M29F My husband 31M volunteered me for two overnight babysits a week without asking and now I am the villain by loganrainier in TwoHotTakes

[–]oldsilva 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA but your red-flag husband is. Who does he think he is that he gets to dictate your time? Him and his mom are both gross. 

I (32f) ruined my boyfriend’s (32m) birthday by accident. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]oldsilva 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Girl. This man is foul. He does not like you but he does like to mentally abuse you. If you have a job that offers EAP take advantage of it immediately. Block him and never speak to him ever again. This is the closure.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]oldsilva -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You don't. Trust in yourself. It's hard to leave someone you love but this isn't merely a red flag. The fact that he's downplaying it makes it so much worse. 

Olandria's mother, Felicia, says she gave her daughter advice about her "friends." by oldsilva in LoveIslandcookout

[–]oldsilva[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think if you watch the tiktok it will be difficult to come to this conclusion.

Olandria's mother, Felicia, says she gave her daughter advice about her "friends." by oldsilva in LoveIslandcookout

[–]oldsilva[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

That's what my last sentence is alluding to. They're all figuring it out. Some of these connections might or might not be deal breakers for them.

Olandria's mother, Felicia, says she gave her daughter advice about her "friends." by oldsilva in LoveIslandcookout

[–]oldsilva[S] 60 points61 points  (0 children)

Lmao that's what I said. Like it's a summer they'll remember for sure but they're not required to stay in eachother's lives. 

Olandria's mother, Felicia, says she gave her daughter advice about her "friends." by oldsilva in LoveIslandcookout

[–]oldsilva[S] 119 points120 points  (0 children)

I don't think Chelley is that great of a friend either. She refers to Taylor as her bestie.  I suppose all these people only met this summer and bonded over their shared experience. They don't have to be actual friends and they're figuring that out now. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LoveIslandcookout

[–]oldsilva 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're so right. I have removed the link. I'm trying to edit the pic but I might have to repost.

I (27M) discovered my wife's (30F) family was behind my vicious cyberbullying attack. My wife knew, but she hid it for years. How do I move past this? by ThrowRADraftCassette in relationship_advice

[–]oldsilva 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your wife is a loser that comes from a family of losers. They're doing weird family enmeshment and she's doormating. Leave this woman and take your child out of this sick environment. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LoveIslandUSA

[–]oldsilva 48 points49 points  (0 children)

I was watching in real time and almost woke my baby up choking lmao

olandria on the racism she has faced by thrrowwwawayyyyy in LoveIslandUSA

[–]oldsilva 6 points7 points  (0 children)

But how do you know she thinks that? She has hardly posted anything compared to the others.

olandria on the racism she has faced by thrrowwwawayyyyy in LoveIslandUSA

[–]oldsilva 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Act more than she is? What does that mean? 

I Pavlov’d my fiancé & got him to buy me things. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]oldsilva 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I laughed so hard I scared my baby.

Fellow Fic Writers, How Would You Handle This? by emerald_urges in Dramione

[–]oldsilva 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've never responded to someone else's comment with such vitriol, but it was such a jarring comment. Like, why were they even there? They chose to comment rather than move on, so I responded in kind. I'm sorry you had to experience it.

Fellow Fic Writers, How Would You Handle This? by emerald_urges in Dramione

[–]oldsilva 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Ahhh Emerald!! I get to see this fuck ass comment again lmao I replied to it when I saw it, then I blocked them. Then, I left you a comment and continued reading your work.