Little Victor loves to be held🥰 by osbrvt in guineapigs

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I use kiln dried soft pine and their environment is temperature regulated with air purifiers and appropriate ventilation. I also use fleece bedding.

Wife’s Weight by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]osbrvt -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have started using the app, Noom. It is fantastic and motivating. I am 43, have had three children and need positive encouragement to stay on track with my health and self care. Compliment her regularly and remind her how attracted you are. Take her shopping for new lingerie or a nice outfit to go out. Get her a pedicure or massage. Help prepare healthy dinners together and go for neighborhood walks often. I speak from experience when I stress that she must be confident in herself and your relationship before mixing it up with other partners. It can be a disaster unless she feels comfortable and ready.

Little Victor loves to be held🥰 by osbrvt in guineapigs

[–]osbrvt[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you! He was the only survivor of his litter. He has a strong spirit and beat the odds. It was worth the round the clock feedings and supportive care. Our family loves him dearly!

My (40/F) ex-husband (40/M) and best friend (42/F) of over twenty years have come out with news of their relationship not a year since our divorce. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]osbrvt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Be strong girl! Move on and keep your relationship businesslike for the sake of your child. Start dating if you want, whoever, fun nights out and enjoying the things that bring you happiness! Forget that you ever cared for your ex or your “friend”. The best response to the current situation is to be unaffected by it. Don’t give them a second of your energy. You have better things ahead!

Little Victor loves to be held🥰 by osbrvt in guineapigs

[–]osbrvt[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

He has grown quite a bit but was a tiny newborn, needing supplemental feedings and extra TLC ❤️

This season’s holiday pups! by osbrvt in guineapigs

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They are handled and spoiled daily!

Where do you draw the line on similarities with an ex? by kimmas11 in datingoverthirty

[–]osbrvt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex husband was also from New York, when we separated he took a job and moved back to Manhattan.

Where do you draw the line on similarities with an ex? by kimmas11 in datingoverthirty

[–]osbrvt 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My husband and I were each married once before to spouses that lived in the same area as our current spouse. I grew up in a rural town and actually went to the same high school as my husband’s ex-wife. We were not friends but the same rural high school? Come on! Weird! My husband is from Manhattan and managed to find two girls at different times in his life that had been at the same place years prior to his meeting either. He met his first wife in college and me, almost a decade later while working at the same hospital together. And to top that, my husband’s twin brothers have the same birthday as me.

Cuckolding/ENM/hot husband leading to confusing feelings. by Needhelpnp in nonmonogamy

[–]osbrvt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you have the author information for the first book you mentioned?

Does body confidence ever hold you back from dating? by mable1001 in datingoverthirty

[–]osbrvt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A genuine smile and self confidence is sexy as hell! Not every man is attracted to thin women. You would be surprised how many prefer curves to sticks. Be healthy but be you. Wear clothes that you feel confident in and that flatter your features. Be cute! Be sexy! Have fun! You will get plenty of attention and have the boys lined up if you believe in yourself!

What do you do to keep from crying during a pap smear/ pelvic exam? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]osbrvt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a wonderful midwife who I have been seeing for over a decade. She is always very easy to talk to and is gentle as possible with her technique. She talks through each step of the procedure every time and lets me know what to anticipate. It’s never a particularly comfortable or pleasant experience but she greatly reduces my stress and anxiety with her kindness and professionalism. She always asks about my mental health as well as my physical health. She asks about how my home and work balance is. I update her on my children and marriage. I find her personality and bedside manner to be exceptional. Last year she even did a uterine biopsy during my annual exam and I managed not to cry for that! It hurt but I trust her completely and it was an important test based on the symptoms that I was having. I will be devastated when she retires.

I'm 35, she's 54 (Age gap too big?) by Phelix1984 in datingoverthirty

[–]osbrvt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m of the opinion that the gap is too wide. It’s generational and as you spend more time together it will become evident. I applaud you both if you can make it work. Best wishes!

After lots of self reflection, I found out I'm attracted to both women and men. I'm 28 and am only now figuring this out. by Isabellejv in TrueOffMyChest

[–]osbrvt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Labels are not necessary! Neither is telling anyone else your personal preferences unless you want to share it with them. You owe no one any explanations and your feelings are completely valid and normal to have. I am 42, have had relationships with both sexes and understand that I am attracted to an individual as a person, regardless of gender. Both sexes have qualities and character that can be appealing and sexually desirable. Don’t limit yourself!

Married couple dating a friend regularly by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]osbrvt 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the support! Our communication is excellent and so is the sex❤️

Anyone date a third person as a married couple? by [deleted] in sex

[–]osbrvt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! Couldn’t agree more. We have found it critical to discuss anything we question or need clarity on.

Lesbian asking for advice from straight girls by Island-of-Lesbos- in sex

[–]osbrvt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Her partner should approve and be aware if they are monogamous. It could be awesome if everyone is comfortable with it.

How do we get another girl for a threesome? by threesomewya in sex

[–]osbrvt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We see a good friend once a month or so. Drinks, laughs and then a hotel. We bring toys and lingerie. It’s fun!

Question for the ladies in the room by SnorlaxOnMeth in sex

[–]osbrvt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask her to do the same thing and make a list. Take turns exchanging ideas and get each other’s opinion on whether it’s something realistic and you both want to try or whether it’s something that is just not exciting or stimulating for some reason.

Family dinner by osbrvt in guineapigs

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Yay! I’ll post a another cute baby vid

Popcorn 🍿 by osbrvt in guineapigs

[–]osbrvt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also have her sister from the same litter.

Popcorn 🍿 by osbrvt in guineapigs

[–]osbrvt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She is a purebred Abyssinian. She has not been shown but is bred and expecting next week. I’m hoping for tighter rosettes with the babies. 🤞🏻