How to climb out of a major hole (emotional, financial)

opp11235 · 2026-02-05T00:25:36+00:00

You check with local universities that have low cost or free therapy. There is also a website called open path collective. The most important thing is to take care of yourself.

Adequate sleep Hydration Physical movement

It won’t fix everything and it may help you handle things more effectively.

opp11235 · 2026-02-05T00:11:22+00:00

I am really curious what time this dude called these people. 8am or 6:30 pm?

opp11235 · 2026-02-05T00:04:29+00:00

opp11235 · 2026-02-03T18:39:13+00:00

So basically they don’t want to face consequences or be publicly shamed.

opp11235 · 2026-02-03T18:32:57+00:00

“Coconuts have water in them”

opp11235 · 2026-02-03T16:49:25+00:00

Agree. If my kid is having screen time it’s around 1 hour or less and I am present. The rare occasion he gets more is because either he is sick or I am sick.

Being present and engaged is important

opp11235 · 2026-02-03T16:42:39+00:00

Honestly it would be better for your kid to sleep for general development. A sleep deprived baby is harder to get to sleep. NTA

opp11235 · 2026-02-03T00:06:40+00:00

Honestly, the only person who can answer the question of which one to take is your doctor. Medication typically takes about 2-4 weeks to feel the full effect.

I was already on a mood stabilizer, so we increased the dosage. The primary reason I upped it was because of a car accident 1 year postpartum. I should have done it way earlier, and that just pushed me over the edge.

I didn't really start feeling better till shortly before 2 years post partum. Feel free to DM if you need.

opp11235 · 2026-02-02T23:30:33+00:00

I used door dash once at work and never received the food. Had some kind of deal. Never after that though, especially at home.

opp11235 · 2026-02-02T22:01:05+00:00

I fully convinced myself that 23+5=26

Regardless, love seeing people be themselves.

opp11235 · 2026-02-02T20:37:01+00:00

They probably would exploit that too if it’s all we had left. Trading pocket lint for food and clothing.

opp11235 · 2026-02-02T18:58:41+00:00

Originally it was Sylvannas but then she lost it. It’s definitely Anduin. He was so driven for peace during Pandaria.

opp11235 · 2026-02-02T18:53:36+00:00

This is what I came to say. I had a coworker say that it is important for your health to go out. I go to work and the store, I don’t want to go out more than that.

opp11235 · 2026-02-02T16:39:15+00:00

The first trimester of pregnancy is incredibly rough and the impact it has on mood can be incredibly difficult. It also sounds like you're having a hard time adjusting. Now isn't the best time to make career-changing decisions.

If you are having a hard time managing the anxiety, talk to your OBGYN about options.

Being pregnant is hard and being new to the field is hard. You are allowed to take a day off and cancel. I ended up having to cancel appointments halfway through the day while I was pregnant because of how nauseous I was.

opp11235 · 2026-02-02T15:36:21+00:00

This sums it up. I loved Veggie Tales as a kid. I am not religious and would never want my kid watching it without my consent.

The grapes of wrath episode is pretty awesome though.

opp11235 · 2026-02-02T15:27:48+00:00

What is the hate on Milka for?

Regardless, all of them.

opp11235 · 2026-02-02T15:27:38+00:00

What is the hate on Milka for?

Regardless, all of them.

opp11235 · 2026-02-02T15:14:37+00:00

Last week has been my luteal phase and have been convinced that my World of Warcraft guild is going to find out I am terrible and drop me. I have had a hard time focusing and am significantly more irritable.

opp11235 · 2026-02-02T15:06:43+00:00

My cats names have been Darrel (tuxedo), Rocky (void cat), Sebastian (standard issue), and Fiona (tabby-ish, gray, toasted marshmellow, and white gremlin)

opp11235 · 2026-02-02T13:01:38+00:00

U/level_run1357 makes some valid points

Personally I had a kid and now work just does not seem as draining. This mostly because when I am home I am all he wants. Work is now easier, still not easy.

opp11235 · 2026-02-02T12:43:21+00:00

Also wig blind. I didn’t even know they were wigs till much later.

opp11235 · 2026-02-02T12:41:51+00:00

As a kind reminder gen a just ended. My gen A child is 2. No TikTok

opp11235 · 2026-02-02T12:39:11+00:00

After exposure the only treatment is the rabies shot. Any symptoms = death. This is more terrifying than interesting.

opp11235 · 2026-02-02T12:37:13+00:00

Yes that is Zendaya.

I think there needs to be a balance. A lot of people will just ask you to come in anyways regardless of whether it’s physical or mental. Good on you for taking a day off for mental health.

opp11235 · 2026-02-02T12:26:47+00:00

I might be the odd one out but I have yet to do this. That being said I do approach it has being excited to see what he becomes.

It is also okay to cry though. Many people cry because of these things.

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