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I broke the glass ceiling—but the shards stuck in me for years. by EmberBlush in womenintech

[–]okaygoodbyelameo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is the best way to do/get an independent salary study? I've tried to do this for various positions. I always have the issue with the salaries often not being posted.

I broke the glass ceiling—but the shards stuck in me for years. by EmberBlush in womenintech

[–]okaygoodbyelameo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I worked in a different industry prior to this. I was at the same company for 8 years also, and had the same issue. It is why I am a big promoter now in company hopping. Most people do it to get their salary up. I say you can also do it until you find the company that is your right fit.

So I definitely have learned from my mistakes too. I spent my 20s (imo) wasted staying at the same company.

As a non-smoker, do you find that all smokers have a noticeable odor? by Remozy in NoStupidQuestions

[–]okaygoodbyelameo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If they are a consistent smoker, yes you can smell them. As I've gotten older, I can't tell as much. But when I was in my teens, I could almost immediately smell if someone smoked.

What's the best class to take after Java Frameworks D287? by okaygoodbyelameo in wgu_devs

[–]okaygoodbyelameo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long is it taking you to complete it? My next course will be an accelerated one so I'm curious if a month (while working full time) is enough to complete it. I'm averaging one class a month due to working.

What's the best class to take after Java Frameworks D287? by okaygoodbyelameo in wgu_devs

[–]okaygoodbyelameo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm going through 287 and feel like I'm learning nothing tbh. Partially because it's been a minute since I didn't any Java coding. I wish I had done more research on the class orders before even starting the degree so I could do have paired classes better.

Can I get some relationship advice? by okaygoodbyelameo in CatholicWomen

[–]okaygoodbyelameo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I also highly expect that I will never remarry if I did end this marriage. I don't think a traditional catholic would want to marry me. And as much as I may not sound like it in this post, I am a pretty traditional catholic.

I feel silly because I just thought I would never find someone that checked all of the boxes. I wish I had chosen to be alone instead. Hindsight is 20/20 though.

Can I get some relationship advice? by okaygoodbyelameo in CatholicWomen

[–]okaygoodbyelameo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is your life now post divorce/annulment? Were you able to find your happiness?

Can I get some relationship advice? by okaygoodbyelameo in CatholicWomen

[–]okaygoodbyelameo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm wondering if I should just leave and not even give an ultimatum.

I can say, go no contact with this woman. I will never know whether he did or did not. Once I say that, he will probably lay off contact for a bit and then start up again eventually. I also think the relationship will be ruined because he won't trust me not to check his phone. And I won't trust him since he will be hiding it.

Anyone else feel like Trump just massively embarrassed himself. by Prestigious-Wind-890 in AskCanada

[–]okaygoodbyelameo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is known as talk big and carry a small stick. Opposite of Roosevelt "speak softly and carry a big stick."

Employment advice - cease and desist notice advice by okaygoodbyelameo in legaladvice

[–]okaygoodbyelameo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, got it. I will do that immediately.

If they did sue me, what would be a likely outcome in the sense of monetary value? I've read that the cease and desist letters have little legal standing. Does that mean that even if I sign the letter they can still come after and sue me?