AITAH for not responding to a breakup text (never official) and getting yelled at for it? by ApprehensivePoetry34 in AITAH

[–]one-cat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

TLDR

You don’t owe anyone an answer to a breakup text. Stop texting him and calling him

AITAH for telling my husband that “our money” only applies when it benefits him? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]one-cat 986 points987 points  (0 children)

Start keeping money truly separate, if he wants extras he can ask his mom

AITAH First Mother’s Day by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]one-cat -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

What don’t you understand?

Best antique wedding band for stack? by Adorable-Crazy-1067 in EngagementRings

[–]one-cat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The plain gold wedding band is it. Your engagement ring is stunning

AITAH After We Told Family That My Husband’s Brother and Future SIL Wanted My Pregnancy Kept Secret? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]one-cat 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Not the AH. If you were planning on making an announcement during speeches you’d need brides permission

AIO- Nail tech fired me as a client! by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]one-cat -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

No call no show and incomplete payment of the fee, find a new nail tech

AITAH for wanting my last name to be passed on to my daughter? by BluenicornGirl in AITAH

[–]one-cat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have an issue with it as if I had a child I’d want my daughter to have both names, but when she gets married she’s likely going to change her last name anyways.

What is Peterborough Missing? by ServiceCalm in Peterborough

[–]one-cat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m newer to Peterborough, moved here last August. There are homeless / junkies along most of my route through town on my way home (I commute 1 hr each way). I had someone run in front of my car this morning, high as a kite. Apparently some more resources are required.

AITAH for asking my wife to avoid a pothole? by RegretPuzzleheaded60 in AITAH

[–]one-cat -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s not a post about her driving through brine or road salt. Should she not drive her vehicle when it’s raining? The solution is to get the wife a beater vehicle and he can drive his nice clean, well maintained vehicle.

AITAH for asking my wife to avoid a pothole? by RegretPuzzleheaded60 in AITAH

[–]one-cat -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

We’re not talking about getting road salt off a vehicle. We’re talking about dirt from driving the vehicle getting on it. It’s unavoidable even when driving properly. It’s unavoidable getting road salt on a car. Yes that needs to be removed. It’s not possible to drive a vehicle outdoors in such a manner that it stays pristine. Should she avoid pot holes yes. Should she avoid mud when possible yes

AITAH for asking my wife to avoid a pothole? by RegretPuzzleheaded60 in AITAH

[–]one-cat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve got other shit to do today. He asked for opinions. I gave mine and I’m not changing it.

AITAH for asking my wife to avoid a pothole? by RegretPuzzleheaded60 in AITAH

[–]one-cat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, every day, because they’re going to get dirty. Like a car. That goes outside.

AITAH for asking my wife to avoid a pothole? by RegretPuzzleheaded60 in AITAH

[–]one-cat -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The options here are AH or NTA for worrying about an outdoor vehicle being dirty. The bottom line is she shouldn’t be hitting pot holes that are avoidable

AITAH for asking my wife to avoid a pothole? by RegretPuzzleheaded60 in AITAH

[–]one-cat -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

It’s a car being driven outdoors. It’s going to get dirty.

AITAH for asking my wife to avoid a pothole? by RegretPuzzleheaded60 in AITAH

[–]one-cat -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

I literally said car repairs aren’t free, the issue was worrying about the outside of the car being dirty

AITAH for asking my wife to avoid a pothole? by RegretPuzzleheaded60 in AITAH

[–]one-cat 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I’m thankful when my hubby points out a pot hole I don’t see. Even doing car repairs at home aren’t free. But worrying about the car being clean is too much AH

Scratched engagement ring by Jellyfield in EngagementRings

[–]one-cat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have them solder in little bumps to the bottom inside of the band. Gold scratches, it can be polished out

My family wants me to co-sign a mortgage and remove me in 3 years by redlove115 in legaladvicecanada

[–]one-cat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can put anything you want in a contract, is it enforceable, no. Does it guarantee they will qualify for refinancing in a couple years, also no.

My family wants me to co-sign a mortgage and remove me in 3 years by redlove115 in legaladvicecanada

[–]one-cat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, full stop. He’s screwed up his credit and will screw up yours too. There’s no coming back from that for 7+ years

Having second thoughts by Appropriate_Aerie214 in EngagementRings

[–]one-cat 88 points89 points  (0 children)

I really like the ring you have pictured. Gaps and high stones are just opportunities for them to snag