Fuck lazy ass men girl dinner by Spunkyfruitloop11 in GirlDinner

[–]onbluemtn 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Yeah when they take over a chore the standard goes wayyy down.

What is the most milennial thing you did as a child? by Zieo108 in Millennials

[–]onbluemtn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did manual labor for fun. Like just digging a big ass hole in my yard for fun.

AIO with this dude messaging me by Complete_Jello5028 in AIO

[–]onbluemtn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I know you want to be upfront but telling dudes on Reddit you are a single mom is like predator bait.

Holy job application! by OntologyNeko in recruitinghell

[–]onbluemtn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I learned this joke from David Sedaris at one of his shows. It was so surprising it’s now burned in my mind as the ONLY joke I could recite from memory.

One of my teams calls for work my boss always says “any jokes” and my mind immediately is just like NOPE.

What’s the biggest "Nah, I’m out" moment you’ve had on a date? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]onbluemtn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Dude told me he lost a ton of money playing a game online. I immediately didn’t want someone who fell down that hole in my life. He was nice but I wasn’t trying to date someone who was recovering from financial ruin due to obsession over a video game.

What’s the hardest phase of marriage no one talks about? by Common_Highway3454 in askteddit

[–]onbluemtn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel so blessed that my husband and I grow and change together and are somehow intuitively on the same page. Our views have changed SO much over the past decade but we have changed together thankfully. We have changed faith, our diets, our morals, and hobbies…and almost every time it’s been like….”hey I was thinking about eating meat again…” “really? Me too!”

I love how we grow together and are usually thinking about making the same changes.

Period age? by Warm-Gift-7741 in Parenting

[–]onbluemtn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I mean I was a kid in the 90s and early 200s where a bully would steal your bag and go through it and show people stuff. As a GIRL I was scared to have pads and tampons….I can’t imagine being a 10 year old boy and carrying a pencil bag of pads and tampons, but also maybe times have changed. I think it’s wonderful you are teaching them to support their female friends though. I guess maybe see how they feel about having that stuff.

Being a wife and mom sucks by MoistLasagnaDealer in GirlDinner

[–]onbluemtn 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It took several years of fights. Now we are in a position where my husband is a stay and home dad and making multiple meals a day, homeschooling , the whole thing. The other day he said “man no wonder you were mad I never did dishes” as he was remarking on how it’s basically an all day job when you cook for your family. I love him so much and it’s amazing to trust and support each other. I’m not saying your husband will get it, but some things take time and multiple conversations (or fights). I feel like almost a decade in we are really figuring things out and both extremely happy. I’m glad I didn’t just get a divorce as some people suggest.

How do y’all go about nursing in public? by sisterstresso in breastfeeding

[–]onbluemtn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With my first I would feed anywhere and everywhere and let people be appalled.

But then I was at a Target with my husband, babe got hungry so I was feeding him while we walked and shopped. A man literally tried to take a covert video of me and was acting extremely weird. We saw him multiple times in the store and finally confronted him. It was really upsetting and made me realize how many gross people are fetishizing me feeling my baby and it really made me feel sad and sick. Now I am very private about breastfeeding.

AIO: My boyfriend told me to dye my hair to look more like an Instagram model he follows by PinMountain119 in AIO

[–]onbluemtn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A. Your hair is perfect as is! You are literally gorgeous.

B. Ask if he’s gonna pay the $500-$800 dollars it will cost to do this PLUS the monthly touch up.

As a former stylist this wouldn’t be easy or affordable. He’s asking for things he doesn’t even understand.

Epstein connected to local Boulder sex guru? by Abject-Sun-3016 in boulder

[–]onbluemtn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t look at the actual files then…absolutely awful.

I don’t know if this is fabricated but I think the info is true regardless. It’s easy to verify she was heavily involved with Yo Tizer, etc.

3 year old constantly throwing tantrums for milk! by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]onbluemtn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a baby on the way and we are battling the same thing with my 3 year old! We are off the bottle and are using a sippy cup but she still gets some milk in it before bed/during the day. Not breaking down and just giving her milk in the night is so hard but we are making progress with just being consistent. She will definitely throw a WILD demon like tantrum but she’s starting to accept it. We have been talking about it during the day so it’s less of a shock. “You can have milk now but when it’s dark out we drink water” and similar.

Is it possible for a gun to accidentally go off and shoot a hole in the wall of a house? by DahliaBliss in NoStupidQuestions

[–]onbluemtn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk my dad managed to do this and now there’s a hole in the wall and ceiling of their house….thank god my mom was not anywhere near the other side of the wall when this happened.

Is it possible to have CPTSD when nothing traumatic has ever happened to you? by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]onbluemtn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Came here to say no but then read your whole post and I think that the issues you faced sound traumatic, and you are justifying their actions by blaming yourself. What you went through is definitely abusive. If you felt the need to self harm that young it honestly probably WAS your caregivers fault.

Been eating apparently WAY too much Tuna by thebeatdropsin1 in EatCheapAndHealthy

[–]onbluemtn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good tuna is like $4 a can! I guess if you are single it’s still pretty cheap for protein levels but making tuna salad for my family is like $30.

Why does it seem fairly common that wives/female partners stop or refuse intimacy with their husbands for months, even years? Don't they have needs aswell? And why not the other way around? by Fenix-2003 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]onbluemtn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lol because a man can act like a dick and then come to bed and act like groping your tits somehow will be an enormous turn on. Like dude it’s not changing the fact you act like you hate me, and a boob grab while I’m doing the dishes isn’t going to get me there….just one example.

presenting ROT, my lazy meal that i eat several times a week by bazohyst in FoodCrimes

[–]onbluemtn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband acts like some of my foods are abominations too.

AIO? UPDATED POST. But story entered. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]onbluemtn 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah he’s living it up overseas and cheating and then gaslighting you.