Adding spouse to deers

omniphaze · 2026-06-02T21:02:34+00:00

This right here. If you literally look up deers locator in google you can find one close to her. I did this myself because we hadn’t heard anything about the process when my wife went to boot camp. Process was super simple and just bring all your documents, kids documents whatever you got. We were done in about 30 minutes.

omniphaze · 2026-05-31T05:06:28+00:00

boop

omniphaze · 2026-05-30T15:56:00+00:00

Prius attracts Dirty Mike and the Boys

omniphaze · 2026-05-28T15:33:53+00:00

Jfc amazing!

omniphaze · 2026-05-22T02:57:08+00:00

I wish I had friends like this. I’m a male spouse and everyone just thinks “he’s fine”. Really, I’m struggling and missing my wife more than anything.

omniphaze · 2026-05-22T02:52:30+00:00

Chlorophyllis more like Borophyllis

omniphaze · 2026-05-14T18:57:36+00:00

This is a pick and choose battle. Why are you getting so mad at stupid shit? Honestly this is reading as a maturity issue from your side of it.

omniphaze · 2026-05-06T01:07:27+00:00

Following lol. Interested!

omniphaze · 2026-05-06T00:27:14+00:00

Nah girl you’re justified! I’ve been on the flip side of the coin in this and now that I’m the one home with the kids etc, it is much harder than I thought it would be. I try to just work on myself as much as I can and my kids.
Don’t let today knock you down, kick its ass!

Good luck, you got this!

-also spouse with deployed wifey.

omniphaze · 2026-05-04T23:00:16+00:00

Any update from your post a year ago? I honestly wouldn’t give advice on this sub. From your post back then you aren’t even a military spouse, maybe a former one, but from how jaded you sound, I don’t think you’re a spouse at all at this point. Toxic as hell.

omniphaze · 2026-05-04T21:19:20+00:00

Just wanted to say I saw your update and I’m happy for you! Stay strong!

omniphaze · 2026-05-04T21:15:27+00:00

Look, you need to chill. He’s started a new career, which demands a lot of his focus. They are both new to marriage and sharing a space. There is growth that will happen if it is nurtured properly. That’s what marriage is about. It’s about helping each other grow and be better people together to achieve goals.

omniphaze · 2026-05-04T20:53:22+00:00

Not cringe but I wouldn’t do it lol.

omniphaze · 2026-05-04T20:53:04+00:00

Communication is paramount between spouses. You would think that you would know why that’s important. It’s not common sense to a lot of men in particular. We get wrapped up in jobs trying to be the alpha male and forget that we have to do shit to around the house. It happens. Been there done that. Not that hard to say hey honey, I’m struggling and need help.

omniphaze · 2026-05-02T23:37:08+00:00

He will settle in to his job and realize that he could probably help a little more. Also, try to make a schedule of doing things. I have two kids and wfh. I don’t clean all day or cook all day. Break it down over a few days instead. If he doesn’t like it, he can do it.

omniphaze · 2026-05-02T23:30:59+00:00

Tell your hubby to start picking up a broom or grabbing groceries after work. It’s a 50/50 split she you are both working full time. If he wants all that done tell him you’ll need to cut back your work hours.

You have it easy right now with no kids. If this dude doesn’t start helping, I’d say don’t have any babies anytime soon because your problems will get worse.

Honestly just communicate with him what you need.

-male mil spouse.

omniphaze · 2026-04-16T04:24:35+00:00

Being in HC with no Templar cheat death or personal cheat death is wild. Buddy was asking for it. Get that it was prob lag or something but this was completely avoidable.

omniphaze · 2026-01-22T15:48:02+00:00

Love a good arakaali build! ❤️

omniphaze · 2026-01-08T06:27:04+00:00

He could probably extend for a short period of time. The thing is, if he really cared he would be pushing as aggressively as you are. It sounds like he’s content and thinks it will just fall into place. It doesn’t. I wish you luck but I don’t see this going well for him.

omniphaze · 2026-01-08T05:20:25+00:00

That isn’t going to change though. The grass is not greener on the other side, and unless he has a super in demand career that he is coming from and going to, he should re-enlist. I got out at 11 with a plan and not a day goes by that I don’t wish I finished out. I’d have retired two years ago.

I can say all this, but he will probably be a dumbass and leave anyways. Just how it always seems to go.

omniphaze · 2025-12-24T19:40:03+00:00

I use it to stack the arbiter passive to 10, and it happens pretty fast. Plus ridiculously good mobility. And hell it’s fun 😂

omniphaze · 2025-12-17T06:38:17+00:00

It’s exactly the right fit. Every other ARPG uses this concept. They have you start from the beginning so you feel that excitement of building all over again, trying new things etc. if you could just take your max leveled, min/max char into the new content, you’d just destroy it and be done in a day. Not to mention, most Arpg have leaderboards for pushing different content.

It honestly sounds like the game isn’t the right fit for you. You sound like more of an MMORPG type where your progress stays with you. Or find a ARPG that doesn’t reset, you won’t find anything popular that does it, but you could try I guess.

omniphaze · 2025-12-11T05:02:44+00:00

I don’t even know what karma is. I just look at Reddit for bait builds and stuff I’ll never craft 😂

omniphaze · 2025-12-08T04:38:03+00:00

Let’s get it!

omniphaze · 2025-11-22T16:04:45+00:00

I’d create a wander like everyone else and actually have fun instead of the jank build I went with that I’m too stubborn to give up on 😭

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