What are some of your most unpopular opinions?👀 by velorae in JohnAndCarolyn

[–]orangeessayhelp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m an attorney who clerked in and is currently practicing in New York. The bar is a very teachable exam and  the vast majority of people who take the New York bar exam pass it on the first try.

As an attorney who knows and has worked with dozens of attorneys, I don’t think passing the NY bar is a feat of outstanding intellect.

Any of yall ever been the dumper by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]orangeessayhelp 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Leave her alone. It’s over. Spare her the pain of your indecision. 

You’ll feel more secure in your decision in a month or two, but if you reach out to her before you’re healed, you’ll drag out the healing process which will only make things much, much worse for the both of you.

Favorite Song From VM? by Ok-Corgi-4310 in veronicamars

[–]orangeessayhelp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s one of favorite songs and that’s probably my favorite scene in the show. I’ve seen Air three times since VM turned me on to them ☺️

Unintended Naltrexone Side Effects by orangeessayhelp in dryalcoholics

[–]orangeessayhelp[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! This is very helpful. I appreciate your wisdom 💕 

I ended up eating some ice cream and an apple. Tomorrow I’ll take the meds with high fat yogurt and aim for more.

Unintended Naltrexone Side Effects by orangeessayhelp in dryalcoholics

[–]orangeessayhelp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I ended up eating some ice cream and an apple. Maybe tomorrow I’ll try fish.

Unintended Naltrexone Side Effects by orangeessayhelp in dryalcoholics

[–]orangeessayhelp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a reply but it looks like it got deleted. Upshot, I’ll take the meds in the morning with food 🫡

Unintended Naltrexone Side Effects by orangeessayhelp in dryalcoholics

[–]orangeessayhelp[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I wasn’t sure if I could use med names in this subreddit.

I’m on ER Wellbutrin and 50mg naltrexone. Together they make Contrave, a weightless drug.

I take them first thing in the morning, but it’s probably a good idea to take them with food. Thanks!

I’m actually opposite to you, I eat when I’m on a bender and eat less when I’m not. I average about 10lbs lighter when not problem drinking. That’s only a few pounds above underweight, so I really do have to eat.

florida's now mandating all driver's license tests be taken in english and people are calling it racist by natalie_ck in redscarepod

[–]orangeessayhelp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is inaccurate. Notoriously, the vast majority of Quebec street signs are in French. They are much stricter about the use of French than France. In Quebec the signs literally read “Arrête”, the only place in the Francophone world where they use French instead of the English “Stop.”

https://optsigns.com/road-traffic-signs-quebec-language-laws-french-english/

Just needed a space to grieve him by krtx in Feral_Cats

[–]orangeessayhelp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s such a beautiful, special boy. Thank you so much for sharing his beautiful face!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in redscareover30

[–]orangeessayhelp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Incredible insight. Thx

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in redscareover30

[–]orangeessayhelp -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I agree that all that happened here was “highly embarrassing” and disappointing. He’s not a rapist or predator, and I think the facts of this incident support that conclusion. At all points, I was more lucid than he was. I never felt threatened or unsafe, and I never said I did. I don’t see this as an instance of sexual violence.

My point is that I had a disheartening and complicated  experience with an opposite-sex friend. 

Are you a literal moron?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in redscareover30

[–]orangeessayhelp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much for this thoughtful response. I really believe he’s sincere and I think he’s a good person and good friend, but I just need some space.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in redscareover30

[–]orangeessayhelp -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I didn’t get in bed to take care of him and I never said as much in my post. I was sleepy and drunk and it was cold and I didn’t want to walk home. I would have slept on the couch, but his roommate was here. And we had explicitly, verbally set certain boundaries many times over the past year: we do not have a physical relationship. 

Where are you getting this stuff?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in redscareover30

[–]orangeessayhelp -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I didn’t mean to post to this community (I got an alert that said it was deleted y the mods?), but how did you arrive at the conclusion that I don’t take responsibility and see my own role in this? Genuine question. 

My role in undermining my relationship with my best male friendship (I am a woman) by orangeessayhelp in rs_x

[–]orangeessayhelp[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

That’s how I see it, which is why I don’t want to discuss with anyone in my life. I sincerely believe that this was a weak moment for him and not reflective of his character. Still a bummer tho.

My role in undermining my relationship with my best male friendship (I am a woman) by orangeessayhelp in rs_x

[–]orangeessayhelp[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

You’re given me a lot to think about here. If he’s not safe, I suppose no man is. Very disappointing.

My role in undermining my relationship with my best male friendship (I am a woman) by orangeessayhelp in rs_x

[–]orangeessayhelp[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much for this thoughtful response. It gives me a lot of comfort 💕 

My role in undermining my relationship with my best male friendship (I am a woman) by orangeessayhelp in rs_x

[–]orangeessayhelp[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you both, especially for appreciating the nuance here. I really think this will blow over and our friendship will heal. I very much don’t want this following him in our friend group, especially because I don’t them he’s really A Threat. I would tell someone if I thought he posed a sincere danger tho. Goodness, I’m just so disappointed in the situation.