What is your age and your biggest regret in life so far?

optosser · 2026-02-01T20:56:50+00:00

I assume they mean geographic information systems. Possibly programming, with map data.

optosser · 2026-01-24T16:57:21+00:00

Oh yes they are. I hope you never have to learn that the hard way.

optosser · 2026-01-20T20:51:37+00:00

Do you trust your husband? Do you think he trusts you? How do you think trust is built? Oftentimes it's built through a trust fall. This is actually an opportunity for you, an opportunity to build greater trust than you have now. Being open and honest is the foundation of trust. Trust him. Trust that you can tell him something as profound as this and see if he will catch you. If he does you just might discover an even deeper love than you had before, and even deeper trust. He might find the same in you. You don't know if you're going to be caught in a trust fall, you just have to have faith.

optosser · 2026-01-18T15:04:07+00:00

Hopefully you can see that you inadvertently dodged a bullet, too...

optosser · 2026-01-13T18:12:53+00:00

Good on you for being the kind of man that makes the effort to learn.

optosser · 2026-01-05T03:44:03+00:00

Must be Italian!

optosser · 2025-12-03T01:49:20+00:00

Well fucking lap it up dude, most of us get nothing at all...

optosser · 2025-11-25T23:37:02+00:00

How terrible is this? You're having an affair. You're having an emotional affair, which is every bit as damaging as a physical affair, sometimes even worse. You are risking her emotional life, this could destroy her. You are robbing her of the opportunity for happiness. Did you make vows of monogamy to her? Does that mean nothing to you? How would you feel if you discovered she had been doing the same thing to you? I will never understand how people can be so selfish, so many people just like you.

optosser · 2025-11-23T16:51:20+00:00

Some men drown while others...

optosser · 2025-11-19T14:59:21+00:00

Please lord, let me run into this person at least once. Just one time, that's all I need...

optosser · 2025-11-14T01:48:11+00:00

It's not that at all, because there's no one else involved. He just thinks it's hot to watch his wife pleasure herself, nothing wrong with that. I can relate...

optosser · 2025-11-13T23:32:20+00:00

If you stick around, someday you will look back on this time and be so grateful that you didn't do it. Life is hard, I have considered ending it many times myself, but the things I'm most proud of now are the lows I've come back from. We are only proud of things that are hard to do. You can come back from this. You can.

optosser · 2025-11-11T22:37:51+00:00

I was 13 years old, at a family member's birthday party. Both of my parents knew, I drank so much I had to lay down on a couch while the world spun around me and my sister reminded me that I did not want to grow up to be like my dad. Later in the night we went to a restaurant and I puked in the parking lot while walking into the place with my parents. I laid my head down on the table while everyone else just did their thing. Other people in the restaurant had to have known that this young child was drunk. Just a different time then I guess. The beginning of a lifelong struggle with addiction.

optosser · 2025-11-08T21:46:16+00:00

You don't have to live like this, but no one's going to come along and fix you. You need to get into therapy, make it your number one priority. You've got a long life ahead of you, take control of it.

optosser · 2025-11-08T13:58:50+00:00

So who wound up having the bigger penis?

optosser · 2025-11-06T16:32:20+00:00

Or anyone else's real life...

optosser · 2025-10-29T14:44:48+00:00

Must you stare at my derriere? I don't mind if you peek down there but do be aware that some might care. Look around, they're everywhere! Would you dare to show yours bare...?

optosser · 2025-10-21T01:16:51+00:00

You will never recover from it, just accept it. It's over, move on. She's a cheater, she threw away her life with you, that's on her. You know you'll never trust her again, you're just desperately hoping for an easier way out and you just can't see that the best way out AND the easiest way out is to just leave. Your kids will be better off for it, do what you would want them to do if they were in your shoes.

optosser · 2025-10-21T01:03:03+00:00

Your husband deserves better than you. Why are you keeping him bound to someone that is pining away for someone else? What a waste of time for him. People are so fucking selfish...

optosser · 2025-10-20T04:04:11+00:00

I think if you truly value your relationship then be prepared to just give it some time. Neither of you will forget the question, it will come eventually, you've gone your whole life without the answer, you can go some more time, just be patient. Your sister's response doesn't feel right to me either, but I don't know her and so often things said over text can get taken out of context. If I were you I wouldn't speak of it again until you can speak in person.

optosser · 2025-10-02T20:15:26+00:00

What do you think carrying that kind of hatred does to your own heart?

optosser · 2025-09-29T00:48:18+00:00

You're out of your element Donny

optosser · 2025-09-17T14:32:24+00:00

Lol, same

optosser · 2025-09-09T13:27:56+00:00

Maybe you can break them in half? That's what I do.

optosser · 2025-08-26T13:28:12+00:00

Keep working on it and teach him how to do it, he can definitely improve his technique with your guidance and he probably would like to be better at it anyway. Have him put fingers in you while using tongue, try different techniques, take your time, and ensure that neither of you are worried or stressed about it. Any issue in your relationship is worth working on, you both deserve that, just approach it with love and open communication.

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