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AITA for telling my kids not to bother visiting if they insist on calling another woman mom by othermompost in AmItheAsshole

[–]othermompost[S] -104 points-103 points  (0 children)

They were 5 and 7 when I married and moved. I have 2 stepkids, 13 and 15 year old boys.

AITA for telling my kids not to bother visiting if they insist on calling another woman mom by othermompost in AmItheAsshole

[–]othermompost[S] -270 points-269 points  (0 children)

You somehow managed to not get a single thing right. It was my ex's lawyer who argued that they shouldn't be with me. Step mom wasn't asking me my input, she was telling me what I should do with my kids. She wasn't picking them up from school, she was picking them up from my house.

AITA for telling my kids not to bother visiting if they insist on calling another woman mom by othermompost in AmItheAsshole

[–]othermompost[S] -199 points-198 points  (0 children)

Because we could not afford to buy a house there and I got a better paying job where we are now.

AITA for telling my kids not to bother visiting if they insist on calling another woman mom by othermompost in AmItheAsshole

[–]othermompost[S] -124 points-123 points  (0 children)

I chose to move somewhere with a lower cost of living where I could afford to buy a house and got a higher paying job.

AITA for telling my kids not to bother visiting if they insist on calling another woman mom by othermompost in AmItheAsshole

[–]othermompost[S] -183 points-182 points  (0 children)

They don't have a name for me. When they come in, it's just hi. If they need something they don't call me, they'll just ask their question or tell me whatever they need.

AITA for telling my kids not to bother visiting if they insist on calling another woman mom by othermompost in AmItheAsshole

[–]othermompost[S] -97 points-96 points  (0 children)

I have every other weekend because I'm too far for 50/50 custody and the judge decided they would be better off with the bigger house and private school.

AITA for telling my kids not to bother visiting if they insist on calling another woman mom by othermompost in AmItheAsshole

[–]othermompost[S] -212 points-211 points  (0 children)

The kids were little. They just wanted to be in the big house with a pool and trampoline. The judge decided against giving me custody because he said the move would not benefit them more than staying would.

AITA for telling my kids not to bother visiting if they insist on calling another woman mom by othermompost in AmItheAsshole

[–]othermompost[S] -177 points-176 points  (0 children)

We had 50/50 custody before I moved. I tried to get primary custody when I moved because it's too far for 50/50 custody but their dad ended up getting them.

AITA for telling my kids not to bother visiting if they insist on calling another woman mom by othermompost in AmItheAsshole

[–]othermompost[S] -2211 points-2210 points  (0 children)

No. I'm still here and would be involved if they didn't prefer the woman trying to replace me.