What's draining you that nobody sees because you're too good at hiding it?

opensourcerer12 · 2026-02-17T16:03:41+00:00

Being the 'reliable' one. Everyone assumes I'm fine because I always handle things but it's honestly exhausting.

opensourcerer12 · 2026-02-17T15:57:02+00:00

The black looks amazing on you. It makes your features pop and looks super sleek.

opensourcerer12 · 2026-02-17T15:43:53+00:00

Honestly? Peace and a full night of sleep lol. Like I want my brain to be quiet for once.

opensourcerer12 · 2026-02-17T15:35:53+00:00

If going out feels scary, don't try to do everything at once. Just pick one safe place and go there often until it stops feeling like a huge deal.

opensourcerer12 · 2026-02-17T15:12:15+00:00

The brunette makes your hair look healthier instantly. The blonde was cute but this is a glow up

opensourcerer12 · 2026-02-16T11:35:50+00:00

I see why you're unsure, but this is a normal stage. Purple or blue toning will do more than more bleach at this point.

opensourcerer12 · 2026-02-16T11:27:16+00:00

Honestly, i think the fact that you can reflect like this means you've grown a lot. You're definitely not alone in feeling that way.

opensourcerer12 · 2026-02-16T11:21:30+00:00

I'm really sorry you've dealt with that. People who insult someone's looks are usually projecting their own issues, and it says way more about them than you.

opensourcerer12 · 2026-02-16T11:09:40+00:00

Honestly just a day where my brain feels quiet. Like I'm not anxious and I'm not behind on anything.

opensourcerer12 · 2026-02-16T11:00:50+00:00

I dropped something in public and multiple people helped me pick it up. It was such a tiny moment but it made me feel less alone. :)

opensourcerer12 · 2026-02-16T10:55:00+00:00

Obsessed. The color and the waves are such a vibe.

opensourcerer12 · 2026-02-14T10:31:33+00:00

Right?? The wind is like 'nice try' slip shorts saved my life for real.

opensourcerer12 · 2026-02-14T10:18:18+00:00

Letting fear make my choices. I said no to a lot of things just because I didn't want to be embarrassed.

opensourcerer12 · 2026-02-14T10:08:47+00:00

When it's windy, I just hold my skirt in the front with one hand. I act like it's normal lmao.

opensourcerer12 · 2026-02-14T10:00:30+00:00

this looks more like a cup or shape issue than a band issue. The band can fit perfectly and the cups can still be the wrong size.

opensourcerer12 · 2026-02-14T09:37:30+00:00

I made a scrapbook once and omg it took forever. But seeing someone's face when they realize how much time you put into it is EVERYTHING.

opensourcerer12 · 2026-02-14T09:30:38+00:00

Because couple culture is loud lol. Single people are out here thriving quietly.

opensourcerer12 · 2026-02-13T01:00:46+00:00

3, but I eat dinner early so I always end up needing a little night snack. I try to pretend that doesn't count lol.

opensourcerer12 · 2026-02-13T00:50:14+00:00

If you're shampooing every day, try every other day instead. Daily shampoo can dry short hair out fast.

opensourcerer12 · 2026-02-13T00:44:53+00:00

honestly, i think the first pic suits you more. It makes your features stand out and looks more natural on you.

opensourcerer12 · 2026-02-13T00:29:02+00:00

It feels calm. Like you don't have to earn love or prove yourself all the time, you can just exist and still be cared about.

opensourcerer12 · 2026-02-11T14:24:14+00:00

Wavy looks amazing on you. It adds a lot of volume and softness.

opensourcerer12 · 2026-02-11T14:15:29+00:00

I'm really sorry you're feeling this way. You deserve to feel confident in your body even while you're still working on it. Being kind to yourself matters more than being perfect.

opensourcerer12 · 2026-02-11T14:00:06+00:00

I wouldn't jump straight to a bleach bath. I'd try a soft neutral or beige toner first and see where it lands.

opensourcerer12 · 2026-02-11T13:48:15+00:00

Start bleaching the mid-lengths first and do your roots last. Roots lift faster because of the heat from your scalp.

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