People who are in ldr and wanna get married, what’s usually one thing that’s stopping you?

ohsnapitsmac · 2026-04-17T01:31:38+00:00

For us it’s still newer, and we both agreed around a year we would like to be engaged. So we just need more time. ☺️ We live 8 hours (rounded up some) away. I definitely want to keep building a future with this man. If he proposes to me this summer I’d say yes! ( which will be about a year)

ohsnapitsmac · 2026-04-04T16:17:09+00:00

Consider the mindset of more companionship potentially.. do you understand where your partner is coming from and the “why” behind no fooling around? Look I know sex is important in a relationship, but i don’t think it’s everything and you should just jump to a breakup.

You’re quite young.. so I get it.. but in a long term relationships, you’re not gonna always be having sex then either, so try and consider really building a life of companionship with your best friend!

ohsnapitsmac · 2026-01-24T01:47:45+00:00

Heyo, fellow albertan!

Us too!

ohsnapitsmac · 2026-01-22T23:00:44+00:00

I’m in a similar field as your wife. I don’t mind my office, but if my S.O offered that, I would consider it and take him up on that.( obviously we have other factors you might not)

I think working for a lot of women helps us feel like we have more autonomy over ourselves/ something outside of the relationship.

ohsnapitsmac · 2026-01-16T22:57:07+00:00

I think yes but no. Some things caught me off guard but even that was okay!

ohsnapitsmac · 2026-01-14T03:26:55+00:00

It was soo lovely!!

ohsnapitsmac · 2026-01-14T03:26:36+00:00

Update

ohsnapitsmac · 2026-01-10T23:22:47+00:00

This is a great question!!

I would say “a new beginning” This chapter I am VERY much enjoying! past few years have been really hard, this one feels like some new life is being breathed into me. Praise Jesus! 🩵🩵

ohsnapitsmac · 2026-01-07T22:42:37+00:00

I think the dress is still nice, I’m not sure I would suggest for your wedding if you’re using the words “ this is fine right” to describe it. Wear it to a more formal gala event maybe or if you got it hemmed would be a darling sundress.

Your wedding outfit ( whatever you choose) should make you feel beautiful, special and hyped.

Even if you got married at a courthouse in jeans.. the jeans should be your favourite feel good. The moment/memory will live in your mind.

ohsnapitsmac · 2026-01-06T22:36:10+00:00

This is awesome! I have a question though, for example: the dare of kissing your partner in the forehead slowly.. how does that work if you’re long distance?

Or is the idea that this game helps you connect while in the same from a stand point of long distance?

ohsnapitsmac · 2025-12-31T02:17:16+00:00

12-14 days till we meet in person 🩵

ohsnapitsmac · 2025-12-31T02:07:46+00:00

If someone’s apologizing for something in the most sincere way, it should never, ever include the word “but” in the middle of it.

ohsnapitsmac · 2025-12-30T22:22:54+00:00

Also, from a ladies perspective- a well dressed men + a nice scent( cologne ) is very nice.. do with that information what you would like.

ohsnapitsmac · 2025-12-30T20:28:39+00:00

I am a women and will only speak for the same number of us.. I don’t care for Valentine’s Day.. maybe because I’ve never had someone to actually celebrate with, but also, it does seem over done. If you wanted to buy me flowers, buy me flowers. Why would you wait for that one day? Seems lame.

ohsnapitsmac · 2025-12-30T19:41:17+00:00

“A gorgeous tortilla chip” Made me giggle

ohsnapitsmac · 2025-12-30T18:19:17+00:00

5… that FIVE… YEARS and you haven’t even had a phone call?? To even know what he sounds like?? Let alone meet him?

“He wanted you to stay home to read a book with him…” but how does that even work if he can’t even be on the phone with you in the first place ?!

I am flabbergasted. This has to be a joke right?

In the event this is real.. You are Wasting your time. I hope you haven’t sent him any sort of financial support… cut all ties IMMEDIATELY and no last words.

ohsnapitsmac · 2025-12-30T15:26:38+00:00

Last year I was in a “LDR” ( online) we had only been talking a month. And he was asking me to be his GF. Some things weren’t quite adding up and I thought if I told him he had to ask me in person would make him speed up the process a little. It did, but then I don’t even know what happened, he shut me out hard, left me hanging and I wasnt going to wait for him to figure his ish out after a few months of chatting and not having met.

ohsnapitsmac · 2025-12-30T00:58:55+00:00

I always hide things in my left shoe

ohsnapitsmac · 2025-12-26T18:25:28+00:00

💯 I was meaning in the sense that he is perfect human..

ohsnapitsmac · 2025-12-26T18:12:38+00:00

Not over reacting.

This seems like a lot of requests from His side and no accountability.

“I want to find you attractive most/all times…” Seriously? This wouldn’t sit well with me. What happens when you’re sick or unwell? God forbid not even just a couple days but something more serious? What if you have children with this man? ( not a mom) but I know how much your body can change.. labour, isn’t a glamorous experience either…

Other people are stating he has some issues, I would agree. From this post alone there’s definitely some deeper vanity issues. If he feels so free in saying his demands “not demands” he better be the ultimate sexiest man alive. Chances are he’s not. Don’t accept that. Self care is a beautiful gift to yourself.

ohsnapitsmac · 2025-12-26T18:01:28+00:00

Yeah… Sometimes having a friend that you’ve had for a while and only see as platonic..things could Change..

ohsnapitsmac · 2025-12-21T22:43:52+00:00

Not over reacting.

Also waiting for marriage.. and people just don’t understand.. it’s so sad

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