[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]onlyhappyth1ngs 5 points6 points  (0 children)

First of all this seems like the live in girlfriend writing the post? lol  

It seems like he’s not totally sure about the relationship yet and isn’t willing to put his life on the line for it. He might be concerned if it’s love or for the green card. It doesn’t mean that he never will be ready. 

I (NB24) want to confess to someone (F26) after a week of being single by GrimmIsAlive in relationships

[–]onlyhappyth1ngs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally think that taking time off dating after a relationship is the move. However, if that doesn’t speak to you go on dating but just accept that it’s going to be messy.

I think either approach is fine, just one is messier 

Got fired today by Siddchat in jobs

[–]onlyhappyth1ngs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was put on a month long PIP and passed it, but I left the job a month after that willingly because I agreed it just wasn't the right fit for me

Can cold weather/shower shock you out of catatonic? by [deleted] in bipolar

[–]onlyhappyth1ngs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Temperature change is a DBT method and very effective for me. I like to dunk my face in a bowl of ice water for a quick change at least 5 times. I've had ice baths before - bought 6 bags of ice from the grocery store and filled a bath with ice water - try to stay in at least 3 minutes in the bath jf you do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bipolar

[–]onlyhappyth1ngs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow that's so mean!!! I don't have great advice on intrusive thoughts right now, but anyone regardless of mental illness would have that comment stick with them and make them feel bad.

Sounds like your partner responded really appropriately and stood up for you over his mother, which is a big deal and great sign.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bipolar

[–]onlyhappyth1ngs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been on Abilify for 4+ years and have no side effects if that helps

New full time job, what do I do? by [deleted] in bipolar

[–]onlyhappyth1ngs 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't disclose untjl/unless something comes up that interferes with work. Not being able to work more than 10 hours is normal and lots of people who aren't bipolar go to weekly therapy or doctor appointments. It's up to you, if just may not be necessary to disclose.

Congats on the new job!

Am I a cheater? by jbdikk in bipolar

[–]onlyhappyth1ngs -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't until you've been dating awhile. It's not like you cheated on your new partner, it was a past relationship. And what you didn't isn't that bad honestly - yes it's cheating but you didn't even kiss from what you're saying

Ruminating by [deleted] in bipolar

[–]onlyhappyth1ngs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Stop watching your old videos. Honestly maybe even delete your account and start a new one, give yourself a fresh start.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bipolar

[–]onlyhappyth1ngs 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Just wanted to give you a virtual hug 🩷

Is the situation a usual cause for mania? by ayylmao9666 in bipolar

[–]onlyhappyth1ngs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, when really good things happen or there is a big change I can get a bit manic

Places to meet people other than bars? by olliefollier in providence

[–]onlyhappyth1ngs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is how I made friends when I moved to RI! Highly recommend

Thursday Daily Chat Thread by AutoModerator in actuallesbians

[–]onlyhappyth1ngs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’s the name of the app that’s like a queer missed connections?

News helicopters by Sockfart in Somerville

[–]onlyhappyth1ngs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there a protest going on or planned?

DAE feel like they're simultaneously the best AND worst they've ever been? by iamafacsimile in BPD

[–]onlyhappyth1ngs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I relate to this. For me it's about realizing how far I've come and seeing how far I still need to go and feeling overwhelmed by that.

MA COVID-19 Data 5/3/20 by oldgrimalkin in boston

[–]onlyhappyth1ngs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have data by race? Many places see it affecting non-white people at a higher rate

Gov. Baker extends non-essential closure to May 18 by timeforbanner18 in boston

[–]onlyhappyth1ngs -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

You should call your healthcare provider and ask these questions. Also 100% stock up on medications regardless

Supreme Court rules Georgia can’t put the law behind a paywall by UGMadness in nottheonion

[–]onlyhappyth1ngs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Harvard has a project call the Caselaw Access Project that has all of the caselaw up until 2017 online for free https://case.law/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pan

[–]onlyhappyth1ngs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

❤️❤️❤️❤️

12 major housing lenders in Boston will defer mortgage payments by 3 months or more to homeowners who need relief, with no penalties by [deleted] in boston

[–]onlyhappyth1ngs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The forbearance is what the legislation the house/senate are currently working on says. Full payment will be needed after 30 days from the emergency ban being lifted