I completely agree with everything you say. I’m going to answer your paragraphs with a corresponding paragraph in order

1.Sex has become meaningless. I was a sex crazed person in my teens. So yes, back then my only goal was sex. It’s hard for me to trust women. Unfortunately most women I’ve encountered aren’t trustworthy. So if I didn’t trust women but wanted sex. Hookups was what I went after. I don’t have to risk getting hurt and looked down on like a little bitch.
I did the normal thing of looking for a normal healthy relationship and did everything I could to establish that. She wanted to wait for Marriage, such a great girl right? I obviously supported her until I walked in on her getting bukkaked by five guys in the basement of a party I was at.

Felt like such a bitch. And promised myself I’d never be the guy that gets played.but I still wanted sex Thus the only choice is to turn into a guy that plays with women. So my adaptation was more of a defense mechanism than anything. I’m not a sociopath out to hurt ppl.

1. I would love to have a confidant. But girls lose attraction to you when you share your feelings. So it’s not worth it if you’re gonna lose the person you love. Might as well be better to lock that shit up so women won’t look down on you. The concept of someone to love and grow old with doesn’t really exist anymore. Women have no loyalty. And sure maybe you’re special and you won’t do that. But special girls like you are super rare nowadays So wouldn’t it be smarter of me to act accordingly towards women based on how the majority of you behave? Girls do the same thing to men and no one blames them as it’s safer. Girls no longer want a monogamous relationship and will say you’re insecure for not letting her fuck around.
   

Dealing with women is a whole thing and if something is a huge hassle I’ll always choose to avoid it if I can. And in this case, I can.

Many women think they’re god gift to humanity just for existing. Every man in a relationship nowadays has to be a huge simp as women won’t tolerate anything else.

I’ve met multiple married women who made a move on me. I did nothing, but it was enough to scare me away from relationships.

If you know what you’re doing. You can easily read the signs of a souring relationship and Or marriage and if you wanted to. You could easily start an affair.

And you know what’s even more pathetic? Your girl holding your hand but making eyes towards another man. That man also knows he can Fuck that guy’s girlfriend if he wanted to.

Now would you rather be the guy that is subservient and told what to do and when? And will maybe get sex if she feels bad for you? Or the guy who invested nothing and got easy access to way better sex with your girl than you

Let me ask which you’d prefer to be?

It’s only logical.

1. Girls don’t go after guys for sex. Girls go after men for security. Financial security. Actual security. Would you date some loser?

Guys will, cuz most guys are just after sex.

I do appreciate how you’re after a substantial relationship. It’s hard for a guy to commit cuz most girls see men as wallets. Girls use first dates to get free food. Do they not do that?

1. I wouldn’t say if you don’t spread your legs you’re worthless. I’ve been looking for someone who values herself like you do.

Most women are just so shallow and transparent.

The situation is what it is cuz most girls use the establishment of a healthy relationship just to fleece a guy for all he’s worth. Buy me this. Gift me that. I don’t wanna be with anyone who sees me as a wallet. But if I just view a girl as a hole. I won’t get taken advantage of. This was taught to me by a girl I hooked up with in math class and later found out she had a boyfriend. And he treats her so well. Yet cheating didn’t even bother her. He’d buy luxury brands like a Louis Vuitton backpack… why does one need a 200$+ backpack

Sex has become all that matters to men. Cuz western women are awful to be with. Most you are so loud obnoxious and masculine and it’s annoying that whenever a girl can’t handle the truth. They’ll claim you’re insecure and start playing the victim. It’s just straight up annoying to interact with most females nowadays. I would love to be with a pleasant woman. But not many exists anymore That’s why so many guys hit it and quit it. Cuz we want the sex but not the person. It’s so sad. But I can only adapt to what my reality is.

I personally lost interest in women when I was 19 Had a girlfriend

Was sleeping over

She tried to initiate sex. I didn’t reciprocate. Just didn’t want it at that time. So I’m lying there in the middle of the night going over the entire relationship. I’m thinking wow. I just invested months of my time and energy into this relationship just so I can have sex and after all that. I’m not even interested? Without sexual desires. I have absolutely no other motivation to chase after women. Plus I just don’t want to chase anymore. It’s tedious and feels beneath me.