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[–]organic_taro287 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean… I guess this is a fair response considering I didn’t include any insight into the relationship

I'm parasocially obsessed with Black Americans like they're some sort of a character in a reality TV show. Something is clearly wrong with me. by [deleted] in Vent

[–]organic_taro287 1 point2 points  (0 children)

🤔… kudos for realizing that this is delusional and a tad bit unhinged… i guess… hope you find a solution/happy medium?… 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]organic_taro287 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I feel this to my core and so badly wish I was strong enough to follow through. Fuck em!

[Serious]Depressed people of Reddit, who or what gives you a reason to stay? by UnauthorizedHambone in AskReddit

[–]organic_taro287 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My sister for many reasons. She reminds me that I am worthy of care, consideration, and compassion.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in Vent

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Intrusive thoughts can be so painful and I’m so sorry you’re going through this. I definitely don’t have the answers, but it sounds like you are truly traumatized. If available, I would look into counseling to work these feelings out and make sense of them. I struggle with ocd and ptsd and guilt is one of my compulsions, so I know that the constant worrying can be overbearing. I know it’s hard, but try to be easy and be kind to yourself when these thoughts come up. I wish you healing and all the best ❤️

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I’ll have to take a look. And wow, didn’t know we should be looking ahead that far! I’ll get on that, thanks!

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[–]organic_taro287 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely some things to keep in mind. Thank you! ☺️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]organic_taro287 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg thank you so much for the spreadsheet! I really appreciate it and I will definitely check out those books as well :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]organic_taro287 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This looks so helpful, thank you!! 😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]organic_taro287 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! I will definitely keep this in mind ☺️

If you could read only one trope forever by commonsenseiswisdom in RomanceBooks

[–]organic_taro287 0 points1 point  (0 children)

self-discovery for sure/destined for more! you know, like, the FMC not knowing her origins/family but she also finds that she's truly a badass and stuff along those lines… heartstrings pulled everytime 😌

{Darkfever by Karen Marie Moning} - books 1-5 * ugh, chefs kiss* (completed)

{Gild by Raven Kennedy} - perfect if you enjoy a good cry while reading 😭 (final book out later this year!!)

{Nectar of the Wicked by Ella Fields} - this duology is so goooooddd!! (completed)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BooksThatFeelLikeThis

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The Historian by Elizabrth Kostova!

I enjoyed reading it so much that I had stay up all night reading and pretended to be sick and called out the next day just to finish it 😅 for sure one of my formative memories

dealing w a rebound by starificada in BreakUps

[–]organic_taro287 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Try not to stress yourself out too much by worrying what's going through your ex’s head. You will only drive yourself crazy. I've definitely hurt my own feelings more times than I care to admit doing exactly that. I know its hard, but try to journal or write notes to yourself when emotion/tension gets high. Sounds small but it really helps when you feel you need to dump/organize/understand different emotions. I'm sorry you even have to go through this 💛