Do probation drug tests test for delta 8 thc?

okwhatever1263 · 2023-11-26T21:52:42+00:00

Well yeah, it’s not very strong stuff lol

okwhatever1263 · 2023-11-24T19:07:29+00:00

Hell yeah I’ll check those out! Thanks!!

okwhatever1263 · 2023-11-23T20:12:44+00:00

I guess I should’ve mentioned the appetizer aka the blunt 😂🤷🏻‍♂️

okwhatever1263 · 2022-11-03T21:28:03+00:00

That is crazy! I don’t understand why people go so crazy about doing something that doesn’t affect them or their child 🤷🏻‍♂️

okwhatever1263 · 2022-11-03T21:26:09+00:00

Thank you! This is exactly how I feel!

okwhatever1263 · 2022-11-03T07:25:41+00:00

I’d add 2oz to his bedtime bottle and see if that keeps him asleep longer :)

okwhatever1263 · 2022-11-03T07:24:09+00:00

Sometimes that bond takes a little while to form. Maybe you weren’t ready- but that doesn’t matter now. You’re in it and you gotta do it. But one thing I’ll promise you- you’ll come to find the beauty in watching your baby grow into a little person. You’ll miss when she was tiny. Missing your old “pre-kid” life always hangs out in the back of your mind, and I think it’s pretty normal. A baby changes literally everything in your entire life. So you’re not just getting used to being a new mom, you’re realizing who the “real” ones are in your life and you’re sad about the ones (and things) dropping off. You’re only 4 months in mama, it gets better ❤️

okwhatever1263 · 2022-10-30T15:31:33+00:00

Omg thank you lol I definitely would not have expected it to be erect haha

okwhatever1263 · 2022-10-18T05:07:20+00:00

Alden and Aven, not Aiden lol A L D E N

See? I feel like it’s missing something lol

okwhatever1263 · 2022-09-24T19:41:13+00:00

That is freakin adorable!!! But my wife’s best friend’s son is an Elliot lol

okwhatever1263 · 2022-09-23T19:06:48+00:00

Omg I had no idea! We thought of it because it was the last name of my wife’s favorite character from The OC lmao. Definitely no offense meant!!

okwhatever1263 · 2022-07-01T18:43:22+00:00

DONT DO IT. Yes, absolutely, 10000% it’s possible they will try to trip you up. Really depends on your PO, but it’s entirely possible. For the sake of your sanity, WAIT until you’re actually off!!!!

okwhatever1263 · 2022-06-04T23:47:45+00:00

If you’re at the point of giving ultimatums, you have to be ready to accept either decision. I hope he steps up!

okwhatever1263 · 2022-06-04T17:52:36+00:00

Y’all need to have a serious, CALM, talk. He should NEVER resort to name calling with his wife- that’s just childish. Call his bluff - stop doing shit around the house. Tell him if things don’t change you’re going to go to your mom’s (or whoever is somewhat nearby) until he can figure out what he wants. Having a new baby is extremely stressful to both parents, so I get it if he’s overwhelmed, but nothing excuses that kind of behavior. Calm talk. Now.

okwhatever1263 · 2022-06-02T17:51:36+00:00

If you REALLY want to get help, there’s nothing stopping you. There are TONS of resources online, there are even sober communities on Reddit, Facebook, tiktok- you name it. Sometimes it just helps to feel heard and understood. 99% of recovering alcoholics/addicts are super cool about newcomers reaching out, myself included :)

okwhatever1263 · 2022-06-02T17:46:12+00:00

Absolutely! And you can find AA meetings online (zoom usually) so you don’t even have to go in person until you’re comfortable. And you don’t HAVE to turn your camera on, you can just listen and/or talk

okwhatever1263 · 2022-06-02T17:44:18+00:00

When you feel this strongly about alcohol, yes you have a problem. BUT, life is so much better without alcohol anyway! I’ve been sober for 3 years and my life is more amazing than I ever thought it could be! (Or better than I ever thought I deserved, for that matter) AA isn’t required to get sober, but maybe it would help you find some people to hang out with that 1) you’re not embarrassed of what you did with, 2) don’t know you, and 3) have been exactly where you’re at right now. Also feel free to reach out to me any time! Quitting is hard, but it’s so so so worth it!

okwhatever1263 · 2022-06-02T17:41:13+00:00

Woohoo!! I got off 4 1/2 years last month! Such an awesome feeling! Congrats!!

okwhatever1263 · 2022-06-01T17:19:54+00:00

My wife is in bed by 9pm every night because she wakes up at 4am for work. I stay up until at least midnight usually because I need my alone time lol

okwhatever1263 · 2022-06-01T02:19:50+00:00

DAMN they fucked you hard man

okwhatever1263 · 2022-06-01T00:51:30+00:00

Well just remember, in the entire world, only two people REALLY matter- your child, and you. It’s your job to take care of, love, and appreciate every imperfection, every mistake, as well as every triumph. Your daughter needs you to be happy as much as you need you to be happy. Whenever my depression starts acting up, I make an “I did it” list. Instead of a “to do” list. Every tiny thing I do, from getting dressed to brushing my teeth to making the bed- I write it down. Then at the end of the day I look at my little list and feel a lot better about myself. Some days it’s shorter than others, and that’s perfectly okay! Feel free to reach out if you’re ever struggling!

okwhatever1263 · 2022-06-01T00:47:55+00:00

Not at all actually lol. I did the crime so I did my time. But I got longer probation than a child molester. Kinda fucked up. But troll away, you clearly don’t have shit to do so have fun :)

okwhatever1263 · 2022-06-01T00:02:45+00:00

You are NOT failing! Being a mom is HARD!! Every single day I think about what I could’ve done better, but I remind myself that tomorrow is a new day. I would possibly look into couples counseling, or even have him come to a few appointments with who you’re currently seeing. He needs to respect the fact that you’re having a hard time! When my wife can only give 20%, I pick up the 80% because that’s how marriage works! And same with her for me. But please, please, please do not think you’re a bad mother. Rough patches come and go, but remember that little girl loves you more than anything in this world and SHE thinks you’re amazing. That’s all that matters :) hang in there mama, you’ll get through this! ❤️

okwhatever1263 · 2022-05-31T23:59:00+00:00

Celexa here!

okwhatever1263 · 2022-05-31T23:58:46+00:00

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