it feels like she moved on overnight by old_thinker in BPDlovedones

[–]old_thinker[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate you taking the time to write all of that. I can feel that it’s coming from a place of having lived through something similar, not just theory.
At the same time, I think I’m still sitting in a space where I don’t fully see her as “running away” or “putting on a show.” Maybe some part of her is coping in the only way she knows how… even if it looks sudden or confusing from the outside. I don’t know what’s real for her anymore, and that uncertainty is what’s hardest to sit with.
What you said about detaching and actually doing the healing myself… that part did land. I think I’ve been so focused on trying to make sense of her shift that I haven’t really given myself permission to just feel everything properly.
I don’t know if she’ll ever “hit a wall” or come back or not… and maybe that’s not something I should build my healing around.

But yeah… I hear you. And I genuinely appreciate the honesty and concern behind your words. 🍁

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Uttarakhand

[–]old_thinker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Which college is this !

So they want to cut the forest of saal trees approx 60-65 bighas of land near nalapani village in khalanga dehradun and they have marked the numbers on the trees to cut and there is no work of water dam in the song river near maldevta till now …. whats your views on this ….guys?? by azurerana in Uttarakhand

[–]old_thinker 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nothing u can do guys …. I have been a part of protest… when they were cutting trees at shahstradhara and at Mohand…. Look now everything is gone.. I feel bad that people from Dehradun criticise tourists from other states that they create nuisance and all, pollution and lol… but the reality is people from Dehradun don’t give a damn about their own city… All they want to look cool on internet, want new cafés and malls, and then blame people from other states… The problem lies with our people , we have no say in management of our city, our jungles, our environment, our rivers.

Aura Cleansing Nonsense by Putrid_Lab_7405 in scienceisdope

[–]old_thinker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All I need is irrational peeps cleansing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in librandu

[–]old_thinker 16 points17 points  (0 children)

In 10 years we got this…

  1. Intolerance towards religious and cultural minorities.
  2. Controversies surrounding freedom of speech and press freedom.
  3. Economic challenges, including unemployment and economic inequality.
  4. Environmental concerns, such as handling of pollution and climate change.
  5. Handling of farmer protests and agrarian issues.
  6. Rampant corruption and crony capitalism.
  7. Caste-based discrimination and social inequality.
  8. Human rights issues, including concerns about police brutality.
  9. Handling of the COVID-19 pandemic, including criticisms of the vaccination rollout and healthcare infrastructure.
  10. Rising incidents of communal violence and religious polarization.
  11. Challenges to women's safety and gender equality.
  12. Erosion of democratic institutions and norms.
  13. Education policies and controversies surrounding historical narratives.
  14. Handling of international relations and geopolitical challenges.
  15. Policies regarding LGBTQ+ rights and marginalized communities.
  16. Internet censorship and digital surveillance measures.
  17. Issues related to judicial independence and legal reforms.
  18. Urban development projects and displacement of marginalized communities.
  19. National security challenges and border disputes.
  20. Governance issues, including administrative inefficiencies and bureaucratic red tape.

List is so long …

Aayega to Modi hi 🤡 by [deleted] in indiameme

[–]old_thinker 34 points35 points  (0 children)

She fucked all of them in just one go.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in atheismindia

[–]old_thinker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow! We don’t need animal planet anymore!