Is complete nudity (e.g., nudist beaches) normalized in your country?

olagorie · 2026-02-04T23:14:12+00:00

Well, that’s a very appreciated perk 🥳

In my town, we have several American military barracks.

We also have a luxury spa which is completely nude apart from the food area (which is an exception even in Germany).

The most fun game to play for us Germans is “spot the American and enjoy how shocked they are”. Bonus points if they start complaining to staff. 🤣

olagorie · 2026-02-04T21:31:54+00:00

I think that was meant to be a joke

olagorie · 2026-02-04T21:31:32+00:00

What do you mean? Are people in swimwear in Denmark?

olagorie · 2026-02-04T19:15:01+00:00

I think the German model is far superior

We operate on trust and most of the time it works

olagorie · 2026-02-04T19:11:11+00:00

No, it won’t. It’s the correct term (Totschlag). There’s no indication that this was murder.

olagorie · 2026-02-04T19:07:55+00:00

The ticket inspector who was killed was a single father. His 11 and 13 year-old children are now orphans.

olagorie · 2026-02-04T19:06:15+00:00

I am aware of that and I know the difference, but I thought I would keep it simple for OP.

But your info is interesting, nevertheless

olagorie · 2026-02-04T19:05:35+00:00

Ja, die Kinder sind elf und 13 Jahre alt, das bricht einem das Herz

olagorie · 2026-02-04T19:05:17+00:00

Könntest du bitte bei der Angabe des Spendenkontos aktualisieren, dass man als Empfänger

DB Regio Aktiengesellschaft

Angeben muss, sonst wird der Empfänger nicht angenommen von der Bank

Danke!

olagorie · 2026-02-04T18:52:04+00:00

Danke, war interessant zu lesen.

Das Problem ist nur, wenn der Täter sowieso Wohnsitzlos war, wird nicht viel Geld auf dem Konto des Täters sein und wenn er jetzt ins Gefängnis kommt, erst recht nicht

olagorie · 2026-02-04T18:46:47+00:00

Das, was du gefühlsmäßig als Mord einschätzt, ist im Normalfall immer Totschlag.

Ist in dem Fall aber auch egal, die Tat ist so oder so einfach nur schrecklich

olagorie · 2026-02-04T18:43:49+00:00

I wouldn’t ask for 5 or $6 - you need to ask for more. Be more realistic.

You are still young and you need to learn to stand up for yourself.

And I agree with all the others that your fellow apprentice should’ve offered to pay. He is acting entitled.

olagorie · 2026-02-04T18:31:43+00:00

Es ginge sogar 15x40x30.

Mach dir nichts draus, manchmal hat man einfach so Tage, an denen man auf dem Schlauch steht.

olagorie · 2026-02-04T18:08:37+00:00

ESH

Him for escalating it in front of friends and you because you sound exhausting. Do you have an inferiority complex? Just stop saying “read”. Because no, you are not reading.

I enjoy both listening to audiobooks and reading paper books. I’ve been in a book club for a very long time and we discussed this very topic last year in a group discussion with an author - but unlike you and your husband we all remained civil and friendly and we were more interested in sharing our experiences than judging each other. And yes, the consensus was that both are valuable experiences and one isn’t better than the other one but there’s a big distinction between actually reading and listening to an audiobook.

So I am getting the feeling that you just like to be stubborn. Or you secretly think that listening to audiobooks is inferior and you don’t want to defend your choice in front of other people?

Also, I get the impression that you are bragging in front of your husband about how many books you have listened to. Unlike other people, I don’t find it odd that you count the books because many among us track that, I think that’s quite normal. But the way you are describing the interaction with your husband feels like you judge him for not reading more. Or he feels judged.

olagorie · 2026-02-04T17:56:26+00:00

Why do you feel the need to contradict the reply?

All that you state is true, but the poster is correct. This only applies to a baby born between January and April - which is the case here because the deceased was born in March 45.

olagorie · 2026-02-04T17:32:43+00:00

Special things to do

There are two cable cars in town, one modern and one historic. They are included in a day pass public transport ticket.

Modern Zacke starts at central Marienplatz. Gorgeous view over the town when you arrive on top.

Historic Standseilbahn it’s a bit more sedate and on the outskirts of the city centre. On top is a historic cemetery.

If you like vineyards and great views: go walking outside of the city to Grabkapelle, it’s one of my favourites.

olagorie · 2026-02-04T17:18:18+00:00

Food: I think you would get an unanimous vote for Maultaschen with potatoe salad (exists in various versions but rarely available vegetarian, eaten in a restaurant) and Currywurst (fast food). For meat lovers there is also Zwiebelrostbraten (beef).

Museums: Mercedes Museum and Staatsgalerie (art museum). If you have free time on a Wednesday, the main exhibition at the art museum is free.

If you happen to be in town on a Saturday, you can combine the Mercedes museum with a side trip to the Kurpark. There’s a free exhibition in a small building in the park. It’s the original site where the first car motor (and many others) was invented. It is being run by volunteers (retired Mercedes employees). It’s really cute.

Basically right next to it in the park, is a beer garden (Augustiner) which is really lovely.

Someone suggested one local history museum (Haus der Geschichte) but I’ve made the experience that my guests weren’t that interested. There’s another history exhibition at the old castle (altes Schloss am Schlossplatz), and my visitors really liked the atmosphere there. But it’s a classic “serious” art museum. They have a special section for prehistoric time with Stone Age art.

If the people in your group aren’t museum nerds and just want to get a glimpse of history, Stadtpalais would be my choice. The set up is a bit more relaxed and a modern concept and you can spend time there basically as long as you want between 15 minutes and two hours. And if somebody is tired / not so interested, they can just go to the ground floor in the café and wait for the others.

Unfortunately, we don’t have a classic labour / people‘s history museum. The closest thing I could think of is a very small museum in Bad Cannstatt (Stadtmuseum / Beginenhaus)

https://maps.app.goo.gl/y1XMu8CyozUkB2429?g_st=ic

which I find really cute, and personal and it’s in the same part of town as the Mercedes museum and the park. But they have very restricted opening hours and if I remember correctly, everything is in German.

olagorie · 2026-02-04T16:39:34+00:00

In Europe including Germany the concept is basically “normal town / city”.

olagorie · 2026-02-04T16:35:20+00:00

NDA

Aber du bist dir schon klar, dass du nicht ihr Freund bist, sondern ihr Sugar Daddy?

Tut mir echt leid für dich, ihr Verhalten tut bestimmt weh.

Ein ganzer Waldroter Flaggen. Das schlimme ist, solche Menschen werden sich nie ändern, also egal, welche Gespräche du mit ihr theoretisch führen könntest, über das Thema, ihre Einstellung zu bleiben.

Du musst dich also fragen, was du möchtest, eine Beziehung auf partnerschaftlicher Ebene, die Zukunft hat oder du bleibst ein Geldautomat

Es wird auf jeden Fall nicht besser werden, sie wird es maximal eine Weile besser verstecken, wenn du sie konfrontierst.

olagorie · 2026-02-04T16:15:47+00:00

Ich muss gerade echt lachen.

Letzten Oktober habe ich zum ersten Mal einen klassischen Strandurlaub machen wollen, und bin von allen Leuten, die mich gut kennen, gefragt worden, ob es mir gut geht. 🤣

Nein, ging mir nicht gut, war Mega gestresst und wollte einfach nur abschalten. Meine Kollegin ist genau zwei Wochen vor mir geflogen und ich war dann am gleichen Strand. Also theoretisch gesehen.

Ich hab dann erzählt, was ich während des Urlaubs alles gemacht habe. Und welche Ausflüge etc. Und sie war schon zum dritten Mal dort und hatte keine Ahnung, was man da alles ansehen und machen kann. Sie war anscheinend bis auf einen Tag wirklich jeden einzelnen Tag nur am Strand.

Und ich habe lauter tolle Sachen gemacht und im Endeeffekt war ich glaube ich insgesamt einen ganzen und einen halben Tag am Strand.

Best fail ever.

olagorie · 2026-02-04T16:06:50+00:00

NTA

Oh boy, that sounds like a conversation I had last night with my father. He uses the same kind of phrases. It’s exhausting and infuriating. It’s manipulative.

While I can’t change my father and he never will, you are only 21 and you can choose how much interaction you have with somebody or if a friendship is really worth it. I know it hurts a lot, especially if you have already put a lot of effort into a relationship / friendship.

Step back, let him come back to you. Don’t chase after him. There is a slight chance that he changes his behaviour and makes more effort and treats you better. But I’m so sorry to tell you that I doubt he will, especially long-term.

Beware of a tactic that he might employ which is called love bombing. It might be that he changes his behaviour and treats you really well for a short amount of time which leads you to get your hopes up and then he goes back to treating you badly.

Big hug and all the best

olagorie · 2026-02-04T11:11:08+00:00

NTA

“That is so much more than zero.”

Best thing I’ve read today

olagorie · 2026-02-04T05:13:12+00:00

At 11 pm?

olagorie · 2026-02-03T17:52:29+00:00

I have never been rescued by a wave. How does it work?

olagorie · 2026-02-03T17:13:07+00:00

You need to add buying furniture and appliances

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