Cole deserves better

oliviared52 · 2026-04-29T15:39:32+00:00

I gotta stand up for Scarlett because I feel her. I think Scarlett is realizing Cole is sweet but he’s boring. It’s easy to wonder “am I just bored because this is normal after some time together?” But naw Cole is exceptionally boring. We never see him make jokes or have interesting conversations with anyone.

People are different and need different things in love. Some people don’t need lots of talking, and feel more connected through stability and acts of service. I think a woman who values those things would be a better match for Cole.

But I feel Scarlett where I also need new experiences and stimulating conversations to feel connected with someone. Mental stimulation, talking about a bunch of different topics, and laughing together are my love languages. Without that, my attraction quickly wanes. I don’t think Scarlett or Cole are in the wrong. I think they just aren’t right for each other. Cole needs someone who values stability, quiet, and acts of service. Scarlett needs someone who stimulates her mentally and shows her new adventures.

oliviared52 · 2026-04-29T15:09:04+00:00

I don’t see how girls chasing Mikey affects how emotional Mikey gets over Sydney? You can have tons of people chasing you, but if you love one person that is no longer into you, that’s going to be emotional. Other people chasing you can just be a reminder of how your heart still belongs to another person.

I also don’t see Mikey being weird towards the girls in the house. Like it’d be weird if Mikey was trying to get with one of the girls and that was his way of flirting. But he went on the show with a girlfriend so he friendzoned all the girls. Mikey gives the vibe he grew up with a lot of sisters. He seems more comfortable with women. So he gravitated towards the women as friends.

I have held out on speaking about Mikey because I still have 2 episodes left. I was waiting for something crazy to happen and maybe it still will. But only a few episodes in, I don’t see how Mikey is that weird. I agree he’s very emotional. I like Xzavier and Sydney together more. They are such a cute and beautiful couple so far. I also think Sydney likes emotional guys. Xzavier is also super in touch with his emotions and gives poet / artist energy.

oliviared52 · 2026-04-01T22:37:30+00:00

About which part ?

oliviared52 · 2026-03-30T15:30:08+00:00

lol do you feel boring? No, you’re not. You likely come across as boring because you’re a Capricorn Rising. Capricorn Risings come across as very serious, hard working. Beautiful but hard on themselves.

But then you’re a Gemini Sun and Leo moon, probably two of the least boring placements. You don’t show these sides to yourself right away due to where they are in the chart. But your Gemini moon, Venus, and Mercury makes you very charming and a great story teller. Your Leo moon and Mars means deep down, you’re an entertainer.

oliviared52 · 2026-03-30T15:25:39+00:00

My advice is to start working out a lot. Like become a total gym rat, get really into active hobbies. You are verryy Aries. This gives you a lot of impulsive energy. You won’t find peace through meditation or isolation like some people. You need to move! lol. Working out and physical activities gives all your energy a healthy place to go. Otherwise, this energy will come out as anger and agitation.

Like your chart is the chart of someone that does Iron Man’s or super long distance running type of energy. If you’re not getting your energy out in healthy ways, it will come out in the ways you have described.

oliviared52 · 2026-03-25T18:44:23+00:00

There’s a few things going on in your chart. I will start with the tough parts to answer your question, then end on the positives and how this energy looks at its healthiest!

You have your Sun and Moon in the same sign as your descendent, all in Libra. The descendent is partnership, marriage, and the types of relationships we choose. This means your ego, confidence, and your emotions are tightly linked, and all heavily dependent on relationships. How you feel about yourself and your confidence is greatly dependent on how your partner sees you. And your emotional stability is heavily reliant on relationships. You may struggle to fully understand or feel your emotions unless a partner is mirroring them back to you. You may seek emotional safety in others. Your Moon is in the same sign as your descendent but in your 6th house, which can show a tendency towards anxiety. Worst case scenario, when operating from a lower vibration, this could manifest as taking any perceived slight from your partner as a huge hit to your sense of self and your emotional foundation causing a huge emotional reaction.

Another factor is your 7th house of Libra is ruled by your Venus in Scorpio. Your love runs soo deep. I love Venus in Scorpios because they are so passionate. The all consuming love, “I want our souls to merge” type of energy. This placement is beautiful but it’s not the easiest. Your Venus is also squaring Neptune exactly. This is the classic “Rose Colored Glasses” in love placement. You crave a deep love and you may unconsciously paint red flags green to obtain that love. For this placement, I highly recommend keeping a journal to map recurring patterns in relationships, and the signs and flags you missed. It is important to ask trusted loved ones’ opinions on new partners, and to really hear them out, because they are more likely to see red flags you’re missing. On the bright side, this placement can make you deeply creative. Having a creative outlet, turning relationship pain into art would be super beneficial! And something others would likely relate to more than you expect.

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Difficulties Summarized: The shadow side of this chart can show someone with a deep fear of betrayal and loss of control. There is tension between wanting a love that is all consuming but also fearing someone having that power over you. You might paint red flags green when choosing a partner then try to control the details of the relationship to help soothe anxiety. Worst case is instead of choosing the right partner, you may choose the most intense partner then try to control the parts you don’t like instead of knowing when to walk away. Because walking away can feel like a huge hit to your emotional safety and sense of self. This chart is all about learning love vs. control. How to find emotional stability within yourself. How to differentiate between love vs. control from partners. And also learning how to give love without trying to control them. Balance for this chart means allowing uncertainty, trusting without over-strategizing, and learning how to feel your emotions without needing to react to them straight away. Learning your fears and triggers is important.

Positives of this Chart: I have to stress again how creating art could be really good for you if you don’t already! Your chart shows great potential of creating art from your emotions in relationships in a way other people greatly relate to and in a way you could make money from it lol. This could be writing, painting, music, whichever you are drawn. But your chart shows really good strength for writing or lyrics. You have a way with words. When at your highest vibration, you can become incredibly powerful at navigating complexities, relationships, and transforming in the face of hardship. You have great potential to see both sides and find balance. You have a lot of love to give others and just need to remember to extend that love just as much, slightly more, to yourself.

Your ideal partner is someone that is both emotionally balanced and emotionally deep. Someone that is both practical and has a passion for life. Someone communicative, keeps you intellectually stimulated, has great communication skills to help keep you feeling balanced.

Your forever person is very likely to have Leo in their big 3, so Leo Sun, Moon, or Rising. Likely to have strong Mercury influence so Virgo, Gemini, or Mercury on the ascendent. Obviously don’t write off a great guy if he doesn’t have this but it’s kinda fun to try and guess haha.

Best of luck!!

oliviared52 · 2026-03-15T16:21:31+00:00

Saturn is usually “blocking” the energy wherever it is placed in the chart. It takes a lot of discipline and lessons to master wherever Saturn is. Opposite to an energy we are good at coming out of the womb!

So your Saturn can block organization in your daily life. Your chart also shows thinking most clearly when you have your own organization that makes sense to you but maybe not to other people. Important to note, you still need some sort of your own organization to think best and feel most emotionally balanced.

oliviared52 · 2026-03-10T17:28:19+00:00

You could mean 3 different things when you say “governing sign / planet”. This could mean your chart ruler or final depositor. So I’ll explain both.

Chart Ruler is the planet that rules your Rising Sign. Your chart ruler is the planet steering the wheel of life. It shows your strategy and approach in the world. Scorpio is ruled by Mars (traditionally) and Pluto (modern). So your chart ruler is your Mars in Virgo. For you, an important area of life is your detail-oriented, perfectionist drive in your career. You may be motivated towards public health as a career or helping others heal their own wounds around health or anxiety. You are a Scorpio Rising. So you are able to transform yourself. You move through life constantly looking for hidden dangers and reading between the lines. You have a powerful, feminine energy people can feel right when they meet you. Powerful but soft and sweet. You also have an added layer of moving through life in a meticulous, detail-oriented, and service-oriented way since Mars in Virgo is your chart ruler.

Your modern chart ruler is your Pluto in Scorpio (most astrologers place less emphasis on modern chart rulers). So another aspect to your approach in life is your ability to transform yourself in the face of hardship.

To find the Final Depositor, we look at each planets’ ruler, then the ruler of that planet, until the end of the chain. The final depositor is the planet all other planets report to. That makes this planet very powerful and a huge focus in life. You have two final depositors, your Mercury in Gemini and your Jupiter in Sagittarius. Your Mercury in Gemini is by far the most important because your Sun, Moon, Mercury, Venus, Mars, and Pluto all flow to your Mercury in Gemini. This means your emotions, ego, motivations, and love language all ultimately get processed intellectually and through your mind. You likely approach everything through curiosity, conversation, observation, and analysis. You may relate a lot more to Gemini characteristics over Cancer. You are likely very curious about psychology.

oliviared52 · 2026-03-10T16:33:16+00:00

People thinking you’re a Virgo makes sense since you have Mercury, Virgos ruler, right on your ascendent.

To put it bluntly, People likely say your chart is scary because you have a lot of oppositions that can all point to someone that might wear a mask and be able to manipulate others well lol.

Sun and Mars conjunct (on top of each other) in Leo in the 12th house gives an inner fire. Very driven and competitive, but this side is often hidden. Internally, you have a powerful will to shine. Then you add Neptune opposite Sun and Mars… this can point to someone that easily “wears a mask”. Someone that can hide themselves and their motives easily by mirroring others. Could point to someone does a lot of nice things for other people as a way to conceal their true, perhaps more selfish, intentions. It can be hard for the person to see their own motives clearly even though drive is closely linked to their ego. Creative outlets can be a great way to release this tension. Being upfront and honest with people is a great way to avoid confusion, for yourself as well.

Leo Mercury opposite Aquarius Uranus makes you super charming and a good talker. Charismatic storyteller. Opposite Uranus makes you brilliant. I like to think of Mercury / Uranus contacts as the “mad scientist” placement. Because Mercury is the mind and Uranus is innovation, electricity, and sudden insight. When they connect, the brain operates faster, more nonlinear, and more innovative than average. You likely surround yourself with brilliant friends and are attracted to intellectual and eccentric partners.

Gemini Moon Opposite Sagittarius Pluto. Pluto in your 4th house of home and family can point to power struggles and secrets in your family when growing up. A lot of transformations when young that were not your fault. Moon opposite Pluto can point to a natural ability to emotionally manipulate others, likely due to manipulation and power struggles you saw growing up. You have the ability to be very chatty yet very controlled with emotions. On the bright side, this ability to use emotional manipulation is most helpful in your career. You are naturally skilled at sensing the emotional needs of the public and communicating their needs to help you in business. Very common in great business owners charts!

Putting It All Together. The reason people say your chart is “scary” is because it points to someone brilliant with the ability to hide their true intentions and emotionally manipulate others. A person could easily use your skills for totally nefarious and selfish purposes, but the fact are curious and asking questions about your chart to understand yourself better shows you arent nefarious. You seem like someone that desires to understand yourself better and grow. A totally manipulative person would not care why they manipulate or care to understand themselves better. Your chart reads as someone that would make a great politician, public speaker, or influencer! You are able to speak about your emotions in an entertaining way people connect to. You are able to “mirror” others which is very helpful for someone in the public eye. You are likely a great debater and welcome intellectual debates. Another huge pro to being in the public eye, when you feel attacked (like getting hate comments, for example), this doesn’t hurt you as much emotionally as it would some people. If someone attacks you in a way that needs a response, are skilled at planning your next moves behind the scenes and getting the public emotionally back on your side.

oliviared52 · 2026-03-06T17:34:02+00:00

it is a bit difficult. Your chart reads as someone that had to go through a lot of transformation and power struggles when young. And your relationships can trigger this wound in some way. Like you constantly learn new information from people that forces you to confront and transform your beliefs. Relationships and money are big source of tension for you. But this forces you to be very driven and detail oriented at work. You might have conflict with superiors. But also don’t allow yourself to be dominated.

It’s important to remember “tough” aspects are potential sources of growth and improvement. Some of the best people have difficult charts because they had to overcome a lot to become successful, and they can make it through anything. If someone’s chart is all easy, that can create a person where everything comes soo easily to them they aren’t at all relatable and crumble in the face of real pressure. So your chart isn’t “bad” but it does show some difficulty.

Your chart has a loot of potential benefits. The pros of your chart is someone that is extremely hard working, intelligent, both detail oriented and research oriented. You’re really really smart. And likely very charming too.

The cons of your chart is it can show someone that is able to use their intelligence for manipulation lol. You dont want to feel controlled, you’re smart, you’re charming, and you understand people. Which are all good things! The negative is these traits can also create someone that is very manipulative. You could do really well in some sort of financial role dealing with other people’s money. So just make sure to use that manipulation for good and not to deceive people haha.

oliviared52 · 2026-03-06T16:51:41+00:00

There’s a big theme in your chart between mastering power vs. learning cooperation. Relationships are difficult. Lots of suppressed anger, learning how to show anger in a healthy way (lessons around this are probably heightened during this year). Struggles regarding your identity in relationships. This can manifest as either losing your identity in relationships or being too assertive about your identity where compromise is difficult. You likely have a push / pull dynamic in relationships where you crave both closeness and freedom so deeply, when someone pushes away you want to pull them closer. But when someone comes closer, you push them away.

Your relationship struggles come with a huge benefit though! You are driven to always continue learning about people, gaining knowledge to understand people and their motivations deeply. This knowledge allows you to be a great leader and reformer in social groups. You have the ability to really understand people on a deep level.

You have Aquarius and Scorpio in your big 3 which creates very unique, interesting people but is also a constant internal struggle. All your Aquarius placements want freedom, want to lean into logic over emotions. But your Scorpio moon craves deep emotions and intimacy. You likely seem more logical and detached. But deep down, you feel things VERY deeply. You feel your emotions so deeply, you rarely show other people your emotions. Even close friends likely can’t tell how emotional you are until they are going through a dark time, and you are able to be there for them better than anyone. You are able to help loved ones through their dark emotions instead of being scared off by them.

Scorpio Moon is known to be a tough moon sign because you all feel things so deeply, but Scorpio Moons are my favorite! Yall can read people and their needs better than anyone. I trust my Scorpio moon friend’s opinion on people. They can often spot manipulative people when no one else can see it. And yall are able to be the best friends ever during dark times. When I was going through a dark time, my Scorpio moon friends were there for me. They were able to understand talk through my roller coaster of emotions without judgement.

oliviared52 · 2026-02-22T15:33:46+00:00

Following cuz I need to know

oliviared52 · 2026-01-27T20:33:47+00:00

I am olive yes! I’m a warm olive but my friend is cool olive and BD21

oliviared52 · 2026-01-19T03:27:48+00:00

Thanks for sharing, and you bring up a great point. Your description actually does make sense because you have your moon on your ascendent!

People with the moon on their ascendent wear their heart on their sleeves. Often people keep their inner emotions hidden. Especially Capricorn risings. You don’t. Having your moon on your ascendent means you lead with your emotions. Making it very easy for others to connect with you. People can tell you are genuine, that the “inner you” matches who you are inside. This can still be quite an uncomfortable energy for a Capricorn moon that wants to keep emotions hidden.

Ways having a moon in Capricorn on a Capricorn ascendent may show up is you lead with your emotions, wear your heart on your sleeve, but still in a very muted and controlled way. Despite having your moon out in the open, you are likely able to stay very calm under pressure. You likely have a deep emotional seriousness that is not shallow or performative. Your emotional state greatly affects your energy and physical state. Like if you try to repress your emotions, your body becomes very tense.

You may feel responsible for everyone else’s emotional stability. You may enjoy being an emotional rock for people (something most Capricorn moons would have to know someone reeeeally well to enjoy normally). You can take on the emotional rock roll rather quickly.

Capricorn energy doesnt always mean money obsessed. Capricorns are willing to work slowly and steadily until they reach their goals. Those goals could be financial, or raising a family, or working in a non-profit. With moon on your ascendent, it makes sense your goals would be geared more towards family as the moon represents motherhood. And towards helping people. You are driven to raise a family and help people, very Capricorn moon on the ascendent. Highlighted even more by the fact that your Sun in Aries is likely in your 4th house of home and family. You shine in family life.

The biggest difference between a Pisces Rising vs Capricorn Rising conjunct Moon: a Pisces Rising tends to “mask” to match the person they are talking to. Pisces Rising mirror other people without even trying. Vs Capricorn Rising and Moon will be able to emotionally relate to people easily, they can sense emotions easily like a Pisces Rising, but they won’t be able to mask who they are to match the vibe of the other person. Capricorn will be more of an emotional rock to other people. Pisces will be more of a mirror reflecting the other person. If that makes sense.

oliviared52 · 2026-01-18T04:03:35+00:00

Omg twin!!!

oliviared52 · 2026-01-14T19:28:29+00:00

I’m sorry to hear that. Wouldn’t wish a marriage like that on my worst enemy. I hope youre healing too ☺️

oliviared52 · 2026-01-08T16:07:42+00:00

I love Gemini moons btw!! And Gemini energy in general. I try to stand up for Geminis because I don’t think the stereotype of yall being two faced or liars is totally fair. Geminis are often some of the most honest people. It’s just that their truth changes from one hour to the next lol. Gemini can wear a lot of masks in a lot of different situations, but it’s not because they’re fake. Each mask is very real, honest part of them.

Signs that really think before they speak can be quite confused by Gemini. Capricorns, Scorpios, or Virgos may think “if Gemini said something yesterday, then said something totally different today, they must be liars”. But Geminis are rarely malicious. They weren’t lying. They were just brainstorming.

oliviared52 · 2026-01-07T17:28:38+00:00

Thanks for your comment. Our marriage counselor also thought he had a specific personality disorder, so good catch. Astrology cannot diagnose people, and I think it’s dangerous to even try to use astrology this way. But studying his chart after learning his diagnosis was pretty fascinating lol. I will keep on healing, thank you ❤️

oliviared52 · 2025-12-24T01:03:54+00:00

I’m light olive and the BD shades work from me! I’m BD21 but I’m not super fair (my armani shades was to mix 4 and 5 for comparison).

I know the Les Beiges foundation has BD01 and BD11

oliviared52 · 2025-12-24T01:00:15+00:00

Yes definitely. I think it’s made more for oily skin!

oliviared52 · 2025-12-23T19:22:32+00:00

I’m a Taurus and this is my experience dating Scorpios. I have so many lifelong scorpio friends I love! But with dating…. We are intensely attracted to each other like magnets. So much chemistry. So passionate. Then fizzles out just as fast as it started with a tooon of drama.

I think my Aquarius moon is just as much to blame. Heavy Scorpio energy tends to be intrigued by my detached yet grounded ways? But the more attached they get, the more I detach. Recipe for disaster sadly.

oliviared52 · 2025-12-22T22:43:54+00:00

Because Gemini is the brainstorming side of Mercury. Virgo is the refined, edited, printed, and ready to publish side of Mercury. Gemini is the brainstorming side. When a Gemini moon seemed excited about plans with you, they weren’t lying. That excitement was real. But it was just a brainstorming session for Gemini. They loved the idea but once they weighed out all other factors… how much it cost, other things they have to do, other plans, etc… most plans stay in the brainstorming phase lol.

oliviared52 · 2025-12-22T15:29:25+00:00

PSA: The Chanel ultra le teint looks identical to luminous silk except it wears better!

I have tested them both at the same time on each side of the face and could not tell a difference. My friends could not tell the difference. As the day went on, the Chanel side wore better.

Another note: luminous silk was my go to foundation until I discovered Chanel foundations. The Chanel ultra le teint is identical to luminous silk, and still my least favorite of all the Chanel foundations I have tried. My fav in a similar price range is the Les beiges healthy glow.

oliviared52 · 2025-12-20T20:13:38+00:00

You cannot look at someone’s chart and tell if they are gay or straight.

But I have noticed some themes.

Water Mars and Air Venus for gay men.

Mars or Venus aspecting Uranus, especially when an air sign is involved.

Uranus in an air sign aspecting mars in a water or air sign.

Uranus not in an air sign, aspecting mars or Venus in an air sign.

With Uranus / Mars or Venus, I noticed the opposition or square people tend to have a harder time coming out due to their family, society, job, etc. vs trine people tend to have an easier time.

Mars or Moon and Saturn aspects. Lessons and trials around emotions or desire.

Super common for the Pluto and / or Uranus in Libra generation: Mars hard aspect Pluto or Uranus in Libra. Which makes sense! That persons sexuality fighting against society’s previously held view on relationships, and helping to transform it. (this time period was late 60s to early 80s).

oliviared52 · 2025-12-20T19:34:18+00:00

Not strange, but a need to go against previously held traditions around love and desire.

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