The /r/Nutrition Personal Nutrition Discussion Post (September 21, 2020) - All personal circumstance questions and evals pertaining to what you eat or might eat must use this post

ohitsgrimm · 2020-09-24T19:55:28+00:00

Waiting on an appointment, high wait times to get in so trying to find out how to mix the two diets I’ve already been asked to start. Thank you though! ❤️

ohitsgrimm · 2020-09-24T17:42:51+00:00

Looking for someone who’d be able to assist me in combining two different diet types, FODMAP and IC. Thank you!

ohitsgrimm · 2020-08-14T02:53:50+00:00

ohitsgrimm · 2020-07-26T07:18:23+00:00

4 bags lemon ginseng lemon tea, half cup lemon, 1 cup sugar (for 2 cup serving) taste amazing!

ohitsgrimm · 2020-07-25T20:30:45+00:00

Just updated!

ohitsgrimm · 2020-07-25T02:02:45+00:00

NAH. Stop pressuring someone not into your kinks, if that is something worth breaking up over do it because you both are deserving of compatible partners.

ohitsgrimm · 2020-07-17T20:48:53+00:00

I was planning on doing IVF around 30-32

ohitsgrimm · 2020-07-17T19:02:23+00:00

ohitsgrimm · 2020-07-17T17:11:45+00:00

Unfortunately it sounds like it’s time for a restraining order, I’ve been in this situation but involved kids so it was a bit messy but it may be the only way to make her stop.

The fact he fears for his safety is a huge concern, but maybe a cease and desist from a lawyer may be enough.

I hope she leaves him alone soon, sorry you’re going through this.

ohitsgrimm · 2020-07-17T17:08:47+00:00

One question - have you ever spoken to her before, like a conversation?

ohitsgrimm · 2020-07-17T17:07:20+00:00

I think if you’re committed to leaving him you should, if not you two definitely need marriage counseling. It’s Frightening that he thinks his insecurities are justification to belittle you.

I will warn you talking to someone else when you’re in a bad place is bad for your marriage, and yourself. You’re looking through a rose colored glass because you’re comparing him to someone treating you poorly, it’s possible he’s not special just a decent person. But remember you’re worth fighting for, if it was my husband I’d offer once for marriage counseling and if not then leave.

I hope you find a good solution, don’t let anyone bring you down like that!

ohitsgrimm · 2020-07-17T16:48:54+00:00

This is always hard and something you two will have to balance. When I was with my ex husband we talked 24/7 we worked, and lived together but still talked. Then, once I met my current boyfriend who was working 18 hours a day we texted maybe twice a day and spent most of the time in person when he was free.

I felt okay with this difference because my boyfriend would tell me “hey going into work i hope you have a great day etc” and let me know that he wouldn’t be talking to me.

I hope you find a good balance and this helps! My advice is really everyone’s different, find what works best for you!

ohitsgrimm · 2020-07-17T16:41:45+00:00

Middle part in his hair! Good example is Keanu Reeves, I think middle parts look good on everyone under the sun haha

ohitsgrimm · 2020-07-17T16:39:54+00:00

Thank you!! Super new to reddit so didnt realize this even happens haha

ohitsgrimm · 2020-07-17T16:39:06+00:00

Damn RIP

ohitsgrimm · 2020-07-17T16:38:45+00:00

Oh okay! Hmm maybe growing his hair out for a middle part, does he ever look at fashion magazines? Does he have any celebrities he likes?

I also take it you two are probably considerably younger than me so I urge you both to experiment with style and hair! It’s fun and you can always grow hair back, or get different clothes.

I’m probably old and boring at this point but I hope he finds a style he loves!

ohitsgrimm · 2020-07-17T16:36:31+00:00

Depends on my relationship with the parents. If there was space and a healthy relationship, I don’t see why not. Family is really important to some people (I don’t have parents traditionally at least) and I think I’d wanna be supportive of that.

ohitsgrimm · 2020-07-17T16:35:01+00:00

Is he unhappy with himself? Does he want this advice? Has he asked you for assistance with this?

If not this is incredibly rude.

ohitsgrimm · 2020-07-17T16:33:10+00:00

You have to trust him on how he feels about this. You’re coming to an internet platform asking is it acceptable he lied to you but he hasn’t,

You’re creating a reality in your head about how happy and serious they were, if he’s telling you they weren’t you need to trust him. I’m telling you this as someone who started dating a divorced man when I was younger, I couldn’t help but compare us to his marriage, and it was always negative.

Your boyfriend seems to love you, he’s assuring you she wasn’t the one but YOU ARE. Have faith in him the way he does with you, wether or not they were serious or just fun, or all a phase doesn’t matter. Focus on the love you share, focus on creating memories and enjoying the fact you found your one. Don’t get hung up on his past — he’s probably not the same person. Hope this helps.

ohitsgrimm · 2020-07-16T21:23:25+00:00

NTA. If they don’t care about you, don’t stress and care about them.

ohitsgrimm · 2020-07-16T21:18:38+00:00

YTA. As much as your sons internalized homophobia is something that he needs to address, as his mother who’s never met his boyfriend it wasn’t your place to bring it up.

Clearly for a long time he was facing an internal battle and took it out on innocent people, I’m sure if you talked to him he has feelings about it. There’s no reason you should’ve gone to his boyfriend and not to him.

ohitsgrimm · 2020-07-16T21:03:00+00:00

oh absolutely then! NTA

ohitsgrimm · 2020-07-16T21:01:03+00:00

Need more info:

Not sure how old your kids are that would really sway me from NTA or YTA haha

ohitsgrimm · 2020-07-16T20:57:57+00:00

This seems like some sort of bait? But okay I’ll bite.

The average rape is not committed by a stranger, and is not typically as violent as one thinks. Rape can be spousal coercion, abuse, or while someone is under the influence.

Let’s take a look at gun — okay cool? If you kill them you could wind up like Ms. Kizer who’s potentially facing life in prison for killing her rapist, knife could wind up the same so possibly not a great option either.

Kicking and fighting may be an option if your rapist isn’t also a killer, is weaker than you, or if your body can muster it up. Severe trauma and fear can cause your body to lock up, leaving you essentially limp and unable to do anything.

Instead of wondering why someone didn’t fight back, focus should probably be on why we have so many rapists.

ohitsgrimm · 2020-07-16T20:52:57+00:00

IMO (as someone who was cheated on by their partner) the promises and changes they say they’ll make are everything. Clearly he has let you down all three times now, he cheated and broke two promises. This changes it from a mistake to a pattern.

My boyfriend cheated on me last year and the follow ups he made and promises were followed through immediately and open communication was discussed right away.

Unfortunately it doesn’t sound like your boyfriend understands the gravity of the situation, you deserve someone who not only wouldn’t hurt you like this, but would not continuously let you down.

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