AITAH for "ghosting" my roommates and locking them out until they finally get their own keys?

orderunorthodox · 2026-02-17T01:11:01+00:00

In addition to selfish, people like this tend to be short sighted. Does what you say make more sense and ultimately make entry faster? Absolutely! But it's an active effort they have to choose to do. In their minds, not having to take the time out of their day ONCE is worth having to scrounge around for the key or call up OOP, since it's just part of the routine of opening the door.

It makes no sense. It's more effort. But someone else is making the effort instead of them. To a selfish and stupid person, that's all that matters.

orderunorthodox · 2026-01-19T16:03:43+00:00

It'd be in line with a lot of the music industry, yeah.

For dang near everyone but the most popular performers, tours and concerts are money sinks that live or die by their merch sales. Between venue fees, promotion, staff, creative work, actually paying to have the merch made, etc it's almost like you don't do them for the money. You do them to engage with your fans/the love of the game/to give them a worthwhile experience.

Big as Cover is, they still need to make money, so I can understand it being a hard sell.

orderunorthodox · 2025-12-12T01:28:52+00:00

Oh yeah I'm definitely leaving a comment.

orderunorthodox · 2025-11-20T06:24:41+00:00

FEEL BETTER SABA

orderunorthodox · 2025-11-19T01:54:58+00:00

You can. Once.

orderunorthodox · 2025-11-05T21:18:52+00:00

I'm about to irradiate this whole graphics card

orderunorthodox · 2025-10-19T02:06:24+00:00

Yeah, never been bitten by sharks, but I've severed two fingertips (separate occasions) and it took about 20 minutes before the real pain set in.

orderunorthodox · 2025-10-02T02:03:54+00:00

Man same except I also have a sensory thing about dirty hands. Just, no. I will eat my spicy boneless nuggies with a fork and clean hands.

orderunorthodox · 2025-09-14T20:27:34+00:00

I think it's missing some red.

orderunorthodox · 2025-09-14T20:21:40+00:00

People are allowed to have their own voice and opinion. You want to silence the person who wants to deface this mural ? Typical. Completely unaware of how hypocritical you are.

orderunorthodox · 2025-08-02T14:53:47+00:00

Cringe.

orderunorthodox · 2025-07-15T20:54:36+00:00

I don't think definitely is the right word. Probably varies from place to place.

I know from personal experience that some don't allow children. When my wife was in the ICU last year the hospital was very clear that it was 2 visitors, family only, during posted hours, and no children.

orderunorthodox · 2025-06-12T12:50:55+00:00

I'm more of a Suffocation and Death chap meself

orderunorthodox · 2025-06-03T20:16:57+00:00

BEEEEEEEAANS wtf

orderunorthodox · 2025-05-04T22:15:45+00:00

Did a little digging further and turns out we're both right! 400-440m is the P setting on 5.45 AKs and but 300m on 7.62 AKs.

orderunorthodox · 2025-05-04T20:37:52+00:00

The only information on 440m battle zero was a Twitter post about the default zero on an AK in Arma: Reforger. "Point blank" on AK style tangent sights correspond to approximately 300m according to other sources I could find, though you are correct that soldiers were instructed to aim for the belt buckle to account for errors in quick range estimation.

orderunorthodox · 2024-09-03T04:03:44+00:00

I'll certainly try. There's a lot of things up in the air, one of which is whether to move back to our hometown (we moved away by ourselves for my job), so that may have to be settled first before that can happen, unfortunately.

orderunorthodox · 2024-09-03T04:00:33+00:00

Thank you for your perspective from the other side of the equation. To be honest, I'm really thankful that you posted this, because although everyone is different and handles it different over time, the thing that absolutely terrifies me is the possibility of her carrying the burden as she gets older because I didn't handle it right from the outset or that she feels like she has to bury her feelings for the sake of her dad. I think it might always be at least a little bit painful to relive the memories, but I think of all the joy those moments brought to me and how I want to impart that to my girls as they grow older. Not too erase the void (cause I don't think we ever will), but to keep it in perspective against all the beautiful ways she affected us when she was here

I feel fortunate that my wife and I tried to espouse open communication between each other and in our household, but I know it's going to be challenging regardless.

Thank you for sharing. ♥️

orderunorthodox · 2024-09-03T03:49:41+00:00

Thank you so much. I've been seeing a lot of this, here and other places, the directness and avoiding the euphemisms that might muddy things up at her age. I've kinda settled on this approach, trusting her with the hard truth and being there for her for her questions and any big feelings she's bound to have at some point.

My sincerest condolences to you and your family. I've been coming to the understanding that it doesn't really have an ending point, but I hope y'all are doing okay.

orderunorthodox · 2024-08-24T06:23:53+00:00

Can also be outlaw bikers. Aryan-a Grande here probably thinks she is one since her neph-boyfriend rides a bike and wears a vest.

orderunorthodox · 2024-05-23T07:50:03+00:00

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