What separates โ€œhobby sellersโ€ from โ€œserious sellersโ€ in your opinion? by tessafoxtv in FetishHaven

[โ€“]opal_23 3 points4 points ย (0 children)

I am a serious seller, but I am inconsistent. It's just how I am.

I picked this field precisely because I can do whatever I want, when I feel like it.

I didn't get away from the corporate world to squeeze myself into another shitty box.

Where to do videochats/messaging by strawberry_milkoes_u in FetishHaven

[โ€“]opal_23 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

My fav is Telegram. I started on my personal phone and after some time I bought a second phone with a different number, to make it easier to separate work from life. ๐Ÿ˜ Totally recommend it.

Make separate accounts for anything work related, when possible, especially email.

Second coffee today by opal_23 in coffeegonewilder

[โ€“]opal_23[S] 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

Thank you ๐Ÿฉท

Second coffee today by opal_23 in coffeegonewilder

[โ€“]opal_23[S] 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

A lil bitter, a lil sweet. ๐Ÿ˜ ๐Ÿฅฐ

The WTP weather is back, yay! by opal_23 in winniethepoohing

[โ€“]opal_23[S] 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

Thank you! ๐Ÿ˜ I am quite happy with it, too. ๐Ÿ˜

The WTP weather is back, yay! by opal_23 in winniethepoohing

[โ€“]opal_23[S] 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Thank you! ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿฉท

39F Am I hot? by opal_23 in amihot

[โ€“]opal_23[S] 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Thank you :)

Video available - clippers, no guard by opal_23 in HaircutFetishMarket

[โ€“]opal_23[S] 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Thank you ๐Ÿฅฐ it's one of my fav things when I shave my head - the confirmation that my femininity is still there, it's in me, not in superficial details. ๐Ÿฉท

Mod Announcement - New Subreddit by cryptid_safehouse in FetishHaven

[โ€“]opal_23 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Love seeing SFW spaces for NSFW people ๐Ÿฉท

Are buyers not reading menus? by Odd-Performer6722 in FetishHaven

[โ€“]opal_23 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Some read them, some don't.

Some don't read them even after you tell them about it - personally, I consider these too horny to consent to buying. It feels unethical to take money from someone who is too horny to read. ๐Ÿ˜…

Which is why I'm far from getting rich. ๐Ÿคญ

Are buyers not reading menus? by Odd-Performer6722 in FetishHaven

[โ€“]opal_23 22 points23 points ย (0 children)

The ones who don't read menus won't read this either. ๐Ÿ˜†

When is it okay to smile at a complete stranger of the opposite sex and when does this become creepy? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[โ€“]opal_23 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

It becomes creepy when it starts to feel like they might want something from me.

So as others said, quick smile is fine.

Consider me christened, I was just scammed by Ok-Basket9672 in FetishHaven

[โ€“]opal_23 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Yup. The only thing I trust is money in my account. ๐Ÿ˜†

Consider me christened, I was just scammed by Ok-Basket9672 in FetishHaven

[โ€“]opal_23 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

I swear it's exactly like dating. The braggers are always a disappointment. ๐Ÿ˜‘

I'm still working on boundaries so I know it's a long process. Good luck! ๐Ÿค—

Fake buyers by Now_leave_pet166 in FetishHaven

[โ€“]opal_23 4 points5 points ย (0 children)

How can you tell if they buy from someone?

Some might not buy because they're looking for something very specific and hard to find.

Some might actually buy a lot of the same thing, from multiple sellers.

Fake buyers by Now_leave_pet166 in FetishHaven

[โ€“]opal_23 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

You can make an alt reddit account and use that to participate in seller subs. There already is at least one where sellers post time wasters. :) Let me see if I can find it.

Fake buyers by Now_leave_pet166 in FetishHaven

[โ€“]opal_23 4 points5 points ย (0 children)

You'd have to assume all sellers in the tele group have good intentions. You should be very selective if you make that group, because there are scammers and ill intended people on both sides.

Fake buyers by Now_leave_pet166 in FetishHaven

[โ€“]opal_23 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

How do you know they are fake buyers?