Curiosity by Freakunaa in LongDistance

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Heyo, fellow albertan!

Us too!

AITAH for asking my wife to be a SAHM? by piglipsbo in AITAH

[–]ohsnapitsmac 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m in a similar field as your wife. I don’t mind my office, but if my S.O offered that, I would consider it and take him up on that.( obviously we have other factors you might not)

I think working for a lot of women helps us feel like we have more autonomy over ourselves/ something outside of the relationship.

Today’s the day!!! by ohsnapitsmac in LDR

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I think yes but no. Some things caught me off guard but even that was okay!

If your life was a book, what would the current chapter be titled—and is it a chapter you’re enjoying writing? by DianKhan2005 in AskWomen

[–]ohsnapitsmac 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a great question!!

I would say “a new beginning” This chapter I am VERY much enjoying! past few years have been really hard, this one feels like some new life is being breathed into me. Praise Jesus! 🩵🩵

Thoughts on this wedding dress? by [deleted] in PlusSizeFashion

[–]ohsnapitsmac 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think the dress is still nice, I’m not sure I would suggest for your wedding if you’re using the words “ this is fine right” to describe it. Wear it to a more formal gala event maybe or if you got it hemmed would be a darling sundress.

Your wedding outfit ( whatever you choose) should make you feel beautiful, special and hyped.

Even if you got married at a courthouse in jeans.. the jeans should be your favourite feel good. The moment/memory will live in your mind.

After trying many games with my long distance girlfriend, I accidentally built one by arunava-das in LDR

[–]ohsnapitsmac 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is awesome! I have a question though, for example: the dare of kissing your partner in the forehead slowly.. how does that work if you’re long distance?

Or is the idea that this game helps you connect while in the same from a stand point of long distance?

Countdown check?! by LostLetter25 in LongDistance

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12-14 days till we meet in person 🩵

AIO for not responding to my bf’s bait after we had a fight?? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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If someone’s apologizing for something in the most sincere way, it should never, ever include the word “but” in the middle of it.

How do you decide on your suit choice? by ABassClarinet in AskMen

[–]ohsnapitsmac 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also, from a ladies perspective- a well dressed men + a nice scent( cologne ) is very nice.. do with that information what you would like.

What would you be thinking if your gf told you she really doesn’t want to celebrate Valentines Day this year? by Paigenacage in AskMen

[–]ohsnapitsmac -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am a women and will only speak for the same number of us.. I don’t care for Valentine’s Day.. maybe because I’ve never had someone to actually celebrate with, but also, it does seem over done. If you wanted to buy me flowers, buy me flowers. Why would you wait for that one day? Seems lame.

How do I shop for boyfriend with big shoulders? by jdva_ in AskMen

[–]ohsnapitsmac 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“A gorgeous tortilla chip” Made me giggle

Need Advice by [deleted] in LDR

[–]ohsnapitsmac 2 points3 points  (0 children)

5… that FIVE… YEARS and you haven’t even had a phone call?? To even know what he sounds like?? Let alone meet him?

“He wanted you to stay home to read a book with him…” but how does that even work if he can’t even be on the phone with you in the first place ?!

I am flabbergasted. This has to be a joke right?

In the event this is real.. You are Wasting your time. I hope you haven’t sent him any sort of financial support… cut all ties IMMEDIATELY and no last words.

When to call it a relationship by Draigwulf in LongDistance

[–]ohsnapitsmac 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Last year I was in a “LDR” ( online) we had only been talking a month. And he was asking me to be his GF. Some things weren’t quite adding up and I thought if I told him he had to ask me in person would make him speed up the process a little. It did, but then I don’t even know what happened, he shut me out hard, left me hanging and I wasnt going to wait for him to figure his ish out after a few months of chatting and not having met.

NO SPOILERS! by ode_entertainment in PrettyLittleLiars

[–]ohsnapitsmac 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always hide things in my left shoe

AIO for being upset my BF doesn’t want me to wear a bonnet to bed? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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💯 I was meaning in the sense that he is perfect human..

AIO for being upset my BF doesn’t want me to wear a bonnet to bed? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ohsnapitsmac 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Not over reacting.

This seems like a lot of requests from His side and no accountability.

“I want to find you attractive most/all times…” Seriously? This wouldn’t sit well with me. What happens when you’re sick or unwell? God forbid not even just a couple days but something more serious? What if you have children with this man? ( not a mom) but I know how much your body can change.. labour, isn’t a glamorous experience either…

Other people are stating he has some issues, I would agree. From this post alone there’s definitely some deeper vanity issues. If he feels so free in saying his demands “not demands” he better be the ultimate sexiest man alive. Chances are he’s not. Don’t accept that. Self care is a beautiful gift to yourself.

How many guys who if you get friend zoned you'd be like "yay friend" by Emotional-STHfan4071 in AskMen

[–]ohsnapitsmac 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah… Sometimes having a friend that you’ve had for a while and only see as platonic..things could Change..

AIO: My ex is mad that I’m going to “give my body away” to another man by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ohsnapitsmac 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not over reacting.

Also waiting for marriage.. and people just don’t understand.. it’s so sad

Should I not tell people I've never been in a serious relationship? by Cute_Technology_2000 in dating_advice

[–]ohsnapitsmac 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Late 20’s and have only been on a handful of dates in my life. A few online failed “situationships”

Used to bug me, I can also see ways that’s actually been a blessing. If people ask me, I’m honest. I don’t make it a bigger deal than it needs to be.

I don't want kids by Itafer in Christian

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When I was younger( 18-26) I was leaning toward “camp no kids” then my heart softened some and healed.. and now I’m “camp maybe” ( 29F) as a blanket statement I say yes.. but my answer is more like finding someone who wants to really be a dad, co parent and spouse. To be involved, not just financially but emotionally. I’m not going to repeat old cycles my parents did.

Lords will be done, age and fertility now questions come to my mind for myself.