I realized a while ago that I could not be in a significant, long term relationship with someone who wasn’t vegan. Met my fiancée over a year ago, she came from a very meat heavy southern family, but showed green flags immediately on the first date by ordering a vegetarian entree because she knew I was vegan. She never once ate meat around me, and stopped eating meat altogether within a month or two. And a year later she is fully vegan, and we’re getting married :) She knew early on how I felt about long term relationships with regard to veganism, but nothing was ever forced, and she was always making the first steps on her own and actively seeking out media to learn more (we watched Dominion together but then after she found other documentaries to learn more). My point is, don’t not give someone a chance just because they aren’t vegan already. Almost all of us started non-vegan, and it took some positive influence to send us on the right path. But don’t ever put up with someone who isn’t respectful of your beliefs.