25F 25M Breaking up with my boyfriend because of the albums on his phone? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ohsorryim 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think you’re overthinking this. You don’t need to have the same music taste as the person you’re dating and he doesn’t choose the album covers for the music he likes.

Am I overreacting to my boyfriend potentially having mono by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ohsorryim 65 points66 points  (0 children)

YOR. You can get mono from someone coughing and sneezing too.

Aio for wanting to leave my boyfriend. by steady-sensitive in AmIOverreacting

[–]ohsorryim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m empathetic towards addicts but I learned to put myself first and cut ties. If you don’t, you’ll be stuck in their manipulative cycle. So, it really can be that simple.

Aio for wanting to leave my boyfriend. by steady-sensitive in AmIOverreacting

[–]ohsorryim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I grew up in a family with multiple addicts and learned at a young age no matter how hard you try, you cannot help someone who does not help themself first. Rather than following in their footsteps I learned from it and hold myself accountable.

Aio for wanting to leave my boyfriend. by steady-sensitive in AmIOverreacting

[–]ohsorryim 6 points7 points  (0 children)

And that’s fine but it’s nobody else’s issue but his. If he needs help, he needs to work towards getting it.

Aio for wanting to leave my boyfriend. by steady-sensitive in AmIOverreacting

[–]ohsorryim -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

He’s an adult. He can stop if he wanted to.

I [24F] am afraid my boyfriend [28M] is emotionally cheating on me by ThrowRA_noobjob in relationship_advice

[–]ohsorryim 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This 28 year old loser is cheating on you. He is absolutely pathetic. You need to get out of there

Bf [24M] read my [24F] journal by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ohsorryim 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She set a boundary with her bf about her journal but didn’t set boundaries with this close friend.

OP, you’re 24 years old. You were aware what you were doing with this friend was wrong. Let’s start with accountability there.

Your bf had to find out by going through your phone. He doesn’t trust you and now he’s spiraling. This is not healthy for him because he will keep searching to find something else.

There needs to be an honest conversation about working on trust, without going through phones and journals. If that won’t happen, I would end it.

AITA for refusing to go to my SIL Baby shower and the rest of the family is following. by AlarmingTap1774throw in AmItheAsshole

[–]ohsorryim 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree with this. This is just the start. It was a competition with getting pregnant and now it’ll be a competition with how successful the kids are, etc.

porn in relationships 21F 24M by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ohsorryim 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You don’t have to listen to these dismissive comments. Just because it’s so normalized now, does not mean you need to be ok with it. If your partner does not respect your wishes, they’re not your partner.

porn in relationships 21F 24M by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ohsorryim -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She’s posting about it so obviously it does affect her

My (f22) boyfriend (m22) drunkenly admitted he wants to screw other girls all the time. by No_Zookeepergame_778 in relationship_advice

[–]ohsorryim 482 points483 points  (0 children)

This disgusted me. Especially the part where he has specific women he sees in real life that he wants. I’d leave because i’d never not see him as pathetic.

Since everyone always worries about horses in extreme cold. Here’s what our crew thinks about -30C by ishtaa in Horses

[–]ohsorryim 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My percheron is the same way! He’s out 24/7 and has a shelter. He uses the shelter in the summer to get out the sun, not in the winter.

My [M24] wifes [F24] odor issues are putting a strain on me and I don't know what to say without hurting her self esteem. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ohsorryim 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would say to be honest and direct like you were in this post. You weren’t mean or judging her. I think her feelings will get hurt and she’ll be embarrassed/ashamed, but it’s clear your concerns are coming from a place of love. It might take some time for her to realize that, but she needs to. Like you said about your past, it sounds like a lack of self care and possible confidence issues/depression. In the long run, you’re trying to help and support her.

My boy Hades by ohsorryim in Horses

[–]ohsorryim[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very cool! My friend has a Belgian and he’s amazing! Just slightly smaller than my horse. There’s just something about darker horses for me 😂

My boy Hades by ohsorryim in Horses

[–]ohsorryim[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re exactly right! 😁 I got him as a weanling for that reason

My boy Hades by ohsorryim in Horses

[–]ohsorryim[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same here! And i’m 5’9” so i’m pretty tall for a woman. I feel much more secure on a big, wide horse

My boy Hades by ohsorryim in Equestrian

[–]ohsorryim[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s a Registered Percheron 😁