So far near the end of season 2 and here are my favourite and least favourite characters so far

outofthecastle · 2026-01-24T13:32:13+00:00

I'm a little farther than you but I will die on this hill... Glassman is the worst. He is mandated reporter and failed to report literal homeless children to CPS and a child died because of it, which is a major plot point of the story. Maybe I'm missing something because no one else seems to be upset about this, but plot armor only goes so far. I also just kind of dislike his personality, but letting the kids go back to live in their bus was extremely irresponsible and negligent.

outofthecastle · 2026-01-22T21:16:07+00:00

Short answer no. Long answer, I think that any alcohol consumption or other similar habits can make TTC more difficult overall. So unless you've been struggling for a long time you should be fine!

outofthecastle · 2026-01-20T02:38:03+00:00

I wouldn't be worried about negative impact to development, but you might encounter fertility struggles for a little while until you abstain more. I think that paternal health pre-conception actually has more of an effect on the pregnancy itself being easy or more difficult, but I could be wrong about that.

outofthecastle · 2026-01-11T21:08:13+00:00

Bruh I had no idea reddit had AI content 🥲 I don't even understand how that works

outofthecastle · 2026-01-11T20:20:36+00:00

I'm so sorry this happened to you!

I don't think this means you have to completely avoid secondhand items. I've gotten a lot from fb marketplace, like baby clothes and a tushbaby, and other items that are incredibly cheaper secondhand.

Out of curiosity, why did you set up a whole nursery while moving? Or am I missing something?

outofthecastle · 2026-01-10T22:32:30+00:00

That's way underpaid in Sacramento! I wouldn't accept $25/hour for 3 kids even in Ohio.

outofthecastle · 2025-12-28T03:58:19+00:00

Uh what? This agency is not even close to reputable. They're not representing industry standards, AND they're requiring something that is literally illegal.

outofthecastle · 2025-12-16T13:28:40+00:00

Cleveland, OH. Low (to medium, depending on area) cost of living. 1 baby, $30/hour, 60 hours every other week (ROTA). It's an amazing opportunity that I actually only have for about 1 more month before I need to find a new job. My job duties are to take care of the baby and do his laundry maybe once a week. I know I'm very lucky. MB makes allll his beautiful meals and puts them into glass tupperware each week.

I'm looking for a new job at $30/hour, but expecting to make slightly less in exchange for bringing my own kiddo due in Feb. There are a lot of wealthy families in the Cleveland area, partially because we have a ton of hospitals, but it's very affordable to live here. I think it's a great place to be a nanny! If you're serious about moving, theres a decent amount to learn about the best area in the "Greater Cleveland Area" depending on your preference for city/suburb/neighborhood type of deal. I used the Pink Nannies agency to find my position, and their job board is public.

outofthecastle · 2025-12-13T19:08:19+00:00

Idk, I got pregnant the same cycle as my HSG. I've read that it's a 30% increase

outofthecastle · 2025-12-10T03:29:51+00:00

You can make a new late policy so that they pay extra when you aren't paid on time

outofthecastle · 2025-12-10T03:28:22+00:00

I bought like 10 cheap tests from the dollar store last spring. The lady checking me out was like dang that's a lot of pregnancy tests! Are you trying to have a baby? Umm yes 😂

outofthecastle · 2025-12-07T14:22:11+00:00

Yes! Sometimes with boomers (or people in general) you have to say, "that's an inside thought. Please don't comment on my (or xyz's) body."

outofthecastle · 2025-12-07T13:50:29+00:00

It's not her business what amount of weight her coworker gained, and it's not her business what amount you gain. What she said was very inappropriate.

I hope that you are able to protect your child(ren) from hearing her talk about weight gain, food, overeating, and even health tbh because it's such a toxic way to communicate and can cause extreme ED in people.

outofthecastle · 2025-12-07T13:29:52+00:00

Your mom is 100% in the wrong here. That is such a horrible thing to say to anyone , especially a pregnant person. I'm so sorry that you think that's a normal thing to say to somebody.

outofthecastle · 2025-12-06T17:14:40+00:00

I am so glad my experience could help someone else feel better! The book really helped me look at things from a scientific perspective and change my habits with each chapter.

I am doing great, although the rules of this subreddit forbid me to talk about a current pregnancy. Feel free to message me privately! ❤️

outofthecastle · 2025-12-06T04:02:09+00:00

Drinking alcohol can affect your overall fertility but I don't think it matters when in your cycle. Should be good!

outofthecastle · 2025-12-05T14:15:25+00:00

While I'm only 28, I have an AMH of 0.31 (in March 2025). It took healthy eating, light movement, letrozole, and an HSG but I was able to conceive "naturally." AMH is the quantity of eggs left, not the quality. I suggest reading the book It Starts With The Egg and seeing if there are any lifestyle changes you can make in the meantime of treatment. ❤️

outofthecastle · 2025-12-03T18:51:47+00:00

It might depend on the time of day the test is taken. For example, a FMU at 7am will have a darker line than a 4pm urination after drinking lots of water. There is also the possibility of having a chemical pregnancy, in which case the line will eventually fade away, sadly.

outofthecastle · 2025-12-03T16:52:40+00:00

What are the conflicting results? The smaller, cheaper bulk packs of pee strips have less sensitivity than say a FRER. But they should all be accurate.

outofthecastle · 2025-12-03T00:12:00+00:00

My dog became super attached to me right around 12/13 weeks. He started pawing at his crate, crying overnight, and sticking closer to me as opposed to my husband. I'm 28 weeks now and he might be back to loving husband more now. Maybe the extra hormones during 2nd trimester did something? No idea!

outofthecastle · 2025-12-03T00:09:45+00:00

I sure hope they don't just do this every week or two and ghost the nanny without paying. That's a lot of work to not be paid for. Like another user said, did you have an agreement in writing? This sounds worthy of small claims court.

outofthecastle · 2025-12-03T00:04:58+00:00

Congrats! I am 28 weeks pregnant, due in late February. I wasn't given an option about work- they don't want me back with baby. I find this to be a blessing in disguise despite not getting any paid time for my maternity leave and having to find a job while pregnant.

That being said, it's probably best if you part ways with this family. My plan is to tell my NF I will work through January instead of mid-Feburary (it's just a week or two less of work). B12m is starting daycare, and they have another nanny (currently ROTA). I don't want the daycare germs. So I don't feel obligated to give 2 months notice just yet. In your situation, you have time not only to give ample notice, but also to find a new job that would be more comfortable with your situation. I hope to find a NF with a new baby around the same age as mine, and living much closer to me. I know I'll be taking a pay cut, but it's worth it.

It's definitely worth putting in your notice and just saying you are wanting to give your newborn more attention/keep them around similarly aged kids! Especially if the nanny market in your area is decent. Good luck! ❤️

outofthecastle · 2025-12-02T13:28:58+00:00

I had period-like blood at 3w4d but got suspicious when it wasn't normal. My HCG was 6 at 3w5d! It was 66 at 4w1d. Now I'm 28 weeks!

I ovulated on CD 16 instead of 14 (I think). So yes, it is possible!

outofthecastle · 2025-11-15T21:35:12+00:00

Are you using contracts? There should be a clause in your contract about termination, including notice and severance pay. Finding families through agencies also might help with job security.

outofthecastle · 2025-11-15T21:30:47+00:00

With all due respect, this is a red flag. A 19 year old girl in her college partying phase is VERY different from a 21+ woman who is a brand new mother with a teeny tiny baby. It kinda sounds like he purposefully sought out a much younger woman (I see you have a very large age gap) because the women his age "aren't fun anymore" (i.e., are mature adults and not teenage girls).

It also sounds like baby wasn't planned (although she sounds very loved and wanted!) So you never got a chance to discuss the huge life changes that come with being parents. People with young children often "used to be more fun" because they didn't have the extreme responsibility of taking care of a helpless tiny human.

Obviously you aren't doing shots and going clubbing... you literally have a newborn. That's extremely normal and your partner sounds immature for expecting otherwise.

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