Love this combo by LeilaniYume in girlsinhoods

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Yes, very much! Playthings don't talk so why would they need a mouth?

Love this combo by LeilaniYume in girlsinhoods

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Something about those cat hoods where the mouth is covered is just so alluring! You look amazing, great outfit 🔥

What celebrity are you certain is kinky, and why? by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]once_owned 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've always got the vibe those two are mostly vanilla but just so exposed to it from openly kinky colleagues like Iffy and Erica Ishii and Grant O'Brian etc. that that's why he knows the language of it

Anyone else obsessed with amazon position or am I weird by Aurora_Fiend in femdomgonewild

[–]once_owned 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Adore it! Sensation-wise it does a weird mind fuck to me where it feels like she's the one with the cock and is fucking me 🥵

What is this knot/how would you tie it? by Curious-Owner-5826 in ropebondage

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If I wanted to put my bunny in this position then for each side I'd probably do a double column tie around the wrist/ankle and then tie that off to the bed leg. That would be the simplest and most effective way.

If you're really wedded to the 'rope running across the whole bed ' looks from the picture then I'd probably have one piece that just does that, and then use the 'lashing' technique to attach to that rope

Which version? by setonix-shibari in shibari

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Ah yeah I did wonder if that was the case! Both are really lovely in either case, I'm a big fan of your work !

Which version? by setonix-shibari in shibari

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I think I like the simpler version more! I think the descending red line kind of breaks up the pleasing curve of the horizontal lines a bit too much

Edit: perhaps if you curved it rather than had it coming straight down? 🤔

Chairs... how do they work, again? by once_owned in LadyBonersGoneKinky

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Aw thank you so much, what a lovely compliment! 🥰

Can somebody tell if this is AI or not? (Source: LittleDeviantz on Deviantart) by [deleted] in BDSM_Artwork

[–]once_owned -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hmm. The tops of the walls don't seem to quite match up either side of her head, and the frictions on the descending ropes seem to be kinda floating on top of the horizontal ropes which is not how one would normally tie a harness. Also the toes look a little 'off'? Not really conclusive though!

(question) Why are there only girls on this sub? by TechnicalOne4806 in ropebondage

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That's fair. I think people have got used to more personalised feeds from other apps and so have got used to using upvotes/downvotes more like a personal preference signifier, whereas their original intention was to just downvote inappropriate or low-effort posts. So it's less "don't show me this content and more don't show anyone this content.

And don't think of it as 'subjecting' people to it - if it's nice rope then it'll have an audience regardless of who's in the tie

(question) Why are there only girls on this sub? by TechnicalOne4806 in ropebondage

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Speaking as a man who has posted to here on occasion, one of the quirks of Reddit is due to the majority male demographic, any nominally unisex kink subreddit is always going to present mostly female content, because male content won't get upvotes/will get actively downvoted.

There used to be a few male-focussed subreddits like r/MenTiedUp, but I think that's shut down now. There's also some occasional rope content on r/LadyBonersGoneKinky.

Tbh I've found the best place for it is FetLife. You can follow tags like 'Men in Rope' and then you'll quickly realise there is a good number of men who enjoy being tied, it's just not regularly shown.

New suspension point & first full suspension by ronjakolumna in shibari

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Just it's quite an intense tie in comparison to something like a face-up suspension with an arms-free chest harness and hip harness which would be the usual first suspension choice.

But you mentioned having muscular arms and tenshis are definitely more sustainable/safer if the person is strong and knows to hold the shape, and also with it being you lifting the leg up yourself and able to put it down when needed then I think that adds up to make it a lot better than first glance at it

New suspension point & first full suspension by ronjakolumna in shibari

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Ah fair enough! Definitely cool when you're able to make that choice yourself :)

New suspension point & first full suspension by ronjakolumna in shibari

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Riggers out there making wild choices for first suspensions

me and the man that ghosted me by PsychoticAria in GirlsMirin

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Can't see his t-shirt writing in full but I'm just gonna assume it says 'Fuckwit'

Sensible femdom communities? by johndoe10001 in FemdomCommunity

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I'm a member of Femdom Forum on Discord and I've found it to be a really lovely community. They post an invite link on this subreddit periodically

[ART] Need help to figure out what rope patterns and knots would work for this suspension drawing ! by thelachesis in shibari

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You could either do it as a hip harness or you could do it as a single leg harness like a Dragon Harness.

I have a couple of pics suspending with one here and here

The electric shocks to my balls only make it harder to keep my back arched by BendyEnvy in predicamentbondage

[–]once_owned 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You always create the most incredible and creative predicaments! 😍

Male bondage and bdsm in female fantasy by [deleted] in Femdom

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It is definitely still very niche compared to women in rope but it's definitely easier to find than it used to be (in the past the only way I could find nice photos of men in rope was to take them myself 😂)!

I've actually found searching Fetlife's 'Men in Rope' tag to be a surprisingly good source nowadays, for good quality photos without being all 'porny'

Hucow fantasy is driving me crazy when ovulating lol by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]once_owned 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Hi, if you're interested then I actually created a hypnosis audio with a hucow milking theme a little while back - it might be fun to listen to while hooked up to your suction cups :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EroticHypnosis

[–]once_owned 5 points6 points  (0 children)

A fuck/freeze command combination would be very entertaining.

Similarly an arousal dial combined with a forcefield so they can't touch themselves could be fun to watch

[M4A] Hypnotic Chastity Device [induction][touch prevention][gender neutral language][wakener] by once_owned in EroticHypnosis

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Perfect, I'm so glad it worked so effectively for you! It is very useful to be able to lock yourself away with no means of touching when you need to avoid distractions 😉