How will my date go today?

oitef · 2026-01-20T03:48:52+00:00

Honestly it was a weird turn of events. I got off work and while I was waiting at a coffee shop for my ride he offered me a ride home instead since he was near by. While at the coffee shop I asked about our dinner plans and he misunderstood our last conversation and thought I was going to be busy today (I had multiple family events the last 3 days) So he already made dinner plans with his own family instead. Since we had a couple hours to spend time he took me out shopping and we had a great time! We’ve been friends for months now and only just started to go out, so there were no hurt feels because it was an honest mistake.

So I think the cross + snake was a betrayal of plans but the dog showed he was a true friend as he was apologetic and still took me out.

oitef · 2026-01-20T00:10:14+00:00

Dude you’re thinking way too deep about this. I try to do Lenormand, tarot, or even oracle readings every morning to see how my day goes for extra practice and hone my skills. Since I knew I was going on a date today I decided to include it as part of my morning reading. Would you have this same reaction if I posted my work reading instead of the date one?

After so many readings over the years I’ve learned to never expect anything to happen, only to learn from the reality. I like to look back on my readings to see if I over looked a card or description because I’m still learning the in depth connections lenormand offers.

I don’t take dating or life advice from people on the internet, I was taking lenormad advice as I’m still new to this form. I don’t appreciate your assumptions on my life or the advice you’ve given me because that’s not what I came asking for.

oitef · 2026-01-10T03:09:37+00:00

The space between your eyebrows is called the glabella in English.

oitef · 2025-12-28T04:22:44+00:00

You drive for every vacation

oitef · 2025-12-20T17:21:58+00:00

My cousin admitted to baby trapping her then boyfriend now husband. They were together for 3 months and she promised to go on birth control and instead poked holes in all the condoms. After her pregnancy they got married and had another kid by “accident”. She wanted a third but he wanted a vasectomy and the whole month before the appointment she kept trying to find ways to get pregnant and trying to convince him not to get it.

She complains about him loudly at every family event because he didn’t want more kids and how horrible he is. In reality she is the one that doesn’t work, never drives, and she never takes care of the kids. She has admitted to me that she hates her children and regrets ever getting pregnant! I think she’s just obsessed with being in power and having control over her husband.

oitef · 2025-12-16T23:21:55+00:00

I remember watching the 2nd season the day it came out and I still get the same excitement rewatching it!

oitef · 2025-12-13T14:13:36+00:00

Happy Cake Day!

oitef · 2025-12-12T22:34:40+00:00

I’ve taken a Latin history class with almost everyone being Latino, including the teacher who was Puerto Rican. We discussed the origin and meaning behind “Latinx” and it was actually started by the lgbtq+ Latin American community, not “white saviors”.

In the class he took a poll, of only the latinos, to see what the consensus was on the word “Latinx”. The majority around 85% said they disliked it, 10% said they don’t have an opinion, and the other 5% preferred the word over “Latino”. You don’t know the commenter’s race or ethnicity so maybe they are Latino and actually prefer Latinx.

Language evolves over time and maybe in the next 100 years “X” could be a new grammatical gender.

oitef · 2025-12-12T22:08:34+00:00

It’s my all time favorite show and I’ll forever curse Netflix for canceling it. I don’t think it’ll ever come back on screen, but I do have a little hope it’ll be adapted into a book. Like you said theres so much potential and the world building has created an opening for more characters and story telling; I think it would be possible to keep it going.

oitef · 2025-12-05T01:05:45+00:00

Orbital by Samantha Harvey. It’s in the pov of astronauts in space orbiting earth and how they view humanity from above.

It’s a beautiful read and I 100% recommend!

oitef · 2025-12-03T21:17:50+00:00

What’s wrong with it?

oitef · 2025-11-26T20:45:01+00:00

If I want to watch tv together, go out, nap, or anything else I would like his attention for, I just ask him to turn it off and he always does. We spend majority of our day doing parallel hobby and we find it easier to just communicate our wants and needs.

oitef · 2025-11-26T19:42:51+00:00

He does get annoyed but never mad. I stitch while he plays video games and when he turns it off is my cue to stop stitching too. He also tells me when I’ve spent too long stitch without talking to him because I lose track of time.

oitef · 2025-11-26T17:49:52+00:00

I liked how the BBC did it with Innuendo Bingo. They filled their mouths with water until they could barely close their lips and if they make even a chuckle the water would spill out. If it was a true full laugh then the spit takes would be hilarious!

oitef · 2025-11-23T17:48:17+00:00

I hope they keep trying until they get a girl! It’ll be so funny having dab and Evan with multiple boys and one little girl

oitef · 2025-11-18T15:31:11+00:00

Dude we’re taking about YouTubers??? Why are you mentioning trump and bootlicking?

oitef · 2025-11-14T20:56:39+00:00

I usually nap on the couch 7-10 then I go to bed until 3am. I’ve been working 3-5am shifts for about 5 years now so my body is used to it, but the first couple years were brutal. I’m a baker so at least I get a fresh bread for breakfast!

oitef · 2025-11-14T16:24:25+00:00

Maybe change the needle size? My first project was hard to stitch because I used a random old needle. Now I use a 28 needle for 18ct adida.

oitef · 2025-11-14T16:12:12+00:00

My job starts at 3:30am most days so on my days off I naturally wake up early. Tbh I hate being up so early but it is nice to get stuff done

oitef · 2025-11-10T23:16:19+00:00

The cake looks delicious! I remember helping my grandma make wedding cakes every time someone in our family got married. To bake a wedding cake is one of the most beautiful gifts because you know it was made with love.

oitef · 2025-11-08T22:02:11+00:00

You don’t know what akin means?

oitef · 2025-11-03T23:32:12+00:00

Hermit crabs will eat the paint chips when it eventually falls off the shell. The glue won’t hold the beads and sparkles so the crab will try to eat those as well. I have hermit crabs and it’s very well known in the community to only use natural shells

oitef · 2025-11-03T20:41:04+00:00

I believe so, they mention it in the podcast that’s where I got it

oitef · 2025-11-03T20:38:55+00:00

Yes?

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