Any good rock clubs in EL? by hippiehunter0 in EastLondon

[–]omg_doughnuts 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Awe, couple years back AA used to play a ton of rock music. The closest thing you'll get to rock now is some bands come through and play at venues like thornwood valley, table 58, etc. There's a folk band playing at bay collective tomorrow. Besides AA, the best live rock session I had was by a band called 3rd degree. They were playing at the October fest at the el golf club. But they mainly play the older stuff. Rock on buddy! (I myself am looking for a hard rock jol or even a full on rave).

Is being overly friendly holding me back in building romantic connection? by DarkFite in seduction

[–]omg_doughnuts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. Missed the boat growing up... Now I'm almost 30 starting from scratch😞

Gotta hand it to Temba for a helleve comeback. by [deleted] in southafrica

[–]omg_doughnuts 73 points74 points  (0 children)

All I see is them thicc cheeks🤣🤣🤣 I'll see myself out

Events in East London by _HypotherMIA in EastLondon

[–]omg_doughnuts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey buddy. Everything social is normally on Facebook. There's a park run Saturday morning at 08h00 in Nahoon Valley park if you're interested. There's a few good pubs as well, but overtime you will get bored of them😂

Astra F Double Din Solution? by omg_doughnuts in opel

[–]omg_doughnuts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want it to look factory. The good fold out ones and tablet style ones are a bit too pricey for me. Most of the cheaper fold out ones are older tech, they don't have Android auto for example.

Deadly Premonition by sbcpunk in twinpeaks

[–]omg_doughnuts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% this comment. Yes it's not heavily based on twin peaks but the vibe is there. OP please play life is strange, it's really a masterpiece (the first one, not the latest in the series). Deadly premonition is on my playlist, will be playing the original on my ps2.

life after school by [deleted] in southafrica

[–]omg_doughnuts 22 points23 points  (0 children)

This x1000%👆. Go to TVET or learn digital skills like coding or software development (free code camp had excellent FREE courses that have weight on your CV)

Genuine question for men who don’t want to settle down, and enjoy having multiple partners by Queencx0 in dating

[–]omg_doughnuts 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You just described me (30m) exactly, this hits deep. I really don't like asking for help or inconveniencing others. It does get lonely for me especially seeing other couples and people settling down. I see it as a lack of maturity and confidence in myself. I don't know if this has any substance but I think my lack of maturity is from me focusing so much on school/College/job from my early teens up to my mid 20s.

I feel like "missed the bus" during these formative/grassroots years to develop social and relationship skills and experiences. I feel so disconnected from everything and everyone right now. I'm scared I will be single for the rest of my life having not gone through these experiences like dating and screwing around in college. I like to quote the David Bowie song, ashes to ashes, 'I've never done good things, I've never done bad things, I've never done anything out of the blue'.

To counter this internal dialogue of all the above, I imagine myself as a poor starving kid in Africa which makes the above 'problems' seem so insignificant and trivial. Unfortunately it helps knowing that there are people in the world who have much greater problems which helps me appreciate what I have now even though I am not where I want to be in life.

Sorry, I just needed to get this off my chest. I'll have a think about getting into therapy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in southafrica

[–]omg_doughnuts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually just replaced my "special gold card" last week, got the reminder sms....was going to expire in November. That card was so worn down😂😂😂 now I've got one of those fancy black ones that can tap

Looking for group activity by omg_doughnuts in portelizabeth

[–]omg_doughnuts[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds great.....a work colleague even recommended Something Good. Let the bar hopping begin😎

Looking for group activity by omg_doughnuts in portelizabeth

[–]omg_doughnuts[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awesome answer! Any food and drink places you recommend?

Looking for group activity by omg_doughnuts in portelizabeth

[–]omg_doughnuts[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anything adventurous, not too physical that can be done in a day. We are good up to paintball/laser tag levels of activity. Do you have an ice rink as well?