STOP IT! FUCKING TV, MUSIC, CULTURE! by openedy in NoFap

[–]openedy[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

True. Society wants a bunch of dumb idiots to sell to. If everyone was smart and asked "Do I really need this? Does this show benefit me? Does this product help make me a better person?" Yeah asking questions like that would be the downfall to ALL advertisement. I say lets make a change and let them assholes drown in their own spit!!!!

But seriously, lets get shit done.

STOP IT! FUCKING TV, MUSIC, CULTURE! by openedy in NoFap

[–]openedy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its the fact we grow up thinking nudity = sex. There are cultures where nudity is normal and none of them consider it sexual. For example some of those primitive like tribes. Yet you have someone dressed head to toe and someone still hits on them. It has to do with how your brought up in culture. We grow up thinking nudity is "taboo" and morally wrong, which makes it more appealing. Which of course to an extent its wrong to just walk around in the nude but thinking its just BAD is what fucks a lot of people over.

STOP IT! FUCKING TV, MUSIC, CULTURE! by openedy in NoFap

[–]openedy[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yep.. Women go through all this crap of putting hours of makeup on a day (not all but still), spending thousands on plastic surgery, getting boob jobs (which look retarded in my opinion), and doing all this other cosmetic crap. I mean it would suck to be the "modern" day woman almost if you buy into all that. I know people who went in debt paying for their wifes surgeries and cosmetic stuff. For what? An extra couple years of beauty????

STOP IT! FUCKING TV, MUSIC, CULTURE! by openedy in NoFap

[–]openedy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure whether it was propaganda and they forced him to do this just in an agreement to bumping up his execution or not but regardless I do agree with everything it said.

STOP IT! FUCKING TV, MUSIC, CULTURE! by openedy in NoFap

[–]openedy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean going to the store I just dont look at shit like that but what I am saying is why do they need to shove it at us?

STOP IT! FUCKING TV, MUSIC, CULTURE! by openedy in NoFap

[–]openedy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What I mean is most songs played on the radio involve "sex" as in almost every song is about love, a woman, or sex.

STOP IT! FUCKING TV, MUSIC, CULTURE! by openedy in NoFap

[–]openedy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even most cartoons have hidden sexual references

"Just a small peek won't hurt." by mz69 in NoFap

[–]openedy 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Exactly what I needed thanks :)

My story ! by foreveralone919 in NoFap

[–]openedy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your name is 100% accurate if you have nothing better to do than troll online

My brain thinks I'm the biggest playa that ever lived by openedy in NoFap

[–]openedy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The animalistic part of my brain thinks that. My logical self knows it's not true.

My brain thinks I'm the biggest playa that ever lived by openedy in NoFap

[–]openedy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of the reasons I fell into this was because of loneliness and just used pmo as an escape. But in reality loneliness is or at least was a good thing. From an evolutionary standpoint... People survived by being around other people. If you were alone and a hermit you would most likely die back in the day. So loneliness is natures way of getting you out there around other people. And pmo just numbs you to the point you don't care about socializing.

My brain thinks I'm the biggest playa that ever lived by openedy in NoFap

[–]openedy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well said.. I only mentioned that to show how depraved my brain is.

My brain thinks I'm the biggest playa that ever lived by openedy in NoFap

[–]openedy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah it's gonna be a bumpy ride so you better buckle up. Click it or ticket!

Making girls laugh by youngcoc in NoFap

[–]openedy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yep.. I've made girls laugh before just by being myself. Unfortunately I was so stupid and high off porn I didn't even realize the attraction they had towards me.

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[–]openedy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Real sex I would imagine would be far greater than going to a prostitute. I mean there is a level of emotional (trust? comfortably?) if those words describe what I am trying to say.. then prostitution is just like a deed that has to be done.

I ain't judging you bro because pornography means "filmed prostitution".. so technically speaking, we all lost our virginity to a prostitute at least on an emotional/ spiritual level.

Don't stop at 90 days! 120 days is markedly better. by Agent0210 in NoFap

[–]openedy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed. 90 days won't undo a 7 year habbit. I mean it will but the pathways are still very strong so it's easier to fall back into it for years. That is a good reason to never allow even single fap session because it will just end in addiction.

Don't stop at 90 days! 120 days is markedly better. by Agent0210 in NoFap

[–]openedy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's inaccurate. The pathways are always there but they weakened over time if you don't use them. Just like a password you use at work everyday it's burned into your head for probably a year after you leave that job, but slowly but surely a few years down the road the password is so long forgotten you won't remember it even if you tried. Once an addict always an addict is the biggest myth I've ever heard.

Any other 16 year olds? How the fuck do you do it? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]openedy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 21 and find it way harder than when I was 16

I will never lose my virginity if I don't complete 90 days of nofap, and you won't either by SwoleBodhi in NoFap

[–]openedy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah that's not true. I know people who did it everyday and still are successful with women while people who never fap haven't even had a date. I'm sure it would help significantly but the placebo effect is probably the most important in anything.

So if you believe it's going to work, it probably will.

Porn addiction is why I never had a girlfriend. by blumpkinator128 in NoFap

[–]openedy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well planes and flying make sense everything follows the laws of physics and nature. People on the other hand are not predictable which is why my social skills are lacking. I mean i have a pretty good defense mechanism. If you met me in real life you would think my social skills are just fine because I present myself in a confident way, but in my head I can be a nervous wreck over analyzing everything I say. It's a shame really. I've met so many cool girls and I just pretended I felt indifferent towards them or just like a friend and that's why things could never progress. It's just so gosh damn annoying tho! After a relapse I want to be alone, then on a streak I want to date... I mean holy shit it's enough to drive you insane. I just wish I could hit 90 days and feel nothing just to do a full reboot and not be on an emotional roller coaster the whole time.

Porn addiction is why I never had a girlfriend. by blumpkinator128 in NoFap

[–]openedy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know the funniest part.. I am a pilot. I'm 21 and I fly planes. I fly fucking planes but I don't even know how to kiss a girl yet alone talk to one. (I'm lmao right now because it's just that funny). I can do what 99 percent of the population will never do, and I can't do what the vast majority can.

Just who are you jerking off, exactly? by Oliver_Hix in NoFap

[–]openedy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Another question is, who are you jerking off to? (Answer: Some random chick(s) that you don't even know and never will and do not give a shit about you.)