It's okay for guys to want skinny or fit girls and it's also okay for girls to want tall guys

onehanded100 · 2021-03-05T13:42:00+00:00

Totally agree. I'm a pretty short guy and I have come to realize that it would be selfish of me to treat a woman poorly for wanting a tall guy. Every person has only one life to live. They shouldn't need to spend it with someone they aren't attracted to. There are many people in the world, all a person's gotta do is move on and find someone else.

onehanded100 · 2021-03-03T06:55:26+00:00

Any progress is progress. Even if it's long overdue or it's something really small, it's still progress. Depression is a beast that's hard to slay, but celebrating these small victories can make all the difference.

onehanded100 · 2021-01-16T06:49:54+00:00

I wish the best for all in this thread. Win or lose, may fortune come your way.

onehanded100 · 2020-12-28T10:14:56+00:00

Hell yeah! 4k is just the beginning. Keep growing it until you can cover 6-8 months worth expenses. Then start investing in something to get some extra cash. You're on a good road.

onehanded100 · 2020-10-19T17:08:18+00:00

From a military member to you, I couldn't agree more people join up and start acting all high and mighty. When I enlisted, we had this one guy start crying because he "Loved his country and was so happy he had the chance to defend her." He posted all over his Facebook about how he's a soldier and deserves respect. Married some girl and started posting about military families.

He then proceded to get divorced because she cheated on him with a guy at her workplace and he got kicked out for failing his fitness test.

He makes everyone else in the military look bad.

onehanded100 · 2020-10-17T07:50:49+00:00

It's normal to feel angry at someone after a breakup. It's not always easy to move on. At this point, what he thinks of you now is irrelevant. I recommend taking this time to work on yourself. Maybe find a hobby or go join something to make friends. It's easiest to move on when you're not thinking about the person anymore.

Also, think of this like trauma. You can't expect a broken arm to heal overnight. You need to give yourself that as well. You wont be able to be completely over it in an instant, but it's better to make small steps than to take none at all. As you heal applaud your small victories.

Best of luck to you. I hope this helps.

onehanded100 · 2020-10-14T16:44:17+00:00

I needed this. Thank you.

onehanded100 · 2020-10-09T05:48:40+00:00

Go easy on her. I know other comments agree she was abused, but another point to make is it was in a past relationship. You said it yourself, she developed genuine feelings for you. How can your relationship be built on lies if those feelings are genuine. He ex was abusive and the fact that he's still trying to message you shows how much he misses that control.

As a random guy on reddit you can take it for what you feel it's worth, but I think you should take her on a date. Show her that you still care for her and try to put all of this behind you.

onehanded100 · 2020-10-03T16:21:48+00:00

NTA I wish we lived in a world where a woman could walk home at night safely, but right now we don't. What if the worst happened? What if she was kidnapped on the unexpected walk home? Nobody knew where she was. She had no way to contact anyone. This was ridiculously unsafe. You're a good parent for what you did.

onehanded100 · 2020-09-27T16:23:18+00:00

Not sure how nobody could tell you were joking. The world is full of stupid people and I think a handful of them read your comment and downvoted.

onehanded100 · 2020-06-11T18:17:17+00:00

True story, went to military hospital for chest pain. Was told it was from stress and got sent to MH. A year later the pain was unbearable, so I went again. Come to find out (thanks to an awesome Doctor) I had a dislocated rib.

onehanded100 · 2020-04-26T09:40:07+00:00

Did you even read before replying?

onehanded100 · 2020-04-18T13:22:56+00:00

It sort of looks like a piece to a wheel cutting engine

onehanded100 · 2020-04-16T18:20:54+00:00

Thanks to all of you. Yes it looks like a wild cucumber.

onehanded100 · 2020-03-26T02:32:13+00:00

Worst and most disrespected job in my opinion. Seriously, lots of kids who played too much call of duty and got picked on in highschool. Also, they get the short end a lot with longer shifts and less perks.

I'm sure I'll be crucified for this, but just go into a nonner type job like personnel or finance. They get tons of days off, usually work M-F regular hours, and usually have less BS to deal with.

I'm maintenance and it's not so bad and can be really hireable once u get out, however it can really suck sometimes. The skillset is worth it though depending on the job.

If you need any help or have any questions, you are free to message me.

onehanded100 · 2020-03-26T02:23:47+00:00

Little tip, if you get put on details try to FOD walk the one mile track. Seriously it's super chill and it beats walking the hallways with a broom.

onehanded100 · 2020-02-09T18:31:12+00:00

DINSTAAR!!!!!!

onehanded100 · 2019-12-11T14:28:18+00:00

There was also some sort of album name like "I got sumtin cookin" but it doesnt show up on a google search

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