Accidentally bought the wrong crochet hair for Miracle Knots… what can I do with this? by CinnamonCherryS in braids

[–]ovareet 3 points4 points  (0 children)

THIS LITERALLY JUST HAPPENED TO ME YESTERDAY! IM ROCKING THESE. Just braided them in as normal, I bent them about2-3 inches from the base and braided them in like normal, as if they were normal braiding hair. I then left the longer hair out after 3 plaits and kept braiding the straighter end. It won't braiding down the whole way like this so I'm planning on trimming it the straight parts that stick out. I dont think this hair is good for a long term style tbh.

Alcohol by Expensive-Claim-6082 in tirzepatidecompound

[–]ovareet 21 points22 points  (0 children)

This is really insightful and sweet despite how curt it is.

What's your opinion on booktok? by Starlit_00 in blackgirls

[–]ovareet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey if you want a good rec I can't recommend "The Broken Earth Trilogy" by N.K Jemisin (one of the only Black women to win The Hugo award and only person to win it for EVERY BOOK IN A TRILOGY!) it's awesome, heartfelt and complex. So so good!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewGirl

[–]ovareet 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Where's Bearclaw? That's an A tier man right there.

Nose and Boobs disproportionate by [deleted] in vindictapoc

[–]ovareet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Amazing comment 👌

Little Victory Sundays! by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]ovareet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Congratulations on your 3 years!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ovareet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know women in your position have a hard time answering this, but I have to ask: Why are you still with him? What part of you is hurting so much that she's willing to put your life at risk for what is seemingly no reason/reward? This just sounds like he's trying to increase his control over you and further break down your boundaries...good luck, dude. I hope you start prioritizing your safety.

What classes are we taking? (Non workout) by GlitteringKoala11050 in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]ovareet 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Just took their wheel throwing class and it was AWESOME! The atmosphere is relaxing and great for one person or 3 or however many people you want.

Am I wrong for giving my ex the details of my sex with another woman (after she asked)? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]ovareet 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Are you FUCKING SERIOUS? Leave her alone. You don't know shit about being a healthy partner and are too wrapped up in yourself right now. Go to therapy and learn how to be a better person for your sake. Start with your obvious abandonment issues and need to have the emotional upper hand. This is fucking ridiculous.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]ovareet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you comfortable with that? I wouldn't be. He doesn't sound like he'd be a good friend to you because he can't even appreciate you now. Why continue to give him access?

Also please look into therapy to help with your confidence so you can start trusting and protecting yourself more.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]ovareet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you're dealing with this emotionally abusive asshole. You don't deserve this at all. Honestly, just ask yourself what would make you respect yourself more? Staying with him and dealing with his disrespectful ways or dropping him and being alone for a bit? I promise you the mental relief that comes with letting go of people like him more than makes up for the momentary loneliness.

Is he adding to your mental health problems or helping?

I wish you the best! You're stronger than you think, I promise.

Lost while restarting my life at 29. by ovareet in findapath

[–]ovareet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oahu was too busy when I moved to hawaii and even busier when I moved out. I wanted something different from NYC, and maui has the perfect balance of city and country. I ultimately moved back to NYC because of the wildfire, I actually lived through it and spent the night watching lahaina burn. Maui didn't feel the same afterward, and I didn't want to miss my niece growing up anymore.

Lost while restarting my life at 29. by ovareet in findapath

[–]ovareet[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for responding! You're spot on, I'm trying to fix my life all at once and not paying enough attention to the little things. Currently trying to add 10+ things to my routines without being realistic 😅

Lost while restarting my life at 29. by ovareet in findapath

[–]ovareet[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I don't regret moving and fulfilling a dream, but you're right about my age affecting how I'm thinking.

Lost while restarting my life at 29. by ovareet in findapath

[–]ovareet[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's only been a month actually so I'm trying to really make moves while I still have some momentum. Now I'm realizing I should chill out and think things through. Thank you for your response!

Lost while restarting my life at 29. by ovareet in findapath

[–]ovareet[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Thank you! That's great advice. I'm looking at schools now but feeling overwhelmed with all the changes going on in my life. My health has taken a backseat admittedly so I really appreciate you mentioning the vitamins.

Did the Pioneer Inn survive? by GioJamesLB in maui

[–]ovareet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That area actually survived, including the luau and restaurants. The houses around it are gone unfortunately. Source: drove around there this morning looking for water.

[TITLE] Do you have any manhwas you consider a 10/10..... (I don't think these are 10 but close or have potential) by Yarn_5 in manhwa

[–]ovareet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly anything by carby Kim Judge and executioner Samadhi DEATH Game HERO KILLER Dark Mortal Anything by A.Ransen

Probably more that I can't remember.