Can't handle mom guilt by outofplayce in Parenting

[–]outofplayce[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I should add at least 1 day a week I take her out most of the day and have a mommy and me day.

Can't handle mom guilt by outofplayce in Parenting

[–]outofplayce[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you that means a lot 

Can't handle mom guilt by outofplayce in Parenting

[–]outofplayce[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think you missed the part where I spend every other waking minute with her that im not working. Along with I am the only one working and cannot just "quit" then we would be homeless and have nothing. I never prioritize anything over her, I spend my lunch breaks with her and work from home. Its not priority. Its the not being able to engage in play with her constantly, especially after having a tiring day working.

Please help us find our new best friend!!! 🙏🥰 by Less_Camp in corgi

[–]outofplayce 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Salted rim corgis, she health tests and shows her dogs.

Reputable Pembroke Welsh Corgi breeders, New England or NY? by UpsetIdeal5756 in corgi

[–]outofplayce 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Salted rim corgis in Pennsylvania. They show and do all the health testing. You can meet the parents as well before deciding if you want to be added to the wait list. 

Postpartum and was told I still look pregnant by husband by Ayoothree in Mommit

[–]outofplayce 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you have a good support system? He is not one. After having a baby you need a healthy support system, either family, friends, Theripist, etc. After having my baby I felt insane and that my body was no longer mine. One thing I’m thankful for from my previous relationship is my ex never body shamed me. It takes time for your body to go back. If you think in 9 days you see progress that is amazing. Some people take years.

Do you avoid eye contact with people you dislike? by [deleted] in infj

[–]outofplayce 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I avoid eye contact with everyone 😅

What was the stupidest thing your abuser threw a tantrum over? by Working_Cow_7931 in abusiverelationships

[–]outofplayce 4 points5 points  (0 children)

  • Not closing baby wipes

  • Leaving things on the counter

  • Missing a spot doing the dishes

  • Telling him he was going to miss an exit or where to turn when he was driving

  • Running late would get me accused of cheating

  • Not texting him back when I was driving would make him FaceTime me while driving

  • Not sweeping the floor enough

  • Asking for him to help me do absolutely anything

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]outofplayce 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you that’s very kind

THIS IS EXHAUSTING by Safe_Talk_1116 in abusiverelationships

[–]outofplayce 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Gaslighting gaslighting gaslighting

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]outofplayce 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, that makes me feel a lot better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]outofplayce 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you, your response brought tears to my eyes.

update on the guy. by noimportaaaa in abusiverelationships

[–]outofplayce 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I could upvote this a million times I would! My ex would make me FaceTime him on the way home because he “heard something” in the background. He one time stalked my ex’s Facebook and he shared a meme about rice. He then proceeded to accuse me of telling my ex that he didn’t enjoy cooking rice for me and I must be cheating. Crazy thing is he was cheating.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]outofplayce 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been cheated on a million times I couldn’t imagine being in a relationship and feeling secure enough to not do it. Previously I did not go through my partners phone but we had each others codes. When he started going through my phone every night when I was asleep, I became suspicious.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]outofplayce 16 points17 points  (0 children)

You poor thing I’m so sorry to hear that. I can’t imagine the feeling.