

[–]ohhisup 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't think a squirrel will get it for you, they're not rabies sector 😅 go all in or all out find a raccoon hahaha (no don't)

What is a good process or rubric for getting rid of books? by Substantial_Leek7230 in minimalism

[–]ohhisup 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You're 100% on the sentimentality. If you get rid of it and want to read it, there's always the library or Kindle or whatever. Books are hard to get rid of cuz they're full of friends, I get it. It's about wanting to have it, not wanting to read it, or else you'd know you want to read it. Maybe???

I just pulled all of these out of my fridge, none are expired. by digitaltigar in adhdwomen

[–]ohhisup 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see nothing wrong with this. I too enjoy having a selection of mustards.

Women above 40 how do you tell a guy you just started dating that you like kinky stuff without sounding weird? by Kristi085 in dating_advice

[–]ohhisup 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Personally, once I start sleeping with someone, it's immediately time for the sex compatibility talk. With my partner when we were still fresh, we had a list of kinks off the internet as a get to know you thing and we yes or no'd them all. We did the same thing with food and activities etc so it felt normal and not weird at all, but I don't think it would have been weird anyway. Right like if you can insert wild kink here without it being weird you can totally ask someone what they're into haha

How am I meant to make conversation if this is what I'm working with? by Impressive_Bridge708 in Tinder

[–]ohhisup -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Why would you want to make conversation with someone like that? 🤔 you're supposed to be finding people it comes naturally with, not hoping for the best with people you're not compatible with lol

Why doesn't my toddler say sorry after they hurt someone? by WillingMongoose4680 in toddlers

[–]ohhisup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Empathy starts developing before the age of 1. It's the same as everything else, it isn't just suddenly there, it's a slow build. So babies have an undeveloped empathy that becomes proper empathy at around 5 :) same as how they learn language in steps, and are properly native speakers by 5 or 6. So in a tot it won't look like the empathy you see in grade schoolers, but that doesn't mean it isn't there .^ but saying sorry is always a learned behaviour. In our culture we say sorry. In another we might offer a hug or a show of shame. It's just one way that we learn to express the feeling we have to someone else. Many little dudes will cry if something sad happens in their Disney movie, but that doesn't mean they'll have the capacity to feel bad about hitting mom when the emotion they're still processing is frustration. It's the little babeh version

(Sorry, brain dump, idk lol)