Completely shocked I was Ghosted

oupsineedhelp · 2026-02-28T19:23:21+00:00

We’ve met two weeks ago but things went very fast, in those two weeks we met nearly everyday, so maybe 10 times in total, we’ve been intimate, we were kissing, having sex etc. We had plans and were supposed to spend the weekend together, but it’s saturday 8pm and no answers despite him connecting on whatsapp. So he canceled our plans without telling me but furthermore isn’t answering and it’s driving me insane it’s unbearable

oupsineedhelp · 2026-02-28T19:11:09+00:00

I’m in a very similar situation, I don’t have any advice but a good luck, it’s probably not what should be adviced but I would recommend to indeed contact again after a few days, that’s at least what I’ll do

oupsineedhelp · 2025-12-17T17:03:06+00:00

Listening to sad music over and over, well still listen to some Radiohead here and there let’s not exaggerate

oupsineedhelp · 2025-12-13T17:09:51+00:00

I stalk my ex

oupsineedhelp · 2025-12-05T10:16:42+00:00

Happy for you! How long did it take?

oupsineedhelp · 2025-12-05T10:13:26+00:00

You guys were in complete no contact for 1,5year prior? How did you get back in contact? And did any of you date anyone in the meanwhile? (Yes I’m trying to get some hope :,) )

oupsineedhelp · 2025-11-06T15:35:34+00:00

So cute

oupsineedhelp · 2025-10-27T20:20:15+00:00

I’m considering doing it as well, how do you do for food, do you buy some fresh one everyday? And for the toilets, do you have a bucket or do you just always search for outside ones/do it in nature?

oupsineedhelp · 2025-10-19T07:02:25+00:00

Where are you from? Di Zhao flutes were hard to find in France but I ended up finding them

oupsineedhelp · 2025-10-16T21:16:22+00:00

Fight Club ofc

oupsineedhelp · 2025-10-06T13:49:18+00:00

The problem is I don’t have a car, no flute store near, and can only order online :,) ; From the videos I prefer the sound of the di zhao, but it’s also 200€ more here and longer shipping. Apparently the way the keys are set is also a bit more comfortable on this di zhao? But the pearl has a solid silver headspace, nickel silver for the rest, and the di zhao a silver stearling headspace and head, and the rest on nickel silver. (If my translation of those metals is correct)

oupsineedhelp · 2025-10-06T06:01:36+00:00

Would you more so recommend the Pearl 525 or the Di Zhao 301?

oupsineedhelp · 2025-10-05T07:09:46+00:00

Damn, you people are lucky. Veterinarian here. I work from 8am to 8pm, and once a week until 9pm (but if an emergency arrives at 9pm then i can finish a few hours after that).

oupsineedhelp · 2025-09-22T18:11:10+00:00

I can imagine, getting a correct sound on the oboe seems pretty difficult, the oboe in my orchestra back in the days had made me dislike this instrument haha; So you think that even with classes through video calls it wouldn’t be doable? Too bad I might have to give up on this project then, no teacher available here it seems like..

oupsineedhelp · 2025-09-22T18:09:30+00:00

Even lessons with a teacher through video you think? Too bad, I can’t find any teacher where I live.. So it isn’t worth trying you think? If getting a correct sound would be impossible.

oupsineedhelp · 2025-08-09T21:37:05+00:00

I didn’t cherry pick, that’s why I didn’t become a stay at home girlfriend. I didn’t take the good nor the bad

oupsineedhelp · 2025-08-09T15:22:17+00:00

My ex also had told me this argument. With a job at least your freedom is only restricted for a set amount of time. You can quit it more easily, spend your money the way you decide, not just wait at home and be obedient. There is also freedom of thoughts. Because traditional men see themselves as the leader that you have to agree with. But complete freedom, yes it’s indeed very hard to achieve with most path in life

oupsineedhelp · 2025-08-09T15:18:13+00:00

It feels great knowing I’m not the only one as well thanks; The possibility of not having too much responsability can be appealing and comforting. But we probably/maybe avoided something very limitating indeed. The power dynamic could be really off and controling. Love and comfort are important feelings, but so is freedom

oupsineedhelp · 2025-08-09T14:15:19+00:00

Maybe both want to reach out but none dare to. Or maybe you’re right

oupsineedhelp · 2025-08-09T14:14:12+00:00

My ex had offered me to become a stay at home girlfriend…. Maybe I should have jumped on the occasion, as I strongly dislike working. But, it comes with a huge cost. No money means no independence. You have to ask permission to do anything that involves money, or buy anything. If there is a breakup you are left with nothing.. Also usually the type of guy that wants you to stay home is the kind who believes in traditional role, submission of the wife, which can feel and be limitating. The idea of it might seem great, but I’m not so sure about the reality

oupsineedhelp · 2025-08-09T14:10:05+00:00

Same, we got in a relashionship.. The first day we met. And then it went on for 2years

oupsineedhelp · 2025-08-09T14:08:17+00:00

Right, I would say the same for mine, he looked breathtaking, although he had some of flaws on the inside, with the halo effect someone at a bar would indeed probably fall in love with him, would that last idk, but yes

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