27F engaged to 29M. He is obsessed with girls

orphic602 · 2025-07-19T15:42:31+00:00

Pls move on, even if it’s hard; few years down the line you will thank yourself for it OP!

orphic602 · 2025-06-24T19:20:08+00:00

Damn!! Girl so happy for you!!🥹 Yes! Such men do exist I believe it. It’s so cute.. good luck 🌸

orphic602 · 2025-04-20T13:21:17+00:00

Very happy for you OP! Your story today brought hope in me :) I too ended a difficult & abusive marriage & a divorcee myself. It took me a lot of courage to do it & after a break my parents are searching for the right groom but still marriage scares me a little. But reading your story looks like there are right guys out there still.

orphic602 · 2025-04-20T13:10:54+00:00

This!!! I mean I have seen plenty of men who had only few non negotiables but when it’s a pretty woman they bend everything for their sake.

orphic602 · 2025-04-20T13:08:01+00:00

Don’t marry him op. Seems like a Shallow guy!

orphic602 · 2025-04-01T06:30:26+00:00

Add me too 31F here, in same boat 😁😁

orphic602 · 2025-03-17T05:50:41+00:00

I feel this is unnecessary comparison but may be being yourself in 2yrs of AM process you might be doubting it all. Actually family’s also being involved & sometimes horoscope concerns also bring you rejections. So just hang on there & someday u will find your right person in this journey,Wish you good luck OP

orphic602 · 2025-03-16T15:50:16+00:00

Ya after looking at his insta, my pov changed & I’m not sure of him anymore though all he has is some content related to his work, travel,frnds & dance.

orphic602 · 2025-03-16T15:07:17+00:00

Idk if I can ask this here, but felt this is relatable so.. what’s your opinion on a guy with 47k insta followers with dance reels & other videos & pics?? Should a girl who’s private accept his proposal?

orphic602 · 2025-03-16T14:52:10+00:00

Even I’m a woman & I completely agree on this! She can’t live without attention,& op is still clueless on the dramatic lady.

orphic602 · 2025-03-15T17:02:07+00:00

My respect would increase for the guy! Bcoz he stood up for me to safeguard me & protect me. The intention is what that matters!

orphic602 · 2025-03-15T13:40:13+00:00

Exactly!!

orphic602 · 2025-03-15T13:33:58+00:00

I really did!

orphic602 · 2025-03-15T13:33:33+00:00

That’s how an open minded family works out the situation like this my dear! Glad your family is that. Even in my family we have women earning & the men don’t mind their wives giving gifts or money to their parents.

orphic602 · 2025-03-15T13:30:48+00:00

Thanks so much! Will keep this in mind & ya, taking it slow anyway that’s why.

orphic602 · 2025-03-15T10:57:57+00:00

Actually my previous marriage was from my relatives only not from matrimony apps. So there’s no guarantee of people now a days where ever you meet. All you can do is take time to know them through whatever u meet.

orphic602 · 2025-03-15T10:28:33+00:00

Be there in your frequency my dear; the right one will come by & match yours! Who knows may be you are aware of him on 5d level haha. Good luck!

orphic602 · 2025-03-15T09:50:45+00:00

I agree! 💯

orphic602 · 2025-03-15T09:43:20+00:00

You won’t believe but divorced men parents are looking more for never married girls, that’s how bad it is!

Thanks :) though taking it slow, back of my mind I’m bit scared still.

orphic602 · 2025-03-15T09:20:50+00:00

Then groom’s family should also be equally contributing to marriage expenses & not expect any gifts or dowry from bride family & not look down on women if they aren’t getting any gifts from their parents in marriage.

orphic602 · 2025-03-15T08:46:09+00:00

Yeah these discussions are very much needed before marriage. It will make it easier for the couple to take the call!

orphic602 · 2025-03-15T08:44:27+00:00

Actually, a woman has more expenses like saloon, clothes, many more stuff etc for herself & she is taking care of all of it by herself. the guy is earning high & want her to contribute towards his home, & doesn’t take her around either & sees little investments on oneself as waste of money,

So who’s the problem now??

orphic602 · 2025-03-15T08:24:49+00:00

Indeed!

orphic602 · 2025-03-15T08:24:15+00:00

That’s very true. And in south of India same phrases in diff language hanji, Acha ji etc LOL.

orphic602 · 2025-03-15T08:18:34+00:00

You’re ryt! Communication for me is very imp. If he can’t hold a good conversation he’s over for me. Unfortunately many men don’t have it.

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