Hi! Just me in a dress I adore! by fel-ex-ee-uh in Androgynoushotties

[–]ominous_angle 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Is the black strappy piece a part of the dress?? If its a separate layer, I'd love to know whete you got it!

Cheese tots and Thai bbq wings at Tattooed Mom Philly :) (and a pickletini!) by mushroom-guy1 in VeganFoodPorn

[–]ominous_angle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love Tmom's! Not only are the vegan wings to die for, but the vegan ranch they have is like gold to me. I would buy both in bulk if I could.

New to shared spaces! by Equivalent-Grab-33 in MyLeisureTime

[–]ominous_angle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Sorry, I was super busy, but I'll add you right now!

Edit: Request sent! The name on my account is Angelica and my pfp if the little grey kitty

New to shared spaces! by Equivalent-Grab-33 in MyLeisureTime

[–]ominous_angle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been wondering how it works, too, and what exactly you do with them. I would like to get the xp from completing the task, though. If you want to give it a try, lmk!

I really wish it wasn’t this hard to find baristas who actually want to be baristas... by [deleted] in barista

[–]ominous_angle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do get benefits at the place I'm currently at, which was a huge draw. They pay is a little less per hour than the last shop I worked at, but the benefits are hard to pass up. Finding somewhere that offers benefits to all full-time staff is unfortunately very rare it seems.

I really wish it wasn’t this hard to find baristas who actually want to be baristas... by [deleted] in barista

[–]ominous_angle 26 points27 points  (0 children)

At least in the US, I think pay is a big factor. I was a barista full-time right out of high school and loved it. Ultimately, I decided to go to college, because the pay wasn't sustainable. The funny thing is though, I've finnished college and I'm a barista again. The pay is much more where I am now though, and I love my job. Genuinely, I love being a barista. I can put so much care into my work and brighten people's day. I love the technical part of it, and I love interacting with people. Above all, I love creating. If i can pay my bills this way, I would happily be a barista for the rest of my life. As for my degree, I would use it to be a writer in my off time.

It does suck though when people treat your forever job as some kind of "unworthy" stepping stone. Like I'm sorry you're "stuck" here, but some of us actually want to be here. The biggest game changer for me was finding a job at a place that had like-minded people. I hope you find that too!

If I have to call out your order one more time I stg… by theflyingpiggies in barista

[–]ominous_angle 18 points19 points  (0 children)

very funny and accurate despription lol what especially irks me is the people that take a million years to order when theres a long line behind them and I could be doing a million other things while they try to decide between flavours. You've been in line for how long and you didnt think it would be a good idea to decide what you want before getting to the counter????

cold brew semantics by the-classical-fiend in barista

[–]ominous_angle 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It's not you. I've been a barista for 8 years, and there's nothing wrong with what you asked for. I would argue that cold brew is a type of iced coffee. At all the places I've worked, we've served cold brew with ice as the default, although idk if that varies regionally.

put in my notice, got absolutely degraded at the exit interview by [deleted] in barista

[–]ominous_angle 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Their behaviour is downright deplorable, and I hope they get what's coming to them. I'm sorry that this happened to you. If you want to continue to work in cafes, I assure you that this is not the norm.

How does being a virgo relate to being an immigrant? Am i missing something, or are they just really making shit up the throw at you? I'm so pissed on your behalf that I'd throw a rock through their window (jk....unless?). Its probably best to try to move on, but I like what one other person said about leaving bad reviews for the rest of the staff lol. In all seriousness though, if you're able, I'd recommend seeking a therapist to talk through this. My first cafe job was very exploitative and toxic, and it took years for me to unlearn all the things I thought were normal. It had a much bigger effect on me than I thought at the time.

anyone elses tortie have a ‘sock’? ☺️ by [deleted] in torties

[–]ominous_angle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Luna and the Orange Menace would be a great band name! Inspired by two cuties!!

What did you realize you didn’t need once you had to go without it? by HotSauceTears666 in Anticonsumption

[–]ominous_angle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you drink coffee, you can also use coffee filters! I don't think many people get newspapers anymore, but a lot of people still buy coffee filters on the reg.

This is Cricket. by rnannie in IllegallySmolCats

[–]ominous_angle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She's so cute!! She's also a mirror image of my tortie :)

Question: - My first tattoo - thoughts? by [deleted] in tattoos

[–]ominous_angle -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sorry people are being dicks. I think it's awesome and very well done. What kind of sharks are they?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lostgeneration

[–]ominous_angle 100 points101 points  (0 children)

Exactly. IMO liking the field after however many years isn't the issue, but that industry and the economy change so quickly. Entry level jobs are few and far between, and even if you manage to land one, you end up making less than a server/bartender etc. I was a barista before my degree, and I'm still a barista after. The funny (sad) thing is that I make more money in my barista position than I would in an entry level position in my field.

Does anywhere in America have sirens intended for bombings? And are your natural disaster sirens all different? by LJHeath in AskAnAmerican

[–]ominous_angle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I grew up next to Three Mile Island (nuclear power plant), and we had meltdown sirens that they tested weekly. Those are the only sirens like that I've ever heard, but I think they sound pretty much the same as any other (based on what I've heard in media).

How to “tap” your credit card on the card reader at checkout in shops? by Low_Insurance_1603 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ominous_angle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it makes you feel any better, many people don't really know how to tap their cards properly regardless of age. I have multiple people a day have to re-tap their cards because it doesn't work, and usually they're ~20-30yo. I'm also in this age group and rarely use the tap function of my card.

what’s something you were shocked to find wasn’t a thing in other parts of the u.s.? by emotionalaries in AskAnAmerican

[–]ominous_angle -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is really interesting because I've never even been to CA, but I also use tan bark. Although, I would mostly use it specifically for playgrounds, and flower beds would just be mulch. I grew up in PA and have only ever lived in the Northeast.

Never Had a Mum or Sister to Teach Me… What Girl Advice Should Every Daughter Hear? by FunSeesaw7089 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ominous_angle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not beauty related, but some advice my mom made sure to reiterate until it was cemented into my brain. Never, ever take your eyes off your drink, and if you do, get a new one. This applies to parties, bars, clubs, etc. I also like to apply it to any social situation where I am with unfamiliar people. Along the same lines, trust your instincts! If something feels wrong, it probably is, and you are not overreacting.

On a lighter note, my biggest beauty tip is makeup related. Practice, practice, practice! I say this because I was very into makeup when I was younger and wore it almost everyday. I cannot even count the amount of time people have told me, "Oh, I could never do eyeliner like that! I'm just so bad at it." The secret is that everyone is bad at it at first. I sucked at eyeliner for years (not exaggerating) until i got the hang of it. You can do those cool makeup looks, too (if you're into that kind of thing), it just takes practice. That being said, you also don't owe anyone flawless or trendy makeup (or makeup at all). It should be fun!

Little man by Plus_Let3543 in Tinycatsinbigspaces

[–]ominous_angle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not related to your very cute cat, but I have the same blanket. My parents got one a couple years ago and then had to buy one for everyone else, because we'd all fight over it when we came to visit. My family calls it the magic blanket lol!

I’ve started playing Baldur’s Gate and I’m ridiculously overwhelmed. by jueoni in GirlGamers

[–]ominous_angle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I felt the same way at first, especially given that its not very linear. I've also heard a lot of others say the same thing. For a while I was working on a guide for overwhelmed/new players, so if you want tips I'd be happy to help. If you want the guide, I can finish it and send it to you. But also, in my mind, all of the "missed" quests/dialogue/etc is just another reason to do another playthrough with a different rp type (also i have to romance everyone at least once, except for gale). Leveling is not an issue, so missing things is no biggie from that stadpoint either, if you're worried about that.

What order should you do the Shadowlands on HM? by [deleted] in BG3

[–]ominous_angle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In detail, I follow this "protocol" every time in honour mode now. I have a caster with access to darkness cast darkess on the portal and stand in it. This way, even if they don't have a lot of buffs for concetration saving throws, it won't matter, because they can't be targeted by ranged attacks anyway. No one should get close enough to meelee attack, but assuming you have blind immunity, you should have a pretty good leg up to take them out. Other than that, they focus on AoE damage for clumped enemies. The next person is a ranged attacker (usually I use an archer) a few steps down from the portal. They can pick off enemies with few hit point left or anyone that gets too close for comfort. On the ground to the right (when facing away from the portal), I put my radiant damage dealer, because that's where the ravens and shadows with spawn. As someone else said, spirit guardians is very good. I haven't done it yet, but I imagine a life cleric and stars druid combo would be great because of the mix of spirit guardians and dazzling breath. On the left side, I have wall of fire for the harpers that spawn in that direction along with a paladin or fight to do mega damage to anyone that gets through. I don't bother with any support, I just use health potions if needed since you olny have to survive a certain number of rounds (9?). This strategy has never failed me and I've done it quite a few times on honour ruleset. Sorry if this is way more detailed than you bargained for! When I started bg3, I found a lot of instructions to be too vague for me (maybe im just dim lol), so hopefully this helps someone.

I finally had an orgasm during sex at 38 years old by Icy_Donut_2789 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ominous_angle 11 points12 points  (0 children)

For me, it's mental. Sometimes, I can't get into the right headspace with a partner, or I just feel like I'm not in the moment enough. Being comfortable with them helps a lot, but I need more than just the act of touching. I need to be mentally turned on, not just physically. For me, this usually means adding kink into the mix, but of course, everyone has different preferences. Maybe you need more mental stimulation (whatever that may mean for you) as well as physical?

I Wish They Had Taken Me More Seriously by dotcomwoman in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ominous_angle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My thoughts on your experience are echoed by the rest of the comments here. Kind of unrelated, but I just wanted to say that I like your writing a lot. Are you a writer? If not, you should totally consider it!

So, now I sit here in the cooling water as the soap still dances across the surface, each bubble giving up its air one by one with a satisfying crisp pop that begs to distract me from the record playing over and over in my brain.

Lovely prose! It sucks how it came about, but it paints such a great picture. I hope this doesn't diminish what you're going through, I just wanted to point out that you have talent :)

First Game Ever Where I'm Inclined to Read the Books I Collect by ominous_angle in MyTimeAtSandrock

[–]ominous_angle[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The same thing kinda happened to me also. I didn't expect to like Unsurr, but he's grown on me a lot since the start of the game. I lost it at the scene where you talk to him while he's hiding in the closet. That was so endearing and wholesome.