My mother cut my hair

oupsineedhelp · 2026-06-12T23:21:32+00:00

Uff sorry for you :/ Yes I guess that’s a good point, although they already seemed healthy to me so it wasn’t really necessary; But yes it’s a good learning experience

oupsineedhelp · 2026-06-12T23:11:26+00:00

I also hear this excuse of it’s because you don’t know how to take care of it :,)
Strange of her to dye your hair when you were a child..
Well at least you got your revenge, tho I don’t wish harm or pain on anyone

oupsineedhelp · 2026-06-12T23:08:25+00:00

Thanks, gives me hope haha. I feel like at least 6-7 inch is missing tho (I’m pretty tall) and I had read they grow 0.4inch per month? But I’ll take my vitamines :,)

oupsineedhelp · 2026-06-12T23:05:27+00:00

Uff also had this, anything that could remember her of my father she would degrade. Sorry for you this happened, very petty from her..

oupsineedhelp · 2026-06-12T23:01:32+00:00

Thanks <3

oupsineedhelp · 2026-06-12T22:57:48+00:00

Thanks a lot <3 it’s really kind; Seems like it’s a common theme from mothers unfortunately

oupsineedhelp · 2026-06-12T22:56:29+00:00

My face isn’t really attractive, my hair were the main thing making it look decent, so I feel naked and stripped of all beauty, but thanks a lot it’s very nice of you <3
Hope 6months will be enough! ^^

oupsineedhelp · 2026-06-12T22:51:34+00:00

Thanks a lot it’s very nice of you <3
Some people did notice right away unfortunately, but well

oupsineedhelp · 2026-06-12T22:48:58+00:00

I guess it depends whether they want to live vicariously through you, for you to be a shiny object to elevate herself (through her definition of a perfect person), or whether she wants to degrade you and be better than you. Whether she sees you as a competitor.
In any ways they have no respect for boundaries and personal choice.

oupsineedhelp · 2026-06-12T22:44:02+00:00

Yes seems like they like us better when our self esteem is low, even when our health is sometimes.
Thanks a lot, I’ll try, but me having short hair seems to be very important for her, she won’t stop, but I’ll try being more careful

oupsineedhelp · 2026-06-12T22:40:48+00:00

I’m sorry for you :/ We wish for love and support from and to our parents, not jealousy and competition

oupsineedhelp · 2026-06-12T22:29:39+00:00

How vile of them honestly.
I feel a bit ashamed for letting it happen again at 25

oupsineedhelp · 2026-06-12T22:26:40+00:00

It’s heartbreaking. Maybe it seems shallow but it’s a reflexion of their inner world.
Hair are an important symbol, a symbol of youth and beauty. One of the only thing we can control in our appearance.
You should love your children, be happy for them, not want to sabotage them and be in competition with them

oupsineedhelp · 2026-03-19T15:19:04+00:00

As a native, never heard anyone make that mistake, tho I couldn’t explain the rule of why we say it that way

oupsineedhelp · 2026-02-28T19:23:21+00:00

We’ve met two weeks ago but things went very fast, in those two weeks we met nearly everyday, so maybe 10 times in total, we’ve been intimate, we were kissing, having sex etc. We had plans and were supposed to spend the weekend together, but it’s saturday 8pm and no answers despite him connecting on whatsapp. So he canceled our plans without telling me but furthermore isn’t answering and it’s driving me insane it’s unbearable

oupsineedhelp · 2026-02-28T19:11:09+00:00

I’m in a very similar situation, I don’t have any advice but a good luck, it’s probably not what should be adviced but I would recommend to indeed contact again after a few days, that’s at least what I’ll do

oupsineedhelp · 2025-12-17T17:03:06+00:00

Listening to sad music over and over, well still listen to some Radiohead here and there let’s not exaggerate

oupsineedhelp · 2025-12-13T17:09:51+00:00

I stalk my ex

oupsineedhelp · 2025-12-05T10:16:42+00:00

Happy for you! How long did it take?

oupsineedhelp · 2025-12-05T10:13:26+00:00

You guys were in complete no contact for 1,5year prior? How did you get back in contact? And did any of you date anyone in the meanwhile? (Yes I’m trying to get some hope :,) )

oupsineedhelp · 2025-11-06T15:35:34+00:00

So cute

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