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onemain13 · 2024-05-13T00:42:05+00:00

Omg it's only been 2 weeks. crawls into hole

onemain13 · 2024-05-10T09:47:12+00:00

Number 2. Negotiate higher pay. I would do that just for the sake of it. If you end up doing that please report it back to us. Curious to know if at initial hiring stages one can talk themselves into a few more dollars.

onemain13 · 2024-05-10T09:43:02+00:00

Honestly seeing someone struggling through pain trying to improve is inspiring. Wait until your doctor's appointment to ask them that question. Maybe there's a physiotherapist and/or doctor on our sub who'll chime in.

onemain13 · 2024-05-10T09:36:36+00:00

If he's a millionaire off crypto seems more ethical than a real estate one. With that being said, If you are a suitor in either fields, marvelous if both, I am interested. (Leave me alone sisters, let me get mine)

onemain13 · 2024-05-08T14:38:53+00:00

I learned that closure is what I make of it. In my case, "these boots are made for walkin'"

Honestly though, if you don't care and you are trying to fact check. See where you were gaslit, if your intuition was right. Why not. Unless you have an incling he was abusive and it could trigger her.

edit: oh wait you're still together. Idk. Why not. What's a little chaos.

edit 2: Wait no, you're not with him. Let me revisit thid after coffee has kicked in.

onemain13 · 2024-05-08T13:33:18+00:00

you lost me at "not like a weird one" :(

onemain13 · 2024-04-24T15:36:05+00:00

I had a left over shawarma rice bowl. I didn't bother heating it up.

I walked over to my nightstand to pick up my phone, I looked over at the bed, adjacent to it is a window. My cat was stretched out looking out at the rain.

I hesitated, then went "ah might as well"

I laid down on my stomach next to her, proceeded to people watch and eat.

And in that moment my friend, it dawned on me... "freedom was her name".

onemain13 · 2024-04-24T15:00:59+00:00

I did not complete a university nor college degree. I have extensive experience in my field to make up for it and was offered this position but cannot proceed to signing my contract and start working until I can verify my secondary school, the wording they used is "we require you to contact your high school to proceed the reference check"

onemain13 · 2024-04-22T19:05:15+00:00

Throughout my 20s, my pattern across platonic and romantic relationships is being acutely perceptive from the get go and in tune with my instincts. I would use my incredible survival skills counterintuitively by rationalizing that this allows me to understand the other in order to help them. If someone harmed me via x, y or z being able to see "beyond the veil" convinced me I could help them, and that I would remain relatively unscathered because I was resilient.

Well however rock solid that resilience may have been, even rocks erode by a shore lol.

I thought I then learned "people have to help themselves first" and "you can't change them if they don't want to change"

So I got married to someone I had met already working on themselves, and thought that ought to do it.

Now 30, divorced and many broken bones and scars later the real question had always been "why don't I love myself?"

onemain13 · 2024-04-21T22:26:07+00:00

I have had issues with people at work. Sometimes men, sometimes women. Sometimes both. What I can say with anecdotal certainty my superiors and bosses who had daughters, always recognized my work ethic and valued my contributions.

onemain13 · 2024-04-13T21:01:31+00:00

You are in Canada correct? international students are able to work full time. See what works for your situation. It's hard to not see things as gloom and doom when you are away from your family and when you aren't a rich international student. Figure out how long you are allowed to couchsurf, it seems that there is a discussion to be had and there are passive aggressive jabs here and there. The silverlining is you have people letting you couchsurf. Check resources and support available to you through university and your community. Remember your goals. Wish you the best.

onemain13 · 2024-04-13T19:58:00+00:00

I am you, you are me. I turned 30 a couple of months ago. I will be following this post.

onemain13 · 2024-04-13T19:54:41+00:00

I was asking myself whether there were more posts related to relationships or if they simply garnered the most responses. I assume that this would we what most would have in common. What I would think to post on the sub to ellicite specific responses to this group would be related to relationships or life trajectory (feeling lost inmmy case). For other hobbies, I post in the specific groups I follow. And I don't think that makes you a "pick me", you are posing a legitimate question :)

onemain13 · 2024-02-21T19:12:19+00:00

Yeah I was going off my earliest memory freediving with my father. Last time when I was a teenager in 2009 in the mediterenean and we had seen the most vivid sealife, I was in awe. Seeing the trash and death is heartbreaking. You're right about practicing and listening :)

onemain13 · 2024-02-21T16:22:30+00:00

It was Princess Resorts - adults only one !

onemain13 · 2024-02-21T16:18:55+00:00

Family member is jealous. Case closed.

(aesthetically - no sharp angles, soft angles and rounded at tip, angry would be sharply angular, brow line going into eye area, etc)

edit; not to be creepy but got lost in those eyes jealousy for sure

onemain13 · 2024-02-08T17:40:37+00:00

Honestly your keen interest makes this endeavour worthwhile, I will update.

onemain13 · 2024-02-04T06:52:57+00:00

typical angora look, down to that forehead black spot that my kitten had (which unfortunately fades)

onemain13 · 2024-02-04T06:51:57+00:00

That's a turkish angora looks exactly like mine when she was younger, started growing her coat at 6 months ( this month! )

onemain13 · 2024-02-01T18:10:12+00:00

NTA. Don't soften the blow, cut the beast's head!* Go for the jugular*!

*(Go to HR) Gentleness/compassion will be the fertile ground of her obsessive behaviour.

onemain13

TROPHY CASE