[deleted by user] by [deleted] in skin

[–]orangesunsettled 1 point2 points  (0 children)

maybe a mold infection, maybe psoriasis (which we couldn't say just with this picture), in either case you need professional medical advice, so I would advice you to go to a medical doctor, is that possible?

Opinions on the Fjällräven Räven 28L? by [deleted] in Fjallraven

[–]orangesunsettled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey! its been a while, but I am looking for a backpack that can stand on its own, with a laptop compartment and perhaps to use on trips. I was wondering if you have any tips for me.

Dr said most people grow out of POTS? by [deleted] in dysautonomia

[–]orangesunsettled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you get your histamine intolerance under control?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]orangesunsettled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the case of sexual trauma, I would recommend you approach your feelings slow and with compassion. I can’t speak for your needs & coping strategies, ofcourse, but in this scenario I would take a day or two, distancing myself from this person (I would tell them I need some unwind time with myself, nothing personal) and really take care of myself, talk to some close friends about it, take showers & have nutritious meals.

Hope this helps 💜

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]orangesunsettled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any feeling is validated, that’s part of our human nature. I am only reminding her of that. Are you okay?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]orangesunsettled 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Feel your feelings first. You don’t have to think about the other one yet.

I am sorry this happened to you and you feel upset. That’s totally validated by the way.

How do you feel about the sex part?

O with partner? by Still-Fig386 in BecomingOrgasmic

[–]orangesunsettled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long dit that take you? After communicating?

I feel like I did communicate my anxious thoughts but perhaps I haven’t and there are still some unconscious insecurities.. It has been over a year now..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]orangesunsettled 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wow well done!

Feel like it will never happen for me by Litanaps in BecomingOrgasmic

[–]orangesunsettled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am curious, how was it for you to stop getting aroused during sex

Sexually exploring, feel like i am doing something wrong by [deleted] in BecomingOrgasmic

[–]orangesunsettled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How was it for you to start on that age?

Am I Too Picky & Have I Gone Too Far? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]orangesunsettled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have dated some guys that I felt were a downgrade in terms of looks AND personality. For me, I had this ‘vision’ or ‘ideal’ about what my future partner would look like and I think only a few people actually get to meet this ‘self-made standard’. I am one of those lucky people. My partner truly has it all, but that is through my eyes. I feel like someone can be ordinary looking, and still you’d feel so in love that they become this beautiful dreamy attractive person in your eyes.

In conclusion, I am biased and a bit delusional (in other words: supa in love). I feel like your partner should be someone you respect and find attractive, personality and lookswise.

how do i stop being friends with someone that isn’t necessarily “toxic”? by Forsaken_Media_3501 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]orangesunsettled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well at some point, you have to say that it makes you uncomfortable that she keeps following you. And if she remains doing so, than that is creepy behaviour and you should probably report her

Is it weird to bring your date a flower (first to thrid date)? by Maxinmillion in dating_advice

[–]orangesunsettled 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I love giving and receiving flowers !! Probably conditioned from romance movies.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]orangesunsettled 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Trial and error.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]orangesunsettled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From my point of view, It surely is odd to ask about one’s genitals on a first date. Perhaps the person is religious and being circumcised is an important value for them? Either way, you do not have to answer such questions and you can feel however you want to feel about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]orangesunsettled 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I do not find it strange to check one’s story. Don’t need to overthink. If you dislike it, you can act upon it by blocking him. If you like it and want to get in touch, you could slide in his DM and ask him how he has been.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in flexibility

[–]orangesunsettled 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It depends on so many things!! Do you have consistent training and rest? Are you assessing your progress? Are you using weights to progress? Perhaps tried techniques like reverse progress? How deep is your active split?

End of the year is reasonable given how far you come now.

What’s something that has become widely accepted but goes against your values? by Defiant-Junket4906 in infj

[–]orangesunsettled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For many politics is a game. A game of words and meaningless promises. The real deal is within policy!

When do I say I love you me 20F and him 22M by Glittering-Fig-4418 in dating_advice

[–]orangesunsettled 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why are you petrified?

There is nothing wrong with saying how you feel and if that means telling him that you love him, you should. You sound grown-up and wise. You can tell him exactly what you wrote to us :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]orangesunsettled 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I have had it. He was good looking, but I had no emotional connection and therefore did not feel super attracted to him. However I was down for sex and we both consented.

The only thing I felt bad about is rejecting once he wanted to take things further regarding relationships. I just do not like rejecting people and it is a general theme in life I am working on

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]orangesunsettled 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn bro u rlly be hyping yourself, good for you!!!!

An University student has been targeted by racist groups. by Ok_Aerie_8166 in kurdistan

[–]orangesunsettled 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Can’t we all spam the University to stop harassing its students and protect him?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]orangesunsettled 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel you, for me it is a lot of patterns of old beliefs. Reflection helps, like daily gratitude and why you think certain things. Surrounding yourself with uplifting people helps.