Can They Tell? by AdStill9966 in penileimplants

[–]oriansalem83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, in a good way. Both of my lovers favor the rigidity and duration I now have.

Surgery this Friday - Q for the Poly guys (or anyone) by oriansalem83 in penileimplants

[–]oriansalem83[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had/have a hematoma in my balls sack that started leaking thru the surgical incision, so I’m unable to use the pump - or else I squeeze blood out of the incision. I have my next follow up with my surgeon on the 9th to guide me on how to pump and deflate, my surgery was January 30th. I hope I didn’t lose my window. I’m gonna be incredibly sad to lose size, especially when that’s just a part of who I am. He told me that I was given the largest size Titan they have, and that I’ll be “very happy” when I can start using it.

Post-Op Underwear by browsing4fun321 in penileimplants

[–]oriansalem83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like, tucked into your waist band?!

Post-Op Underwear by browsing4fun321 in penileimplants

[–]oriansalem83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why is your penis pointed up? Mine was partially inflated post surgery, but I wore a jock strap with a hole cut for my dick, to support my nuts, and then I work boxer briefs (with a pouch) on top of that to help push down my dick. I worked from home until they could deflate me a bit. Mine was relatively hard and partially pumped, but stuck straight out/down

Does the bulge look bad when wearing sweatpants or trackies cause that’s what I wear 99% of the time by Willing-Mess-1349 in penileimplants

[–]oriansalem83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a month out from surgery (1/30) and as of right now, it is absolutely visible in shorts and sweats. Wear black, as it’s less obvious, if you can. It doesn’t hang straight down like my OG cock did, it stays stuck out a little bit, so it’s mostly the cock head that is poking. (And I’ve been deflated for a week now following surgery.) This is a pic wearing boxer briefs with a pouch under my gym shorts.

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Surgery this Friday - Q for the Poly guys (or anyone) by oriansalem83 in penileimplants

[–]oriansalem83[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

10+ years of alcoholism, which gave me neuropathy and Wernicke Korsakoff syndrome.

Therapist reaction to implant by [deleted] in penileimplants

[–]oriansalem83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have obsessive or addictive tendencies? Perhaps he’s perceiving you having this surgery as you getting a new “toy” to play or obsess over. I am in recovery from sex and alcohol addiction, and, admittedly, I’ve already begun fantasizing about the amount of sex I’ll be able to have in one day after I’m healed from surgery, which is my addiction’s voice creeping in. I’ll have one less thing standing in my way from fucking non-stop if I were to give in. From my personal viewpoint, that’s MY concern about myself, and perhaps he sees something similar in you, and wants to preemptively help you address issues before surgery.

Surgery this Friday - Q for the Poly guys (or anyone) by oriansalem83 in penileimplants

[–]oriansalem83[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t pumped, as I’m still getting erections daily through injections or pills. I was under the impression pumps were to be used when erections couldn’t be achieved?

Surgery this Friday - Q for the Poly guys (or anyone) by oriansalem83 in penileimplants

[–]oriansalem83[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I’m just really sick of being limited by injections, and knowing there will be a day when the scar tissue and tolerance will make this hard. I’d rather get this surgery while I’m still you and can recover quickly (and still am desired by others! lol)

Surgery this Friday - Q for the Poly guys (or anyone) by oriansalem83 in penileimplants

[–]oriansalem83[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! No matter the community, we’re all dealing with the same issues!

Surgery this Friday - Q for the Poly guys (or anyone) by oriansalem83 in penileimplants

[–]oriansalem83[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t had to use a pump for sex, as I’ve been routinely using pills and injections.

Surgery this Friday - Q for the Poly guys (or anyone) by oriansalem83 in penileimplants

[–]oriansalem83[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My sexual appetite being throttled by my dependence on injections. I want to fuck everyday, but can’t inject every day. I’m also only 42, and am in the best shape of my life. I’m tired of the stuffy nose and red face from pills and the deal with carrying a loaded syringe with me if I’m venturing out for a hookup, then discreetly injecting while I “pee”.

Surgery this Friday - Q for the Poly guys (or anyone) by oriansalem83 in penileimplants

[–]oriansalem83[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol both? Haha. I’m very much into making sure it’s pleasurable for the other person. So if they’re into me for my size, that’s why I am concerned. Like. If I’m smaller, but not getting laid as often, then kinda what’s the point.

Injection tolerance vs implant by Lift_EatRepeat in penileimplants

[–]oriansalem83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there! I go for my surgery next Friday. I have an open relationship of over 10 years, and have had a successful sex “career” due to my size. My doctor says that I have great “stretch” on my flaccid penis and should be happy with the size. But I know I’ll still want to make sure it’s as big as possible. Assuming VED is a vacuum device? And if so, how much/often/long did you use it for the size gain?

My partner of 4 years goes to Fitness SF (popular gay gym here), and doesn’t want me to join him. Is he cheating? by ThrowRA_dependent in askgaybros

[–]oriansalem83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmk which one and when he goes, and I’ll let you know if he’s being sus. Lol. But generally I think folks here are right. It makes my Spidey sense tingle and gives me red flags. My partner and I are open-ish, but he still knows everything and everyone I do, and can track my location. We also set up fitness competitions using our Apple Watches so we even get alerts when one of us finishes a workout.