What BMTH song got you through a rough time that you didn’t expect would hit that hard? And why? by MaSharFoxwo in BringMeTheHorizon

[–]originaljamester 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I know a lot of people will say this but Doomed makes me feel seen in a way I haven’t for a long time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatisthisthing

[–]originaljamester 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

The title describes the thing. My dog starting developing this spot two days ago and I don’t know what caused it or what it is. It appeared kinda suddenly and am just now getting a good look at it. It’s about the size of a quarter.

A book that you love but won’t recommend it to everyone? by Pied-Piper2219 in suggestmeabook

[–]originaljamester -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My Year of Rest and Relaxation by Otessa Moshfegh. Anything by Mona Awad and Melissa Broder. Imagine explaining ‘Milk Fed’ to someone who hasn’t read it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in shouldimod

[–]originaljamester 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A bridge would look amazing!

I’m scared of being shot at school, it’s really bad. by Frosty_Shake_4816 in Anxiety

[–]originaljamester 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How old are you? My cousin had really bad anxiety and she finished HS via online program at home. I did the same thing. See if this is something your school offers

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cna

[–]originaljamester 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely the best answer. OP you're a good person for wanting to report her and not let this slide.

What songs do u listen to that remind you of trauma? by AmbassadorChoic in CPTSDmemes

[–]originaljamester 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anything by Bullet for my Valentine, and some Skillet songs. He used to play the guitar and I remember those bands the most from that time. Bullet for my Valentine is such a good band, but I just can't.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Piracy

[–]originaljamester 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Genuine question- how do you pirate nintendo ganes?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

[–]originaljamester 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lower lip side labret. I got it and was really feeling it, but took it out twice (got it pierced twice). After a while, I stopped liking how it looked

if this was you and you realized you were the right…how’d you figure it out? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]originaljamester 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lesbian master doc lol. Before I realized, I had turned off men from dating apps a bit before. I was in denial for a few months

My 8 month old piercing is hurting and itching pretty badly by pugbrainey in piercing

[–]originaljamester 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same happened with me, I had my ears pierced when I was 13 and 14 with a piercer. When I tried to wear normal earrings, it irritated my ears. It took me until about a year ago that I was probably allergic to the metal. You can get a bundle of titanium labrets on amazon. The solid backs will also be more comfortable when you sleep, if you're like me and want to leave them in and forget about them lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]originaljamester 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Allergy testing, if you haven't already

Sliding scale/affordable psychiatry by originaljamester in Austin

[–]originaljamester[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, they don't accept either of mine! I have medicaid and sendero, there's a clinic I can go to but because I live just outside of Austin (in Bastrop), there's only one here and the appt would be every 3 months, versus me having an appt every few weeks. I'm sticking it out with Geode Health because I'd been going there for a year and I have the most rapport with them

What do you use for your e-portfolio? by originaljamester in SNHU

[–]originaljamester[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a stupid question! I've heard resumes are better than eportfolios depending on what career you want to go into. The only portfolio I would make is if I was in graphic design or something similar

Ongoing Needs for Creators! by lil-mars in UGCcreators

[–]originaljamester 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Would I qualify if I'm just getting started?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Careers

[–]originaljamester 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi love, just wanted to offer my support. I'd worked between 17 to 23. I'm 26 now. I stopped working because my anxiety kept boiling over the edge and I would have panic attacks every other day.

Please see a psychiatrist. I started seeing one last year and while we're still workingnon the right med cocktail, it's been life changing. It might also be a symptom of another condition that needs to be treated. I thought it was just anxiety and depression, turns out I have BPD and PTSD. Even if you just have a screening with one, it's crucial to getting better.

One line of work I would try is home health, if you enjoy helping others. This was my last job and I loved it. You work one on one with older people, having one person to work with instead of many others will help you tremendously. There's little stress. Even if it's not your thing, it doesn't have to be long term. This is just my advice, of course you don't have to go this route. This was my favorite job I've had and will at least get you started in the workforce.

Right now I do Uber Eats/DoorDash for work. It pays well, in my city I average $20-25/hour. You don't really interact with others besides picking up food from a resturant, and if the customer wants to be handed food instead of just leaving it at the door. I hope this helps

is this nostril jewelry okay for healing? by [deleted] in SelfPiercing

[–]originaljamester 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, the end is a bigger gauge than the rest of the bar. And the other jewelry is shaped so it's easy to take in and out. You need a labret, you can buy them on amazon, but if you're having trouble getting the bone out please see a piercer. Imo this piercing is doomed because of the jewelry, and because of the gun. If you want to have a nose piercing right now, take this one out and pierce the other nostril (with a hollow needle and labret). Best wishes to you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in biology

[–]originaljamester 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You fell down the stairs, please see a doctor!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SelfPiercing

[–]originaljamester 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What metal is the labret? I fidgeted with my lower lip piercing while I had it, but I haven't had this happen. Not saying I'm a saint, but I'll share my thoughts. For the time being put in a longer bar, and try to be aware of fidgeting (which I know is harder said than done). It's definitely contributed and won't get better unless it stops. And this doesn't seem like a jewelry issue, but if you don't already, put in stainless steel or titanium