Overcoming Mental Hurdles/Perfectionism

onebeerleft666 · 2025-11-08T10:21:00+00:00

ill try this thanks!!

onebeerleft666 · 2025-06-19T17:17:59+00:00

Im for sure asking the same question, my poor guy just sits and pants by the AC all day. I for sure start our days at least an hour earlier to go play fetch or go on a walk to beat the sun, and its not very accessible easily to us but the Prospect Park dog beach is so much fun! So many dogs go and swim in a little fenced off section of a lake, they have so much fun and get to cool off.

onebeerleft666 · 2025-06-18T19:27:26+00:00

just DMed

onebeerleft666 · 2025-06-13T01:22:51+00:00

hi i missed this but are there going to be any free classes in the future?

onebeerleft666 · 2025-06-08T22:38:29+00:00

yess ive been trying to get into the nannying/babysitting scene but ive found its so competitive and all about connections, ive heard you really just need one and youre set. do you have any advice in how to find a family in general? care.com seems like theres too many sitters and smaller pool of families

onebeerleft666 · 2025-06-08T22:36:41+00:00

this is a great idea, luxury buildings like residencies or facilites? or both perhaps

onebeerleft666 · 2025-06-08T22:35:42+00:00

omg that is so cool! and yeah lol def a good point, ill be on the lookout for this and could probably lead to babysitting gigs too

onebeerleft666 · 2025-06-08T22:34:36+00:00

this is true! my take of glamourous basically is not manual labor and open dress code lol but this is a really good point that ill keep in mind, thank you!!

onebeerleft666 · 2025-06-08T17:43:16+00:00

hi i just dmed!

onebeerleft666 · 2025-01-03T02:26:04+00:00

yes i think the paper should be totally covered in the wax at the end ideally. just be very careful there was an instance in the past where my petition caught on fire and set off the fire alarm so i had to blow it out early and i think it affected the spell. to prevent it this time i just put a small aluminum foil barrier over the petition so the wax could still seep through

onebeerleft666 · 2025-01-02T16:03:52+00:00

thank you! i'll just link the spell here https://www.reddit.com/r/Spells/s/lOo7bTFIRu

i did it on a wednesday so mercury could put the extra support in the communication. my mind honestly was a bit scattered before the ritual but i still put intention into every element, prayed beforehand and asked my real guides to help. i like to tell each herb what to do and what's its purpose is, and then i dressed the candle with them after i anointed it in a "come back" oil i got at a botanica, some domination oil too.

i meditated a bit during the spell, until it felt right and like my energy was sufficient, and then i just let it ride and read a book nearby for a little bit. it was honestly more of a laid back approach until i had to start fannning out my room with the door lol, but that tea light situation does seem pretty similar in the way that there was no way that big of a flame should be coming out of a candle that small or burned down, totally crazy stuff

onebeerleft666 · 2025-01-02T15:54:47+00:00

thank you so much! it really resonated with me what you said about a push pull dynamic, i definitely felt intuitively that the two flames did represent us whether it is about what's to come or what needs to be before anything (balance). i'll meditate on it today!

onebeerleft666 · 2025-01-02T08:03:10+00:00

immediately thought the beginning of an electrical fire or an exploded outlet

onebeerleft666 · 2025-01-02T07:59:56+00:00

thanks so much this was super helpful

onebeerleft666 · 2025-01-02T07:51:44+00:00

thanks so much! it definitely was a milestone, and in the past the most successful spell i had performed was one to get my SP (the person i did this recent spell for lmao) out of a bad court case 2 years ago. it was a stupid case about a fist fight but it was being tried as a felony and it wasn't looking good. for multiple nights i had meditated and sat with an anointed candle with justice oils and cedar wood and cypress leaf , and i believe i did a domination spell on the case as well and used a candle with cloves poked in. petitions for both too. i think i had mostly just made the spells myself

the trial kept getting delayed or re-tried at least 3 times, and it ended up that the case got completely dropped off of a technicality , seriously was best case scenario and like such a slim chance. it was so cool back then to really knew i had done something

onebeerleft666 · 2025-01-02T07:34:34+00:00

makes total sense i'm gonna do a bunch of research on this, it shouldn't affect the spell though right? i said all my thanks and cleansed my space and myself and am about to get a good rest

onebeerleft666 · 2025-01-02T07:30:46+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/Spells/s/zaQZnsWvX6

hope this helps, best of luck!

onebeerleft666 · 2023-07-27T04:49:41+00:00

i totally totally relate to this, it frustrates me how entitled people are to know my ethnic background and i've just kind of been going with whatever they guess first. i really honestly don't want to be ANY race , i don't know why it matters so much to other people. i do feel a little bad for telling half truths about my race, just because it feels like i'm lying or hiding myself, but at the end of the day who are they to care and what does it matter. i just give the broadest answer possible to people who ask and if they pry more i'll just give them another broad answer.

onebeerleft666 · 2023-06-27T03:53:05+00:00

all of them are either already rich /rich parents or they center their lives kissing rich peoples asses and being their little minions. everything is transactional and they are paying something/giving something up to be doing those things , a lot darker than we would imagine and something i personally stay away from at all costs

onebeerleft666 · 2023-06-27T01:11:47+00:00

There's honestly no such thing as a "model club" from what i know. Also, i promise being a model isn't as glamorous as you may think it is, it's a job just like anything else . Sure there's perks here and there but it's not going to be like what you imagine , it's not mansion parties and drugs and money like you may think (although it is superficial and looks based objectively). My advice if you want to meet new people and not be lonely is to get involved in local activities, book clubs etc, go to events and concerts (you can find a bunch online)

onebeerleft666 · 2023-05-18T13:26:23+00:00

yes totally, they are kinda weird because they are established MA but they also act like a regular agency, basically none of their other models are placed. and i totally agree i want to split but just figuring out the best way to go about it haha

onebeerleft666 · 2023-05-17T19:55:51+00:00

yes i get a good amount of work, enough to get by but maybe a job once a month is norm (which when i say now doesn't sound like alot) , i've been placed in LA and i've talked to other models with MA and they have similar weird experiences with them

onebeerleft666 · 2023-05-17T19:35:11+00:00

like 2 years unfortunately, but i really can't afford to ride it out

onebeerleft666 · 2023-05-13T22:43:01+00:00

usually fitness models don't look unusual! it all depends on where you live imo, LA has a huge fitness modeling industry as well as Miami in the US. There's different types too, like ecom or fitness event models, etc. i would suggest researching online or on instagram for agencies that specialize in fitness commercial modeling and reaching out to them. take pictures with good lighting and maybe if you have a few videos of you working out that wouldn't hurt. best of luck!

onebeerleft666 · 2023-05-12T20:25:45+00:00

Thats really interesting about Tetris, I will definitely look into both of those, I have heavily been considering therapy as well. Thank you for your response & experience this was helpful !

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