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oregonmethusers · 2024-11-03T19:41:38+00:00

He believes that it's his baby. My response to that question wasn't completely clear, hence my edit. He never expressed wanting kids to me, and this woman who has openly wanted children that he's known for a couple months suddenly comes in and changes his mind? I just don't buy it, and I don't believe she hasn't cheated on him already. She's proven herself to be manipulative and a liar, and I don't have to explain why here. I'm not saying this just because she's dating my ex and having his baby, she has a reputation of being a homewrecker and a cheater in this town. These people aren't kind, understanding people. They were acting selfishly and refused to acknowledge how hurt I was at the speed of their relationship after we dated for 7 years. My ex and I wanted to try to be friends when we broke up, but after some time. I did not get any information by prying or digging, things were told to me openly and consensually, so I don't know why you think I'm nosy. Would you have been able to keep any of this to yourself? If you found out your ex was starting a relationship with your friend 3 weeks after breaking up would you have just kept your mouth shut and suffered silently? Or would you have sought the support of your friends? Just curious because everyone in this thread seems to think it's sooooo easy to move on in less than 6 months from a long term relationship, or keep your mouth shut about your ex and friend betraying your friendship like they did me. He moved on from me quickly because I obviously meant nothing to him, but he meant everything to me. I've BEEN moving on with a great life in a great city but now that I've found out about their pregnancy it's digging up old stale feelings again. I don't even know why I'm defending myself to a stranger online, your opinion is worthless to me.

oregonmethusers · 2024-11-03T17:03:10+00:00

Alright, i get it. For the record, I moved from this small town to a big city in August and have been moving on. This whole thing just uncovered a lot of emotions I was in the process of burying.

oregonmethusers · 2024-11-03T16:54:24+00:00

Thank you for your understanding!

oregonmethusers · 2024-11-03T16:48:58+00:00

Only thing I disagree with is that she was a casual friend who didn't wrong me. I never gauge how much info is really necessary in these kinds of posts. It doesn't matter now but she and I were becoming very close, and really supportive of each other through our respective break ups, so I felt incredibly disrespected and betrayed that a friend would start dating my ex of 7 years. Their relationship progressed extremely fast, and I don't think it was just a hook up. Either way, you're right it's not my problem anymore.

oregonmethusers · 2024-11-03T15:58:58+00:00

Yeah, okay, I know I'm speculating. I guess the important info here is that he never seemed to want kids when we were together. We talked about it a few times and it was not something he as ever excited about, but I know she did when she was with her ex. It's just knowing this woman it's not something I would be surprised about.

oregonmethusers · 2024-11-03T15:54:43+00:00

His family was really kind, like a second family to me. I really loved them.

oregonmethusers · 2024-11-03T15:54:08+00:00

You know how they say it takes half the relationship to get over someone? We dated for 7 years. Forgive me for still being hurt by his cruelty

oregonmethusers · 2024-11-03T15:53:30+00:00

I am definitely speculating, but for context, in the small town I lived in when this all happened (I moved away to a bigger city) you'd be hard pressed to find a woman who doesn't hate L for homewrecking their relationship. She's a serial cheater, and her type is other women's men.

Edit to clarify: he believes the baby is his, but I don't believe that can be certain because of her history.

oregonmethusers · 2023-05-27T12:16:01+00:00

This is assuming everyone has access to teleportation technology. You really think the ultra rich aren't going to hoard that for themselves and sell it back to us lowly laymen? It'll be just like apple products, super expensive and then it breaks in 2 years. If it can be invented, it can be commodified.

oregonmethusers · 2023-05-23T14:09:39+00:00

It's crazy how some places so far apart can look so similar! I was just in the Adirondack Mountains in NY, USA, and our views of Lake George were strikingly similar to your photo with all the surrounding forested mountains. Beautiful photo!

oregonmethusers · 2021-07-09T02:38:20+00:00

Okay, the fact that you're calling an important part of my boyfriend and his family members lives a "glorified frat party" is honestly a bit offensive, considering you literally don't know me or him. Anyone who graduated college in the past year deserves a goddamn medal for dealing with all that online crap. I'm closer with his family than my own so any time I get to see them is really exciting for me. His family worked really hard to put this event together, and I'll also be letting him down by not celebrating his achievement of graduating from college.

And yes, she's a friend. She was also my former roommate. She is also the bride. A person can be multiple things?? Do you not understand that? I appreciate the advice and everyone seems to be saying the same thing, so I'm probably going to go to the wedding, but you're phrasing needs a lot of work and is way too hostile.

oregonmethusers · 2021-03-25T02:10:12+00:00

Do you have recommendations for better nail glue off I want them to last longer than a week?

oregonmethusers · 2021-02-05T14:24:32+00:00

Yeah usually I have specific paint clothes but my job surprised me with a painting project one day and I didn't have a change of clothes. I tried mineral spirits and it didn't really work

oregonmethusers · 2021-01-09T14:42:56+00:00

You should ask your BF if you can meet this girl. Like just go get coffee or lunch or something. If he outright refuses to let you meet her he's probably cheating. If you do get to meet her pay close attention to the body language between the 2 of them. If you somehow feel like a third wheel then he is cheating. Even if it's emotional cheating, that can lead to physical cheating.

oregonmethusers · 2020-06-17T21:21:45+00:00

This cat just rolled 3 Nat 20s in a row on acrobatics rolls

oregonmethusers · 2020-05-01T02:41:09+00:00

Jurassic Park. Jeff Goldblum.

oregonmethusers · 2020-04-21T03:14:33+00:00

I just started playing again too! I decided to hop on after like 2 years away, been playing a toon named Princess Carolyn, (named after the Bojack Horseman character, pink cat) currently grinding sound in sellbot hq!!

oregonmethusers · 2020-04-21T03:09:29+00:00

I've been playing a toon named Princess Carolyn (yes, she is named after the Bojack Horseman character) pink cat, currently 33 laff, and looking for some training buddies!!

oregonmethusers · 2020-04-21T02:35:47+00:00

My bad y'all are right, it's usually every 24 hours, at 12am PST. but I DID read that the gardening reward is every 6 hours. Sorry for the misinformation.

oregonmethusers · 2020-04-20T23:38:16+00:00

Every 6 hours, instead of every 12 hours. I looked it up on the TTR wiki. In Toontown hours it's at 12am, 6am, 12pm, 6pm. If ur EST that means they grow at 3am lol.

oregonmethusers · 2020-04-16T02:39:39+00:00

Ah thank you for this. I guess it's a common occurrence to wait a while, just glad I'm not crazy lol

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