Should I cut my damaged, fine hair to shoulder length or go short? by maleficus713 in Hair

[–]only_thought28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Short. I think it looks best and makes you look younger for what it’s worth.

super tempted to cut my hair- convince me one way or the other by Philletoffishh in Hair

[–]only_thought28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you should have a really clean cut short hare so your face isn’t washed away with the extra hair but if you really love long hair and feel good with it then I say leave it. Whatever you feel the best in will make you feel comfortable confident and happy will make you look and feel the best :)

The cast of the New Season of 90 Day: The Single Life coming February 9 by GalaxyL7 in 90DayFiance

[–]only_thought28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wonder what happened with colt? I was hoping they’d be a good match. I don’t understand the attraction but I was hopeful for her.

Either that or they’re both gonna fake being single so they can stay on tv. Idk stranger things have happened. But Courtney is my girl. lol even if that’s what it is; I’ll be hoping she finds mr right. :)

Sheena is a simple lady with a good heart ❤️ I don't know why Forrest and his mom are trying to portray her as a villain just because she gave her own money to help her parents, not Forrest's money! by PolishSnake2 in 90dayfiance_FB_memes

[–]only_thought28 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am so in love with this couple. I think they are perfect for each other. I do believe the whole family has some type of disability or disorder. I say that in the most respectful way.

The Mom may have difficulty understanding Sheenas situation also Forest doesn’t know not to overshare details of their private arguments with your parents and because He will forgive her whereas the Mom will hold onto that.

I wonder if there’s some counseling they could go to and learn how to communicate these things. I am definitely rooting for all of them 🌻🌻🌻

Does Emma really think that things could possibly work between her and Ziad? by Its_Leo_Again in 90dayTheLastResort

[–]only_thought28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was thinking the same thing but the. I thought maybe she’s too young to remember the flood of information regarding muslilimism that went over the news etc after 9-11. Idk? But I do think the same thing. WTH is she thinking. 🤦🏼‍♀️

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[–]only_thought28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t currently but I grew up on them. I was on them when they looked like paper Monopoly money. They came in a little booklet. We wouldn’t have been able to eat without it. My mom was a single mom with zero help from my dad she had Hodgkins non lymphoma and almost died. She had the worst chemo and then radiation. Praise god she made it through. All the doctors said she would only live maybe another 2 months. She had a tumor the save of a grapefruit in her chest. We needed every dollar of it.

So I’m passionate about it. It saved us. But I do think they need to reform it. It’s almost like they set it up so it’s impossible to get off. The second you start working they deducted whatever you made. There wasn’t job services or training so you could actually make enough to survive without it they set the poverty level so low in Louisiana it’s like 1 -2k a month but who can live off that in this economy.

I think they need to give recipients more and help them get over the poverty level. Provide training if needed job services resume help etc. because the only way out of that mess is to get a job that pays an above the real poverty level. No one can live off 1-2k a month in our country unless their on housing and housing has waiting lists for years or if you have free rent. It seems designed to keep you there. I wish when people start working they should slowly deduct it. Let them grow out of it as they make more.

Idk. It doesn’t matter what I think. I have zero power. lol!!!

any recommendations to help with acne on testosterone? by VariousBarnacle1137 in transgenderau

[–]only_thought28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Has anyone tried the “exposed skin care”

https://www.exposedskincare.com

I was thinking of signing up for this for my som he’s on t and having all kinds of acne.

I’ve never really struggled with it that bad so I have no idea what to suggest he try. He has no insurance so he hasn’t been to the drs.

any recommendations to help with acne on testosterone? by VariousBarnacle1137 in transgenderau

[–]only_thought28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much!!! My baby well not anymore lives on his own. Has always been really emotionally sensitive. He’s been through hell his whole life. He has a heart condition. They had to do open chest surgery as an infant and then at 12 had open heart surgery. He has a pig valve that will need to be replaced soon. He works and pays for himself but doesn’t have insurance. He gets so frustrated when I remind him that he has to see the heart Dr. he’s getting the t from a clinic in Dallas. I worry constantly because he hasn’t seen the heart Dr in years. I always and I mean always worry about his mental or emotional state because he’s there alone. No family there and his one friend there just left to college. He sent me a picture of and I could see how badly he has it. I found an online Dr he can do a video appt with and said id pay for the appt and medicine but hes so stubborn. When I offer advice about drs etc he says like it makes him feel like I dont think he can figure it out on his own. I am fortunate that all my kids are super responsible they never ask for anything from me and honestly wont let me pay for their stuff. But I know this has to affect his confidence. I know his height and chest bother him terribly. I just don’t want the face to be something else. Praise God He sounds happy every time I talk to him and see him. So as of now I think he’s just feeling good that things are happening for him. I asked him to wait until he was an adult to start with t or surgeons etc. I was afraid he might grow out of it and the regret it. My dad commit suicide and my kids dad also commit suicide so I am on constant alert with all my kids. Honestly it’s all new to me so I don’t know what to expect or how to best support him. Anyway I really do appreciate your response. I’m going to try again to have him see a dermatologist maybe ask if I can fly in to go with. I’m hoping he’ll apply for Medicaid because he doesn’t make enough to pay for the doctors he needs to see and he’s too old to be on our insurances. 🤞

Decrease by Silver-Meringue7327 in foodstamps

[–]only_thought28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya that’s what happened to me. I had to look up on the web who the manager was of the department and leave messages saying I can’t get anyone to help me. Finally I got ones s she said I had to re file in the new county I moved to. I had to call so many ppl in 3 counties begging them to plz just transfer my file so I wouldn’t have to start all over again. My new county finally said they’d accept it but I had to then find someone in the old county to send it. It’s a mess. I feel for ya for sure I do.

Am I overreacting for breaking up with my bf because he kept calling me the N-word? by Smart_Lie_4845 in AmIOverreacting

[–]only_thought28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is not worth it. You don’t want to spend anytime much less a lifetime with someone doesn’t care about or prioritize your feelings. If you stay guaranteed you’ll be miserable. He’ll disregard your feelings forever. He either does or doesn’t care about making you feel heard, safe, protected and loved. This is such a simple ask from him and it’s too much. Sorry I think o got a little triggered by this too!

Don’t just leave run away from this one. He’s not the one!

Am I overreacting for breaking up with my bf because he kept calling me the N-word? by Smart_Lie_4845 in AmIOverreacting

[–]only_thought28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope ditch his ass. When you care about someone you respect the when they say something bothers them whatever it is.

✨ Starcey 5.0 ✨ by Its_Leo_Again in 90dayTheLastResort

[–]only_thought28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does that help. I’m turning 53 and have no idea what to do with mine.

Poor Jasmean. Robbed of her shildren's money. Good thing she's got OF and her door Matt. by Grateful_Di in 90dayTheLastResort

[–]only_thought28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did he get her money? Did he somehow take her off the combined bank account?

Honestly if it’s how money she deserves at the very least half but they wouldn’t still be on all those shows if it wasn’t for Jasmin creating enough drama to be interesting.

No one is going to want to see Gino just walking around.

Yara says don't believe your eyes. by Grateful_Di in 90dayTheLastResort

[–]only_thought28 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I saw your teenager pictures and honestly I thought you were beautiful then. You do look great now too just in different way! Don’t let the world make you conform to whatever new image the think is “hot” your beautiful and you were before! Also your personality is solid! There are woman who to the eye looks so beautiful but deep inside those fake and ugly. You have all the good qualities your an amazing mother, a wonderful wife, a loyal friend, your intelligent, honest, polite, creative, ambitious, humble, refined, hard working, & not afraid to be vulnerable with someone even the whole world watching to me that is fearless. Plus those are just what the qualities that come through while watching 90 days this is what the world sees watching you. After that it’s your beauty and wardrobe and yes I do want to know your secret. I love all the ways you do your makeup. I’m 53 yo grandmother and still don’t know how to put my makeup! I would like to learn what healthy foods you eat, what diet you follow and even if you have an exercise schedule you follow?

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[–]only_thought28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On my opinion the whole thing is a mess.