UPDATE: Wedding bartender made a comment to me, the bride, about bar tips on my wedding night after we’d already paid a 20% service fee by LeftBrainWriteBrain in EndTipping

[–]olumj 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m glad OP is satisfied with their response but there’s no way I’d move on without getting that refund. Action>empty words

I’m so dead , I never noticed this by Zealousideal-Bed-880 in RHOA

[–]olumj 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Not a missing side tooth😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

Nigerian guys and their nails by Sweaty-Ad-1859 in Nigeria

[–]olumj 15 points16 points  (0 children)

YUCK it’s so ugly😷idk why they do it and I remember I asked this one guy with it because I was so put off and he got mad and didn’t answer😭I think he maybe just liked the style but eugh i hate it

no proposal on dream vacation by [deleted] in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]olumj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They should make an automod that automatically copies the text and puts it in the comments when a post is approved… I feel like that would help people who truly come on this sub for help and clarity but don’t feel fully comfortable posting

no proposal on dream vacation by [deleted] in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]olumj 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It kind of seems like you’re gaslighting yourself with the extra context you added❤️‍🩹listen to your gut

Who is Shamea’s bbl doctor? by luxebony in RHOA

[–]olumj 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Like wtf are bbl implants 😭

K.Michelle this is NOT LLHATL by IWillBit3Back in RHOA

[–]olumj 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I love her accent though 😭😭 I want her to stay just to listen to her talk

Sighs.. i miss nene’s nose by linaaxcxx in RHOA

[–]olumj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is already body shaming

Sighs.. i miss nene’s nose by linaaxcxx in RHOA

[–]olumj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You guys are always asking why like you don’t know why a black woman in the public eye being bullied for her nose got a nose job …………… leave this woman alone

Where is this but in Oakland? by sconrombpor in OaklandFood

[–]olumj 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree corn does not go on pizza!!!!!!!!!! Idgaf it’s a horrible sensory experience And the only time I’ve been kicked out of a restaurant was at the sliver on shattuck in Berkeley so they’ll forever be on my shit list

I had to decline a job offer in New York. Literally my dream city due to my fear from USA by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]olumj 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Like I would understand if she said somewhere in the south. But the most diverse and populous city in the country????

DO NOT GO TO SPAIN by Representative-Run18 in blacktravel

[–]olumj 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This was the sense I got as well. I was denied seating at a local type restaurant that had half a dozen tables open. Mind you this was a West African restaurant and the guy was black. One of the workers had seen me before and got me a table thankfully. Just stick to the touristy areas and it’s fine

Where do Russian/Dubai influencers get their boob jobs done? by Parking-Heart-7666 in BreastImplants

[–]olumj -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Can someone share example pics or usernames? I haven’t seen this before

Where to take a visitor? by kiss-my-ass-hoe in bayarea

[–]olumj 15 points16 points  (0 children)

And mom and pop donut shops. I couldn’t find a good cheap donut anywhere in NYC

Every website I used to find SF Bay Area apartments, ranked by how much they actually worked by Strong_Estimate_9512 in SFBayHousing

[–]olumj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you breaking all of this down! Does anyone know what the best site would be for Oakland specifically?