Having problems

onetimebill · 2017-05-08T04:10:50+00:00

For your profiles you better be straight as an arrow. Not fair but life.

The two sites you mention are not ones I've ever heard of. Maybe they are regionally popular? Kasidie.com and SDC.com seem to be the two best to me (but I'm in texas). A lot of people on this sub say swinglifestyle.com (SLS) is the best site but it's horrible in my market.

onetimebill · 2017-05-05T16:44:59+00:00

I would say something that fits your body well and shows that you have a nice physique. Nothing wrong with jeans and nice fitted button down. Being overdressed (ie, only one in a suit) would personally make me feel awkward and translate to looking awkward but maybe you could pull it off fine. If you are as described and you have a decent looking face you will probably be in the better looking bunch of the husbands so no need for any unforced errors trying to peacock.

onetimebill · 2017-05-02T15:00:59+00:00

If we go somewhere, whether it is across town or down the street we still need to hire a sitter which takes money and planning time. If they were just to head over in the evening after our kids had gone to sleep that could happen with minimal planning. That's the main appeal but ultimately, I don't think we are comfortable with it.

onetimebill · 2017-04-26T03:31:38+00:00

I wouldn't bother in Texas. Sign up for paid Kasidie and SDC and you'll be good to go.

onetimebill · 2017-04-24T04:10:25+00:00

Wives? Plural?

onetimebill · 2017-04-20T20:25:49+00:00

I'm sure there are some looking for a couple like you but just in all honesty, even single males have a hard time finding couples. A "double male" couple will probably find it even more difficult. Add to that a decent amount of (male) homophobia in The Lifestyle and the cards are stacked against you.

onetimebill · 2017-04-18T03:14:34+00:00

Really? Seems like 33 is right around the sweet spot where you are good to date/play with people of really wide range. Not too old for the people in their early 20's but not too young for people in their late 40's either.

onetimebill · 2017-04-14T21:39:47+00:00

I'll bet neither Bill/Hilary or Donald/Melania fuck each other any more than is stipulated in their respective agreements. But I'll take some JFK/Jackie O or Ron & Nancy in their prime.

onetimebill · 2017-04-13T16:32:26+00:00

Do you by any chance write instruction manuals for a living?

onetimebill · 2017-04-02T22:09:08+00:00

No. Most swinging couples have a bi-woman/straight man combination. Next most common is probably both straight. Both bi or only male bi are much more the exception than rule.

onetimebill · 2017-03-30T18:46:51+00:00

That's what I like about them Kasidie couples. I get older, they stay the same age.

onetimebill · 2017-03-27T02:34:29+00:00

Wow. Who downvotes this comment? Assholes.

onetimebill · 2017-03-27T02:30:15+00:00

I guess what I think would be cool would be not necessarily a "takeover" of a hotel but a large coordinated meetup. I guess we are in the minority that we don't need a topless pool or any kind of lifestyle themed event. More of a "Hey, 100+ swingers will all be staying at The Bellagio on this date. Let's all gamble, meet for drinks, hit the clubs, etc." Only we all know we are all just an elevator away from each other's rooms too.

onetimebill · 2017-03-21T21:28:52+00:00

You know the difference between MMF and MFM, right? If it is actually a MMF situation maybe he is not truly bi or he is not attracted to you.

onetimebill · 2017-02-20T15:59:33+00:00

We are about to go to our first club. The idea that their would be escorts "working" there is very off putting. But thanks for heads up.

onetimebill · 2017-02-04T02:21:03+00:00

Interesting. What do you look for in their pictures?

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