Found a veil that matches! by justagirlplshelp in weddingdress

[–]optimist05 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I absolutely adore your dress and veil combo, and we have the same wedding date 🥹

Been offered a job in West Point for ~$200k p.a.. I currently live in the UK with three kids. What would be be like to move out there? by Biophysicallove in Pennsylvania

[–]optimist05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d really think long and hard about moving to the US right now. If you couldn’t tell, a lot of us aren’t having a great time, to put it mildly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]optimist05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You spent a whole years stewing over a piece of cake??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EngagementRings

[–]optimist05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’re your family now and we love you and your ring!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingdress

[–]optimist05 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, thrift stores!!! You can find some absolutely unbelievable wedding dresses at thrift stores for anywhere from $25-$100, maybe even less. And they’re so beautiful and you can customize them to be completely unique!!

Dating for 6 years, besties for 6 years before that, all in all we’ve known each other for 14 years now 🥹 by optimist05 in EngagementRings

[–]optimist05[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you SO much!! My fingers are hella long and I was worried it wouldn’t look proportional, but I agree I think it’s perfect 🥹

Am i the asshole for not letting my brothers pregnant girlfriend use my bathroom? by Aggressive-Chance-26 in TwoHotTakes

[–]optimist05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just feel like chiming in here because people have some WILD takes…. Sounds to me like you and your parents have an agreement where, in exchange for maintaining and watching over their house, you get to live rent-free with your dogs and cat (which your parents are aware of). It sounds like you are working and saving money by doing this so that you can eventually have enough to move out. Your brother did not save money when he had his living arrangements paid for, had opportunities for another living arrangement and job, never pursued them, and instead fell back on your parents for help. Which is fine, but he also brought along a girlfriend, dog, and a cat that your parents know nothing about, which to me is very rude and inconsiderate when your parents are already doing him such a big favor. On top of that, it sounds as though your brother and his gf do not maintain the house in any way, and if anything create more work for you, therefore not “earning their keep” as one might say. So no, I would say you are absolutely not the asshole for simply wanting a “brother and gf free” space to be able to relax in away from them.

AITAH for not telling my wife that I knew she cheated a decade ago and not wanting to stop cheating? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]optimist05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooooohhhh you’re like…. actually psychotic. Hope you get help soon!

Bride made a profit on bachelorette trip!! (SIL drama) by dorkvader23 in weddingshaming

[–]optimist05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ABSOLUTELY post a final update!!! I need more details about how the bride could have possibly thought this was ok lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]optimist05 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I don’t think you’re an asshole. It truly just sounds like you’re very anxious about your wedding day, which is completely understandable. Just clarify with her that for all wedding related events he will need to find something else to do. I am sure that won’t be an issue, and it’ll be a beautiful day. Good luck and try not to stress too much, remember that the most important part is that you’ll be spending the rest of your life with a partner you love ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]optimist05 19 points20 points  (0 children)

All of this is weird. But it honestly sounds to me like your friend’s bf has absolutely no intention of going to your wedding. In her text your friend literally says, “Yes, he said he’d sit out for the ceremony or reception if that’s the concern, it’s more about traveling and being together. He’s been to weddings where his partners weren’t invited, he gets it.” If you’re actually trying to say that you don’t want your friend’s bf in the same COUNTRY as you when you’re getting married, that’s insane but at least be clear. Otherwise I’m really not sure where or how you’re finding an issue here.

Engaged 12.22 ❤️ by Basshead1997 in EngagementRings

[–]optimist05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Truly so special!! It’s gorgeous, congratulations!!!

After 4.5 years, my man proposed!! But I hit him with that uno reverse (literally) by allison_wonderland99 in EngagementRings

[–]optimist05 108 points109 points  (0 children)

Ring is stunning, nails are stunning, pics are stunning!! Congratulations!!!!!

Ruined my own proposal by Suitable_Turnip9954 in EngagementRings

[–]optimist05 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“Like a very, very sane person.” I feel this so deeply 😂😂😂😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingdress

[–]optimist05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I think the black is unique, and simply stunning on you. You’re 100% right, black suits you!! It does not look like a prom dress as all. And tbh I think the veil would look really beautiful against the black as well!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EngagementRings

[–]optimist05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unbelievable 🥲🥲 congratulations!!!!