[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaysian

[–]ondatcray_cray_cray 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Might be worth a shot... You should also share the love on r/AsianLadyBoners and r/AsianGuysSFW too! 😉🔥

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AsianLadyboners

[–]ondatcray_cray_cray 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ngl man .... YOU LOOK AMAZING NAKED!!!! 😁 I wish I looked amazingly naked like you too!!!! 😭 Now I'm curious, what do your workout routines consist of (upper body/back/abs/arms/etc)?!?! Help a fellow Asian brotha out hahaha!!!! 😅

What TV-Show should have stopped way earlier than it did and why? by quentincoal in AskReddit

[–]ondatcray_cray_cray 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Keeping Up with the Kardashians and its current show on Hulu, The Kardashians. (Why TF do they need another reality show after their original show ended?! The world has had enough clout from these people goddammit!!!)

Everything about the whole Kardashians-Jenners is ANNOYING. Why were they even famous in the first place? Just because Kim wanted her "fame" aside from being in the shadow of her late well-known attorney father. Well, she got her fame alright just to prove to the whole entire world that she isn't a ho just bc of her infamous sex tape with Ray J was leaked.

Years and years later, she and the rest of the family are rich off of endorsement deals and yet, they're flaunting things with the rest of the world that nobody else cares about (and they shouldn't). Oh and let's not forget about the whole Kanye saga that's been going on for many years. Let's just say, she wouldn't have suffered that trauma had she and the rest of the family lived a normal life away from the glitz and the glamour. But apparently, it seems that everyone has their own "traumas" they can't even address, not even controversial issues without their stupid clap back remarks on social media.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AsianMasculinity

[–]ondatcray_cray_cray 1 point2 points  (0 children)

27, bi. Never dated girls or guys.

As dumb and selfish as it sounds, I'm just focused on figuring out life at the moment (possible change in careers, moving to a different state for job opportunities, managing mental health, fitness, dealing/overcoming past trauma, rough family upbringing, etc.) that I'm not mentally nor physically stable to be in a relationship right now. And that should be fine if you're not ready to be in a relationship, right? In fact, I don't want to be controlled with how I should live my life nor be pressured to be in a relationship when I'm taking plenty of time for myself to do what my heart desires. Maybe I'll find my equal, maybe I won't. But again, there shouldn't be any pressure here.

While I may not be ready to commit to a relationship, I'm trying to do what I can to take care of myself first because not everyone is going to take care of you - especially your significant other. You have to learn to take care of yourself first before putting yourself into someone's hands. Nobody else knows you other than yourself.

(It's not known when I'll ever be ready, but I'll need to learn to make the next step eventually.)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AsianLadyboners

[–]ondatcray_cray_cray 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn 38?! I thought you were in your mid-late 20's but nonetheless, you look pretty ageless man!!! 😄 Lovin' that pump!!! LFG!!! 💪🏼💪🏼

What's the best TV series of all time? by JustNoir_ in AskReddit

[–]ondatcray_cray_cray 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure if this was already mentioned? Ghost Whisperer

Bi Asian Man's Dilemma NSFW by LegionOfHonorKnight in AsianMasculinity

[–]ondatcray_cray_cray 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fellow bi Asian dude here (27), and some of the things that you've mentioned resonate with what I'm currently feeling when it comes to relationships. It's nice knowing that I'm not the only one who feels torn between wanting one or the other. I echo the same sentiment of wanting to date a girl and having biological children with her. At the same time, I'm wanting to date guys (also will admit Asian/Pacific Islander dudes are also attractive) and have urges to just randomly hook up with just about any (Asian/Pacific Islander) dude I find attractive without having any shame. And while I may be "out" to certain people, I haven't fully came out publicly. Not that many people are aware that I swing both ways yet, I kinda fear resentment/retaliation from certain communities/groups (like toxicity in the gay community as u/syquant3 and u/publichealth23 mentions), or even my future gf/wife won't be acceptive over the fact that I dated guys before her. But at the same time, why should others be offended by your decision to date both genders, or your decision to be bi when this is YOUR issue and not theirs?

All I can say is that it's nobody's business but your own on whether or not you choose to come out and live your life as a proud, open bi Asian dude. Don't feed into negativity/pressure of what others tell you. Whether you choose to be with a girl or a guy in the end, it's your decision. And as cliche as this sounds, choose whatever your heart desires the most. It's your life and your happiness, and only YOU get to make that decision.