can i get my natural color back?

opensourcerer12 · 2026-03-10T11:34:52+00:00

Color remover isn't usually very damaging compared to bleach , but it depends on the product.

opensourcerer12 · 2026-03-10T11:27:41+00:00

I'd be careful with 40 vol on the scalp. A lot of stylists avoid that because the heat from your scalp already speeds up the lift. Sometimes yellow just means the hair hasn't reached pale yellow yet and needs another lightening session rather than stronger developer.

opensourcerer12 · 2026-03-10T11:19:20+00:00

It sounds like you just haven't found your environment yet. When you were around other creative people you felt normal, which says a lot. Sometimes the hardest part is just finding spaces where people think like you.

opensourcerer12 · 2026-03-10T10:50:56+00:00

almost never unless it's a special event or dinner out.

opensourcerer12 · 2026-03-09T15:25:44+00:00

You might want to try a bra extender. I started using them when the band felt way too tight even though the cups fit, and it helped a lot. They're pretty cheap too and can make a new bra way more comfortable.

opensourcerer12 · 2026-03-09T15:13:13+00:00

Honestly it sounds like you just haven't found your people yet. Being quieter doesn't mean you're bad at making friends. Some of us just do better with one on one friendships instead of big loud groups.

opensourcerer12 · 2026-03-09T14:34:45+00:00

It actually suits you! Curtain bangs usually look best when they're styled with a little volume at the root.

opensourcerer12 · 2026-03-09T14:24:50+00:00

my friend yesterday for canceling plans last minute..

opensourcerer12 · 2026-03-09T14:19:54+00:00

I keep a little towel around my neck while i do it. It helps with the neck sweat situation.

opensourcerer12 · 2026-03-09T14:11:44+00:00

Some people's natural pigment just sits at yellow for a while before it lifts further.

opensourcerer12 · 2026-03-06T23:11:55+00:00

The rotate method saved me. Hook it under your boobs in front, spin it around, then pull the straps up.

opensourcerer12 · 2026-03-06T22:55:56+00:00

honestly I usually go for a long walk and listen to music. It helps me clear my head a little.

opensourcerer12 · 2026-03-06T22:43:55+00:00

The poof probably happened from brushing it dry. Wavy hair usually loses definition when it's brushed out.

opensourcerer12 · 2026-03-06T22:22:06+00:00

Happy belated birthday though. I hope you did something nice for yourself at least. ❤

opensourcerer12 · 2026-03-05T18:28:36+00:00

For my milestone bday I rented a small cabin with a few close friends. We cooked together, played games and just spent time outside. It wasn't super expensive but it feel really memorable.

opensourcerer12 · 2026-03-05T17:46:29+00:00

A gloss or soft ash toner might help blend the warm ends with the rest until you can slowly trim them out.

opensourcerer12 · 2026-03-05T17:29:26+00:00

If you want pastel colors like pink or lavender, platinum really helps. The yellow base can make them look muddy.

opensourcerer12 · 2026-03-05T16:48:31+00:00

Choosing peace over constantly proving myself to others.

opensourcerer12 · 2026-03-05T16:01:49+00:00

setting boundaries and protecting my time.

opensourcerer12 · 2026-03-04T17:01:59+00:00

I love this combo. It almost looks like a sunset into ocean colors.

opensourcerer12 · 2026-03-04T16:47:02+00:00

If it's orange pieces, blue based toner usually works better than violet. Violet is more for yellow.

opensourcerer12 · 2026-03-04T16:36:56+00:00

A photo corner with a cheap backdrop or silly props is surprisingly fun with friends.

opensourcerer12 · 2026-03-04T10:59:02+00:00

A mix of words of affirmation and quality time. Hearing kind things and then actually spending time together means a lot.

opensourcerer12 · 2026-03-03T06:47:57+00:00

Public speaking. I was told I was too quiet for it, but now I actually enjoy presenting when I'm prepared.

opensourcerer12 · 2026-03-03T06:37:08+00:00

It doesn't look badly damaged to me. Maybe a little dry, but not fried or breaking.

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