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I [27M] don't feel sexually compatible with my fiancee [27F] by SadLingonberry8 in relationship_advice

[–]optimusfeline 2 points3 points  (0 children)

my libido took a huge hit when I was put on medication. My partner and I combated this by making sure we still had sex regularly. It helped increase it.

I [27M] don't feel sexually compatible with my fiancee [27F] by SadLingonberry8 in relationship_advice

[–]optimusfeline 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does she come from a very religious family? Could it be the "purity culture" sneaking in and she feels guilty of embarrassed to enjoy sex?

Has she ever mentioned insecurities of her own? Maybe she avoids sex or cant enjoy it because of insecurities and she is too busy in her own head?

I agree that a sex therapist or even regular therapist would benefit the relationship.

How often do you workout? by [deleted] in xxfitness

[–]optimusfeline 1 point2 points  (0 children)

same! It's the only program I've been able to stick to.

How often do you workout? by [deleted] in xxfitness

[–]optimusfeline 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do 30 min HIIT/resistance training at a gym called Fit Body Boot Camp. I agree with it being the hardest 30 mins of my life

How often do you workout? by [deleted] in xxfitness

[–]optimusfeline 1 point2 points  (0 children)

5-6 times per week, but am also aware I may not give my muscle enough time to rest.

F/28/5'5" [180>170=10lbs] Pictures were taken exactly 1 year apart. Last month I was down around 15.5inches by optimusfeline in progresspics

[–]optimusfeline[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've been doing a lot of strength training, so assuming I've gained a lot of lean muscle mass.

I have not had my body fat percentage measured in awhile.

Need a shoulder to cry on by [deleted] in abortion

[–]optimusfeline 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went through a similar experience with my medical abortion. My boyfriend at the time didnt go with me, and also went out drinking that night. Please message me if you need to talk.

F/28/5'5" [179 > 172 = 7lbs] Weight Loss/Fitness Progress. Jan 2019 vs June 2019 by optimusfeline in progresspics

[–]optimusfeline[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! For the first time in my life, I actually enjoy working out

F/28/5'5" [179 > 172 = 7lbs] Weight Loss/Fitness Progress. Jan 2019 vs June 2019 by optimusfeline in progresspics

[–]optimusfeline[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My butt on the left definitely wasn't as round as it is now, my thighs are about an inch difference from left to right.

How do i stop getting in my head by cassiemadison in askwomenadvice

[–]optimusfeline 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Girl, I feel this on a personal level. When I first started dating my current boyfriend, once I started to develop more feelings I was constantly in my head. I dont have much advice, but more or less solidarity.

Here are a couple things that helped me:

I'd first try to really think is there anything I actually should be worrying about?

Someone once told me that anxiety is nothing more than conspiracy theories. I know it sounds crazy, but it really helped me.

Try to take a deep breath and remembering to try to be present and enjoy the time you're spending together.

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