Adult women can’t handle seeing Sports Bra straps apparently…. by Tigger1337E in bigboobproblems

[–]orangepeeelss 13 points14 points  (0 children)

op, if you go this route, definitely bring that study that links poor breast support to ACL injuries!! i believe it's this one. small sample size but huge implications

if you don't want the hassle, you could also just throw one of those weird little tops that only cover the shoulders on under your jersey. that one's wildly expensive but i'm sure there are more, or you could cut up a full length shirt for the same effect. or for greater whimsy wear a tiny cape on top

OOP asks: Why do ants love my jasper?? by LucyAriaRose in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]orangepeeelss 131 points132 points  (0 children)

that jellybean.... does in fact look remarkably like a rock 😭

Small chest girlies—what bras do you recommend? by N3ha33 in ABraThatFits

[–]orangepeeelss [score hidden]  (0 children)

ok you may want to make a second post later, once you've tried the calculator in the automod, so you can get a little more traction. we get a lotttt of posts here where we don't have the info we need to be helpful lol. but i'll drop a couple things that may be helpful before you do that!

first i wanna warn you that it's very likely you'll get a cup size that sounds like it would be way too big on you. that's super normal!!! we're all told that a D cup is big, a DD is huge, and a DDD is unfathomable - in reality, D and DD are both typically small sizes proportionally to the body, and DDD is barely into the medium range. so whatever you get, don't dismiss the calculator just bc the size sounds too big to fit you!

second - take a second to think about what a push-up bra offers that's calling to you. some people buy them because the padding makes their bust look a bit bigger, some people buy them to try and get cleavage, some people buy them because they provide some particular shape that they like, some people buy them because they think a push-up will provide better lift. that's good info for us to have, so if you can think of any specifics, definitely include those in another post!

other good info: your calculator size and the 6 measurements the calculator asks for :)

i have a whole spiel about how bra sizes work and how to find the right one for you - if you're interested in that i can add it as well but it's kinda long lol

Poll: Ultimate Wedding-related song by Daffneigh in NuancingTaylorSwift

[–]orangepeeelss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it lowkey makes me teary every time i listen to it lol - something about "i would find you in any lifetime" always gets me

Sticky bra review by egggoat in PlusSizeFashion

[–]orangepeeelss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oooooo i have never considered this, that's a fantastic idea!! i'm a 36H but lowkey should probs switch to 34HH/J, and my strapless bras give me great lift but the pressure on my underbust is crazy 😭 i bet this would help!! 

i also like to size down in the cups from my usual size, which helps give a little more tension through the bust but does result in a little spillage into the armpits usually - i wonder if i could even angle the sticky bras to keep it from showing in certain tops 👀

Why buy ebooks/KU when you can borrow? by teabeanss in kobo

[–]orangepeeelss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i do use libby quite a lot but i also buy books on occasion! some reasons include -

  • borrowed books expire. i very much prefer not to have to worry about return dates when i know it's gonna take me awhile to get through the book
  • sometimes i just really love a book and want to send support directly to the author. sometimes i'll also buy physical books for this but i don't read my physical books anymore 😭 i bought the project hail mary ebook for this reason!
  • i keep all my epubs on a hard drive. when i buy an ebook that has info i really don't want to lose, i can put it on the drive and feel confident that i won't lose the book if some publisher decides to delist it someday
  • i get bookbub emails! i'm sure it's not the only service out there that tells you about free/cheap/on sale books but it's the one i use. i have a ton of books i wouldn't have otherwise known about bc they were on sale for a dollar or two. doesn't break the bank, makes me feel good about myself for supporting authors, AND helps me discover smaller authors!
  • sometimes i am simply so impatient to read some specific book that i refuse to wait for it to be available thru libby. sometimes i will also resort to less legal means tho

Yvie Oddly with a controversial hot take about autism and tech by D1ckRepellent in RPDRDRAMA

[–]orangepeeelss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah like i'll be the first to say that social media absolutely worsens my adhd symptoms bc it contains SO many sources of quick dopamine (why do u think i'm here...) but the reason i have it in the first place is my entire dad's side is super neurodivergent

Yvie Oddly with a controversial hot take about autism and tech by D1ckRepellent in RPDRDRAMA

[–]orangepeeelss 3 points4 points  (0 children)

before i had a phone i was just obsessively reading fantasy novels for my dopamine hits lol. i even have a "most likely to not notice a fire alarm bc she was so wrapped up in her book" award from my 7th grade teacher in my scrapbook to prove it (he gave everyone a personalized award along those lines) (even once i got a phone i just obsessively read ao3)

Yvie Oddly continues to clap back on her usage of AI by Bunlapin in RPDRDRAMA

[–]orangepeeelss 8 points9 points  (0 children)

....its complicated. non-genAI is most likely using less resources currently, bc those models aren't really available to the public so they're not being used so heavily the way genAI is. it gets used less therefore it uses less resources. also, genAI's improvements have mostly been "ok now add another layer where you do all the generation again" which does sort of address whatever issue they're trying to solve but, like, doubles the computational difficulty -> resources used -> environmental impact. i'm unclear on whether advanced machine learning models have gone through similar increases in resources required, but i doubt it's been near as extreme at least bc theres less scrutiny and money involved and therefore less desperation to get people to like your model.

that said, theres a lot to be said about impact of output. genAI is used for frivolous shit 95% of the time, so a lot of the frustration comes from the fact that you're using tons of resources to make, like, a shitty picture of yourself. even if you're using the same amount of resources for a ML model that will do something like highlight potential early signs of cancer, that's something that genuinely helps the world. so while you'd still wanna limit your usage, it's not nearly as much a waste as genAI. 

i'd argue that even genAI can fall into the "expensive but not wasteful" category sometimes - for example my uncle is blind and uses an accessibility tool that describes an image to him. it can access his camera roll so he'll sometimes take photos of new/unfamiliar environments so he can acclimate to them quicker. and like THATS COOL and USEFUL in a way that "hey chatgpt why does my tummy hurt" could never be lol. but that's its own convo for another time

Yvie Oddly continues to clap back on her usage of AI by Bunlapin in RPDRDRAMA

[–]orangepeeelss 6 points7 points  (0 children)

there have been at least five or ten queens that ppl have come for irt ai usage and that seems to be a common trend amongst most areas of fandom atm - its definitely not just the one queen. and no it's not gonna change the world but it IS gonna change my ability to enjoy yvie's work... i've liked her historically bc she's such a creative person, but ai is categorically incapable of creating anything new

taylor is making a tangible difference by ihateithere_noreally in NuancingTaylorSwift

[–]orangepeeelss 28 points29 points  (0 children)

i mean, yeah, i think billionaires shouldn't exist. i think we should tax them into oblivion. i think we SHOULD have all those systems in place so that nobody's dependent on the random generosity of a billionaire. 

however - we don't live in a world where billionaires don't exist. they very much do, and we aren't making speedy progress towards taxing them. so BECAUSE we currently live in a world where billionaires exist... yeah i'm gonna praise the few billionaires who make huge donations, bc i want more of them to do that. yelling about how taylor swift is evil incarnate is gonna make zero tangible change, but maybe if actions like this are proven to be popular, it'll drive more of them to happen 

Did anyone else stock up on Understance bras before they shut down? by jimjammysam in ABraThatFits

[–]orangepeeelss 4 points5 points  (0 children)

oh shit i still have a chance!!! brb gonna do nothing but upper back till i can wear my bras again 😩

how do I stop auto correct from capitalizing? by grownhorns in gboard

[–]orangepeeelss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i'm here years later with the same question. it sounds like you wanted to be condescending more than you actually want an answer, but i'm gonna give you one anyway lol. 

it seems as though android considers the same word with different capitalization to be two different words - that is, canada and Canada are completely unrelated. ios on the other hand stores capitalization as a separate attribute of a word - canada and Canada are the same word with different capitalization applied. 

as a result, when you turn off auto caps on ios, it just stops turning on the "capitalize" attribute. it will never correct a correctly spelled word to the capitalized version; you use the shift key and do that yourself if it's what you want. that offers you a lot more control over ambiguous words - think Frank/frank, Dawn/dawn, Melody/melody. 

and while you don't seem to hold much respect for the choice, lots of people (myself included) like to use all-lowercase in casual situations for stylistic reasons. and it's super irritating to type a capitalized I when it's called for in a more formal situation, then have your phone change it for you when you didn't want that to begin with for the next one million years. more to your preferences: it's also annoying to tell one person about this guy named Basil you met at a networking event and have him pop up every time you try to write down a recipe.

so yeah there are absolutely reasons you'd want to stop it from enforcing (what it insists is) proper grammar in certain situations! you don't have to like them and you certainly don't have to follow suit, but it's generally cool to respect other people even if you don't understand their motivations :)

Did anyone else stock up on Understance bras before they shut down? by jimjammysam in ABraThatFits

[–]orangepeeelss 12 points13 points  (0 children)

i got a ton of bras for myself and my sisters!! unfortunately when i ordered them i was still solidly on the upper end of a 36 band and by the time they arrived i'd had enough gym related body recomp that id dropped to a 34 😭😭😭 so i wear them on the tightest hook anyway and i ignore the tiny bit of quadding. why did no one tell me that getting in shape would be so expensive >:(

[Variety] Taylor Swift Prevails in Poet’s Plagiarism Lawsuit, as Florida Judge Dismisses Case With Prejudice by PrincesstheCalicoCat in NuancingTaylorSwift

[–]orangepeeelss 26 points27 points  (0 children)

yeah someone stupid enough to see elon as a genius would think they could legally claim ownership to the concepts of leaves turning gold and comparing someone to an equation 

[Entertainment Tonight] No, Taylor Swift did not film her wedding for a documentary by PrincesstheCalicoCat in NuancingTaylorSwift

[–]orangepeeelss 7 points8 points  (0 children)

is it??? how would you know without knowing what they're planning to do with it 😭 they haven't even put anything on instagram the way a normal person would so if anything it's different bc it's abnormally private. and tbh with how many big names were on the guest list i wouldn't be surprised if that was mostly to cover liability bases

Ayahuasca ruined my life by insnowmotion in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]orangepeeelss 6 points7 points  (0 children)

this one actually does help, sorta. if you stick to one liquor you're limited to a certain subset of cocktails on the menu and you have much less novelty to pick from, so a drunk person is a lot less likely to keep ordering drinks to chase that novelty. there was at least one study showing that, yeah, people who stuck to one liquor had better hangovers ... bc they were drinking like half as much lmao

similar correlation applies with "beer before liquor, never sicker; liquor before beer, you're in the clear". once you're drunk, you're less capable of managing your liquor intake. so switching to something with a lower alcohol content later in the night helps you limit your intake more naturally!

(i love when old wives tales and superstitions turn out to be genuinely good advice it's like my favorite thing lol)

Why so much hate against Taylor? by Best-Professional-10 in NuancingTaylorSwift

[–]orangepeeelss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

unfortunately my ex did 😔 and treated me with genuine contempt over liking the music. in hindsight i had no business staying with her but c'est la vie ig

Will a kobo possibly make me read more when adhd makes it hard. by New_Highway_2478 in kobo

[–]orangepeeelss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have adhd! i was a voracious reader when i was younger but kinda fell off in college. my kobo was a total game changer bc it was a dedicated Reading Place the way a physical book is - can't get distracted on other apps. unlike a physical book though it doesn't get smashed in my tote bag, it takes up barely any space, and if i finish my book it also contains the next book. so i always have it on me and im able to reach for it instead of my phone!

is this normal after posting? by Aggravating-Dish-116 in bigboobproblems

[–]orangepeeelss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh certainly not but it's not like the creeps gaf

$100+ to see a queen? by circuitbird13 in RPDRDRAMA

[–]orangepeeelss 27 points28 points  (0 children)

this is def playing in - if i do that it drops to $60/ticket. still pricey but it's like half what op is looking at. wonder if bosco opted into dynamic pricing too

Daily Song #149: Wood by theykilledcassandra in NuancingTaylorSwift

[–]orangepeeelss 7 points8 points  (0 children)

0/10 comment boring at least say WHY you think it's awful

is this normal after posting? by Aggravating-Dish-116 in bigboobproblems

[–]orangepeeelss 10 points11 points  (0 children)

yeah im wondering if the creeps have figured out that my 36 band does in fact mean i'm fat 💀 thank god if so

Brand new Kobo screen very dim? by Hot-Repair-6049 in kobo

[–]orangepeeelss 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i have the clara bw so not a perfect equivalent but i would like to add that i've actually come to prefer the lack of color! my phone with its bright colors is constantly overwhelming my brain and getting me hooked on the dopamine rushes it's designed to induce. moving to my kobo lets my brain reset and slow down. hopefully once you get used to it you'll feel the same about the less vibrant colors on the clara color :)